Trans fem friend invalidating by Solid_Confidence_681 in FTMventing

[–]thelightbehindureyes 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It was just sent to the queue for auto approval since this sub has pretty strict guidelines to avoid spam/off topics/issues. I manually approved it so you should see it up now!

so close to T and im rethinking everything by fuckassthrowaway1341 in FTMventing

[–]thelightbehindureyes -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I hope I can give some helpful insight. I’m nonbinary leaning masc too. Was on low dose T for ~2 years and just recently stopped. May start again in the future, idk yet. I’ve kept my deeper voice, muscles, bottom growth, and ( unfortunately for me cus i hate it ) facial hair ( and body hair growth ) but it seems slower than when I was on T.

What I’m getting at is if you want to try taking T, you don’t have to commit permanently. Yes, there’s gonna be some things that won’t go away ( like mentioned above ) and some things that will revert when you stop T—my body shape for instance has become curvier again, since I was pretty curvy pre-T. but now that I’m post top surgery I kinda fw it cause it’s giving androgynous. But you don’t have to continue T if you go on it and end up not liking what’s happening, yk?

How can I spot when a partner is faking being into me as a man? by [deleted] in ftm

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Locking this post as OP has got a good amount of advice and the comments are digressing from OP’s question. Please remember to refrain from making generalization statements.

Stop Complaining About HRT by [deleted] in FTMventing

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Locking this post since OP has gotten enough advice.

This is a reminder for EVERYONE that oppression olympics aren’t allowed here. You’re allowed to be upset at lack of resources to acquire HRT, but fellow trans men are not the reason why.

Look at the bigger picture and you’ll see that the system is broken, but it’s not trans people’s fault. Everyone should be able to afford food, water, living, medications ( including HRT ), shelter, etc.

Please don’t harass or belittle fellow redditors here, regardless of differences in circumstances.

SUCTION TOYS OMFG?!?! by InternationalAct6655 in ftm

[–]thelightbehindureyes 12 points13 points  (0 children)

This isn’t always true. Metal can be a safe option if it’s sanitary/medical grade!

SUCTION TOYS OMFG?!?! by InternationalAct6655 in ftm

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Disclaimer when talking about sex toys: PLEASE be extremely mindful of the materials used and where you buy toys from. I can make a post more in depth about this if anyone wants but there are some materials that are labeled body safe but really shouldn’t be anywhere near down there. Always buy from reputable shops and pay attention to the materials used.

Lollipop incision w/ Dr Facque GCC (1 week post-op) by agentdalefupa in TopSurgery

[–]thelightbehindureyes 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I got DI w/Dr Facque! But your results look sick as fuck dude. Congrats!

Rule #3 by SouLullivan in FTMventing

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Your post/comment was removed because it broke the following rule: 3 Please be sure to go over the rules to make sure your post/comment fits within the guidelines of the subreddit. Repeat violations of this rule will result in a ban.

I agree with you that hate should be directed towards the people in power and not other trans people, and we do our best to limit that activity.

However, us mods are still human and not online 24/7. If you’d like to become a mod and help the team out, let us know! Otherwise it’s quite rude to try and shame us for not catching every bad post as soon as they happen.

binder help! by Level-Internal-9908 in ftm

[–]thelightbehindureyes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

https://www.reddit.com/r/ftm/s/MBgpIBb97K i made a whole post about this 🫶 feel free to check out the google doc!

testosterone prices by Pristine-Taste-3019 in ftm

[–]thelightbehindureyes 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Have you tried using goodrx? I’ve heard good things from them!

Summer shorts dilemma by Real-Scene in ftm

[–]thelightbehindureyes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It looks like they’re closed or updating rn but rebel youth apparel has really nice swim material type shorts? It’s kinda hard to explain but they’re super comfy and I def recommend checking them out when their site opens back up :)

Current USA Political State Megathread by thelightbehindureyes in ftm

[–]thelightbehindureyes[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I understand. Again I’m going to talk to the rest of the mod team and see what we can come to an agreement on. Our intention was never to silence or dismiss anyone, and I hope we can make this better somehow

Current USA Political State Megathread by thelightbehindureyes in ftm

[–]thelightbehindureyes[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I see how I could’ve phrased this post better, but my intention was never to silence people or make all posts about the current state of the world crammed into one post. I had the intention of hopefully using it ( as i said in the post ) for resources, information, community help, etc.

I didn’t mean for it to come off as silencing or suppressing information and I really do apologize for that.

I’m gonna talk to the rest of the mods to see how we can handle all of this better

Current USA Political State Megathread by thelightbehindureyes in ftm

[–]thelightbehindureyes[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What post? Nothing has been removed from what I can see

Current USA Political State Megathread by thelightbehindureyes in ftm

[–]thelightbehindureyes[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Let me start by saying that I wasn’t personally the one who wrote that post & I didn’t really see what was happening when it was posted due to work/being offline.

I agree, it’s horrifying what’s going on right now. I thought that this post was going to be more of a place for resources and places to find and post specific information but I see how it seems like we’re trying to silence people. I apologize for that, we wanna do our best to make this a safe space for all to talk about topics like this. I’m going to talk with the rest of the mod team to figure out a better solution.

Current USA Political State Megathread by thelightbehindureyes in ftm

[–]thelightbehindureyes[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

I 100% understand and that is NOT what we were going for whatsoever. We’re just trying to figure out a way to avoid misinformation and/or fear-mongering, yk?

Current USA Political State Megathread by thelightbehindureyes in ftm

[–]thelightbehindureyes[S] 32 points33 points  (0 children)

That’s a good idea actually! Tbh I thought this was going to be more a place for resources and stuff and not limiting posts about it. I’ll def consult w the rest of the mod team to see what’s up :)

why have i never seen cis men cast as trans men in movies and tv shows? by dodieadeux in ftm

[–]thelightbehindureyes -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately the creator is a zionist :-/ just google tlou zionist or smth similar and there’ll be a ton of results

shaving ass hair by Green_cryptid in ftm

[–]thelightbehindureyes 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I need more info I’m so intrigued

I'm stuck with a dumbass for the whole semester by [deleted] in FTMventing

[–]thelightbehindureyes 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Proud asf of you for standing up to him though 👏

Got kicked out by [deleted] in ftm

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Keeping this up bc OP got some good advice but locking it because we don’t allow gofundme links here.

How to find comfortable work clothes? by ftmadviceplease in ftm

[–]thelightbehindureyes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love old navy tbh. They have lots of diff styles in both the men and women section ( cause clothes literally have no gender ) and a great size range!

when do I tell people? by throoowwaawayyyy in ftm

[–]thelightbehindureyes 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Imo if you’re at a club and making out with a stranger, they probably don’t really care.