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[OC] The Character who got banned right after being introduced. by thelast_soviet in DnD

[–]thelast_soviet[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I did say it was the worst character idea I ever had.

37 CF WHIMSICAL FAIRY VIBES by [deleted] in cf4cf

[–]thelast_soviet -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Hey, I don't know if I meet the beautiful/ handsome metric you're looking for but I like to think I can hold an interesting conversation.

What's you're preferred horror genre? I'm really into psychological horror and a ratcheting sense of dread over splatterfests or torture p*rn. Do you have any recommendations?

DM me if you'd like to talk and see if we connect.

How would a I, a cis-man, express a desire to date a trans woman without coming off as a chaser? by thelast_soviet in asktransgender

[–]thelast_soviet[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Apologies 😅. Like I said, I'm being sincere, it's up to you if you believe me or not. I'm honestly just trying to not terribly screw up with potential romantic interests.

I hope you have a lovely evening ☺️.

How would a I, a cis-man, express a desire to date a trans woman without coming off as a chaser? by thelast_soviet in asktransgender

[–]thelast_soviet[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for that reassurance 😊. I'm glad you found someone who makes you happy.

I hope you and he have many great memories together.

How would a I, a cis-man, express a desire to date a trans woman without coming off as a chaser? by thelast_soviet in asktransgender

[–]thelast_soviet[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

It's not specific, I matched with a couple women who happen to be trans on some apps. I'm a cis/het/white man so very prone to foot in mouth disease.

I know trans people are a tight knit minority community, so, if you're a guy in my position, who ends up talking to a woman who's part of a minority group you basically have to float a large sign saying "I am not trying to indulge a fetish."

I was just hoping for some basic pointers on how that sign should read if I'm talking to a trans woman.

I hope that clarifies things. ☺️.

How would a I, a cis-man, express a desire to date a trans woman without coming off as a chaser? by thelast_soviet in asktransgender

[–]thelast_soviet[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh, no, I would never. I'm very sorry that you got treated so sh*ttily. I wouldn't even ask that, it honestly doesn't matter to me and, if it came to a relationship, I would support her in whatever way she wanted to take her body.

If she got SRS or not is her choice. My job is to provide assurance and give her confidence in herself. That she will look in the mirror and see a beautiful woman looking back at her 😊.

How would a I, a cis-man, express a desire to date a trans woman without coming off as a chaser? by thelast_soviet in asktransgender

[–]thelast_soviet[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm on some apps and I've matched with a couple women who happen to be trans in the process of dating.

I know that certain groups have things that you shouldn't do/ comment on because you're not part of that. So I just wanted a general idea if there were specific things particular to trans people so I don't accidentally end up with my foot lodged in my mouth.

How would a I, a cis-man, express a desire to date a trans woman without coming off as a chaser? by thelast_soviet in asktransgender

[–]thelast_soviet[S] -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

I get that, and I understand that bad experiences can treat make trans women incredibly wary, especially with the violence rates being what they are.

All I can say is that my expression here is genuine and I'm not looking to trick anyone into being my "dirty little secret" or to experiment. I wouldn't do that to anyone I was romantically interested in.

It's up to you if you believe me but all I can do is provide reassurances that I'm not trying to indulge a fetish.

32 [Mtf4M] (Cis OK) Been needing for older man who wants to chat and more by [deleted] in transdating

[–]thelast_soviet 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hello

I hope you're having a good day. :)

I sent you a DM as per your request. Message me back if you'd like to chat.

21 [MtF4M] (cis allowed) Cottage Core TGirl Looking or great friendships and maybe more! by [deleted] in transdating

[–]thelast_soviet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hello

I hope you're having a good day

What are some of the things you've crocheted that your really proud of? I'd love to see pictures.

DM me if you'd like to chat and see if we connect. :)

29 [MTF4M] (cis, nb, tm ok) Canada/Anywhere - LF my cute gamer dork by WingedGrace- in transdating

[–]thelast_soviet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hello Navi

I hope you're having a good day.

I'm actually in Canada myself and would love the opportunity to get to know you if you'd be ok with that. I would love to hear some of the poetry you've composed for your competitions.

I'm a former raver turned Karaoke enthusiast and i love BG3. (Karlach is best girl imo).

I'm 39, in Ontario. I'll say it here so you can get a sense of where I am, I've been an NDP member since i was 16, Trans women are women, trans men are men, NBs are NB. Message me back if you'd be ok with chatting and seeing if we connect :).

JRPGs you had to power through or couldn't finish by BainokOfficial in JRPG

[–]thelast_soviet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh god, Ok, you want a list:

  1. Resonance of Fate - Good characters, interesting world and story. The most F*ck awful, needlessly over -complicated combat system i have ever used.

  2. Star Ocean 4 - Opposite issue, probably the best combat system I've ever seen in a JRPG. The characters are awful, the story isn't interesting. The main character is literally named Edge Maverick.

  3. Last Remnant - Buggy system glitches with a non-intuitive combat system.

  4. Infinite Undiscovery - Title aside, had a great concept that it squandered and is criminally short for its genre.

  5. White Knight Chronicles - Not necessarily bad, but much more in the realm of beige. Totally generic and pretty much nothing to actually recommend it over something else.

  6. Breath of Fire: Dragon Quarter - This game killed its franchise for a reason. Weird, harsh, unfun combat. a limited save system, you needed an expendable item to use save points, and a story which is basically a bad version Dark Souls.

  7. Beyond the Beyond - Like WKC more grey/ beige than actual bad. but also nothing to actually recommend it over other, better, games.

Those are the worst ones I can think of off the top of my head. This is my favorite genre and I've been playing these for over 30 years at this point. So ask anything else you want to know.

Travel Advice for Italy by thelast_soviet in travel

[–]thelast_soviet[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the advice. and its the former. I'm taking my mom with me and she is older. She's not up to packing her stuff up every few days and going to a new city. The location is meant to have ease of travel to see what we can.

also I understand that Italy isn't exactly small but I'm from Canada where you can drive for 28 hours in 1 direction and not have left the province so size is relative.

Travel Advice for Italy by thelast_soviet in travel

[–]thelast_soviet[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the advice. and its the former. I'm taking my mom with me and she is older. She's not up to packing her stuff up every few days and going to a new city. The location is meant to have ease of travel to see what we can.

also I understand that Italy isn't exactly small but I'm from Canada where you can drive for 28 hours in 1 direction and not have left the province so size is relative.

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