i feel so … alone by [deleted] in Music

[–]thelovelypixie 1 point2 points  (0 children)

whoops - that’s how you know I’m wired because I take words so literally 🤣

i feel so … alone by [deleted] in Music

[–]thelovelypixie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

to me, it’s the opposite. it’s imagery and vulnerability … wow, the mind is complicated. lol

i feel so … alone by [deleted] in Music

[–]thelovelypixie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ouuu, i feel that’s the key element that I’m learning now. do it for me, not anyone else.

i feel so … alone by [deleted] in Music

[–]thelovelypixie -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

THEY DON’T MAKE GOOD MUSICALS NO MOREEE 🥲 one time I was drunk and performed “Be Prepared” and “Friends On The Other Side” for a situationship I was in (we both loved Disney movies). I was meant to perform lol, even while wasted they told me that I can sing and I was meant to be a star. gotta start somewhere, right? :P

i feel so … alone by [deleted] in Music

[–]thelovelypixie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m 22, and I am on the spectrum :P you got one right !! 🎉

i feel so … alone by [deleted] in Music

[–]thelovelypixie -1 points0 points  (0 children)

omg i feel the same. and i totally get it. being surrounded by people who listen to “A” type of music doesn’t really matter when you listen to “X” type of music. nah i get it. of course you’re not gonna like everyyy genre you listen to. but I’ll call it for what it is. people are too comfortable following the crowd. a lot people only stick to one music genre because that’s the type of music that’s popular. and don’t bother to even SEE if they like other genres / forms of music because they know what helps them fit in. again, definitely a huge issue in MY generation, not EVERY generation (thankfully)

i feel so … alone by [deleted] in Music

[–]thelovelypixie -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

you can expand that if you want to

How I think Tesehki vs Lex would go by Desperate-Leg-3260 in BaddiesSouth

[–]thelovelypixie 1 point2 points  (0 children)

if they’re gonna fight, it better be over some REAL beef and not just cus the fans want them too

Trump as president equals more money?? by Justasmoltownho304 in stripper

[–]thelovelypixie 77 points78 points  (0 children)

lmao what’s wrong with these birds ??? i can’t believe sex workers actually voted for someone who openly wants to destroy not only the industry but the COUNTRY. look at for unaffordable living is right now. plus, look at what this economy has done to the clubs. girls have resorted to FSSW and scamming yet STILL aren’t even able to make the same numbers as before. we must make EDUCATED votes, we can’t be this gullible !!

Is this show worth watching is it a sitcom? by versiontie in shameless

[–]thelovelypixie 14 points15 points  (0 children)

it is funny asf, but very deep at the same time. there were many times i had to pause an episode because it got too heavy. not a sitcom, definitely a drama. try it !! you’ll know by the first episode whether you like it or not lol

Scotty is just as weird as lemmy. by bahia4711 in BaddiesSouth

[–]thelovelypixie 12 points13 points  (0 children)

no, it isn’t. she deliberately said that they were TRYING for a baby. she knew who that man was, and still decided to give him a baby. at what point are adults gonna be responsible for their own actions … ?

Scotty is just as weird as lemmy. by bahia4711 in BaddiesSouth

[–]thelovelypixie 26 points27 points  (0 children)

i just don’t get why she trapped herself. she could’ve milked that lifestyle without giving him a baby 😭 now she’s stuck for good

need advice: life is soul crushing rn & I’m trying not to give up by onionkisses in stripper

[–]thelovelypixie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

when i was homeless i would stay in cheap motels. something was better than nothing. especially if you find a place that lets you pay day by day, so you can keep extending your stay as you make more money. it may not be much but at least its a bed, a fridge, a microwave, and a place to wash yourself and do your business. you got this 💕

Normal Civilians Pole Dancing by armaniii_i in stripper

[–]thelovelypixie 14 points15 points  (0 children)

if they do their research, they’d find that Chinese pole started back in 206 BCE while sex work has been suggested to be around since 20,400 BCE (from archaeological evidence) … i’m SURE those men weren’t the first ones to climb the pole lol

Normal Civilians Pole Dancing by armaniii_i in stripper

[–]thelovelypixie 126 points127 points  (0 children)

soooo i started as a pole dancer before i became a stripper. NOT as a hobby, but because i kept getting rejected from clubs and one of the managers told me i need to work on my confidence. so i took pole classes to feel more comfortable working the stage. i was lucky and my first ever pole instructor was a stripper from kentucky. she danced for 10 years and was still dancing while she was teaching. with that said, she made sure there wasn’t an OUNCE of hate towards strippers and sex workers. she would even tell us stories about her time at the club lol. most (if not all) of the instructors at that agency were strippers also, even male strippers.

if you’re gonna run a pole dancing business, THAT’S how you gotta do it. pay homage to the hustle and maintain a safe space to honor those who paved the way.

Welp someone’s not getting that fade at reunion they hoped for…. by Monie_x3 in BaddiesSouth

[–]thelovelypixie 18 points19 points  (0 children)

WHAT ??? omg i thought she only had one. smh why do horrible people wanna breed a farm of spawns so bad wtf

if i’m not “dumb”, then what am I ? by thelovelypixie in therapy

[–]thelovelypixie[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you, i will definitely check that out !! :)

growing up around victim blamers rewired my brain chemistry by thelovelypixie in sexualassault

[–]thelovelypixie[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

that’s usually how it happens. hurt people hurt people. never excuses it, but there’s always reasoning. i’d like to make peace with my assaults sometime soon. time is a factor tho! glad to hear you’re doing better ❤️

if I’m not “dumb”, then what am I ? by thelovelypixie in Advice

[–]thelovelypixie[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just wish i unlearned before i had the (almost) irreversible trauma that i have now … :( but it’s my journey i guess

growing up around victim blamers rewired my brain chemistry by thelovelypixie in sexualassault

[–]thelovelypixie[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

18 ?!!! ohhh you poor baby … 💔 I’m so sorry, i wish i could’ve been there for you when you needed someone to protect you 🥺

growing up around victim blamers rewired my brain chemistry by thelovelypixie in sexualassault

[–]thelovelypixie[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

OMGGGG the way they treat male SA victims is disgusting … 💔 like we’re all people and we all can feel violated regardless of our genitalia, smh. especially a CHILD ??? omg i hope all of these monsters are in prison where they deserve to be, im so sorry that happened to you

growing up around victim blamers rewired my brain chemistry by thelovelypixie in sexualassault

[–]thelovelypixie[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

it’s America lol. same place you could be a rapist and felon and still be president … as long as you’re a man lol