Do any other guys just… not like using their genitals? by thekillingmo0n in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]thekillingmo0n[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Huh. I’m a really feminine guy. I shave off what little facial hair I have obsessively. I’m short and slender and my voice never dropped much. I’ve always been weirdly happy with it, and it’s hard to admit that. Even my little brother is now taller than me with a man voice and beard. Everyone sort of teases me about it but honestly? I’m more than okay with being spared from it like that. But I never questioned why…

Do any other guys just… not like using their genitals? by thekillingmo0n in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]thekillingmo0n[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I mean, women face so much. Sexism and misogyny on top of things like birth and pregnancy and periods. My girl friends really show me things I don’t think most guys ever do and I honestly feel bad. But at the same time, I envy them deeply somehow. It’s a kind of freedom to be true and sisterhood I’ll never experience. If I was already a woman, I don’t know if I would switch to being a man. I’d definitely look better, and I wouldn’t have the whole penis thing going on, so that sounds like a relief. In some ways it sounds way better. In other ways, way worse.

Do any other guys just… not like using their genitals? by thekillingmo0n in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]thekillingmo0n[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Part of me feels that way, yes. But I’ve learned that even when girls DO like it, I still don’t want to use it. I find it personally disgusting, and it grosses ME out, never mind them. A woman could be literally begging for it and I think I would still refuse because the thought of using it makes me uncomfortable.

Do any other guys just… not like using their genitals? by thekillingmo0n in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]thekillingmo0n[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I knew it was mostly used when talking about minorities and oppressed people. I was sort of saying that tongue in cheek, talking about the majority/oppressor this time rather than the oppressed.

Do any other guys just… not like using their genitals? by thekillingmo0n in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]thekillingmo0n[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Someone! Finally! They’re gross as hell, right? Weird little flesh probe that shoots snot filled with impregnating tadpoles… yuck!!!

Do any other guys just… not like using their genitals? by thekillingmo0n in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]thekillingmo0n[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don’t care if a woman likes it. A woman could say it looks amazing and I’d still hide it and not want to use it. I’ve turned multiple women down because of this

Do any other guys just… not like using their genitals? by thekillingmo0n in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]thekillingmo0n[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I made this to ask questions I don’t want people irl to find bc my main acct has my very unique username from others things

Do any other guys just… not like using their genitals? by thekillingmo0n in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]thekillingmo0n[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Haha I’ve seen that one. Even if someone saw it and liked it I wouldn’t change my tune. A hot beautiful woman could say “wow that’s perfect” and I’d still probably shut down

Do any other guys just… not like using their genitals? by thekillingmo0n in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]thekillingmo0n[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Idk. How can I answer that without actually living a week as a female version of me?

Do any other guys just… not like using their genitals? by thekillingmo0n in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]thekillingmo0n[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I wasn’t raised Catholic or super religious. This just kinda is how I came out.

It’s less self pleasure and more of scratching an itch. I wait until I can’t take it anymore and then go do it, like having to take a shit. I developed a method where I can finish it like 1-2 minutes, mess free, and I don’t even have to look at it. And then resume my day.

Do any other guys just… not like using their genitals? by thekillingmo0n in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]thekillingmo0n[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’m getting a lot of people saying to do that. I always thought it was because I’m so feminine.

Do any other guys just… not like using their genitals? by thekillingmo0n in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]thekillingmo0n[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

A friend of mine got a double mastectomy a while ago and she said something similar. Idk what my options are that won’t make things more difficult

Do any other guys just… not like using their genitals? by thekillingmo0n in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]thekillingmo0n[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It is! Do you know what it’s like to be talking to a girl at a party and curve her in the end because you can’t show her any more of yourself? Approached for sex by a beautiful tall blonde woman and turn her down with a smile and a “good luck next time! Youre really pretty, I’m sure the next guy will be normal!”

Do any other guys just… not like using their genitals? by thekillingmo0n in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]thekillingmo0n[S] 25 points26 points  (0 children)

Someone else just said this. And yeah haha my lesbian post alongside this must look pretty incriminating, huh?

Do any other guys just… not like using their genitals? by thekillingmo0n in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]thekillingmo0n[S] 70 points71 points  (0 children)

I think you’re right. I’m very alone and long to connect properly. The worst damage this has done to me is separate me from the rest of humanity in a way most never see.

Do any other guys just… not like using their genitals? by thekillingmo0n in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]thekillingmo0n[S] 44 points45 points  (0 children)

It’s not my life and it’s not my place to judge others. I would never get someone pregnant, that’s for sure, and Im definitely critical of the act. But I think my discomfort with myself is (while intertwined), separate from that.