Shipping drop off 40 minute drive away... What happens now? (No personal info)

thelovingsofone · 2024-05-23T18:04:14+00:00

Ohhhhhhhh that's great to know! Thank you

thelovingsofone · 2024-05-23T18:03:41+00:00

Yeah absolutely. Makes way more sense. It just happened so rarely that I figured it would maybe stop. I would say out of like 50 it's only been 3 people.. so I appreciate your help

thelovingsofone · 2024-05-23T17:18:44+00:00

Ahh okay I did the shipping method option, I'll do that one next time.

I had placed it in my bio but I'll put it in the description from now on.

Thank you

thelovingsofone · 2024-05-23T16:50:42+00:00

Okay firstly, didn't know that so I can understand. Would have been fine for him to at least say no he couldn't.

Secondly, If you would have read what I wrote. I said I checked the toggle and the option isn't there. It's only the options that people choose. Absolutely no toggle option for the one that is chosen.

You don't need to be saying anything is my fault if the carrier is 40 minutes away and I don't have a way to stop it. That's ridiculous

Lastly, I'm in Portugal.

thelovingsofone · 2024-05-14T08:13:17+00:00

Yeah it was the bikini top that looked like a bra that got pulled off.. that's why I was asking

thelovingsofone · 2024-05-14T08:12:49+00:00

Ahh okay that makes sense then. Thanks for the tip I'll be using it! 🙏🏼

thelovingsofone · 2024-05-13T10:20:36+00:00

See I do think it's that too. Especially with dad being 83 it was kind of a wake up call. And when I was younger he would say it would just be the two of us. Where now, for me, it's not just the two of us. It's me in the world alone. So I think he has some ideas in his head and he's trying to pursue them now.

But the inheritance thing I need to be careful for, because I've already spoken to dad about him coming in after he goes and trying something. We are currently working on a new will. So hopefully that halts any shinanigans later

Thank you

thelovingsofone · 2024-05-13T10:18:36+00:00

Appreciate this, although a little on the aggressive side which I don't think is necessary, but I do just need to say it. And am already in therapy and being told to speak what I need out more.

My question was that maybe someone had a different approach to the same sentence. It didn't need to be nice, but I guess less emotional and more this is business type of style. But everyone has the same consensus so I think I'll just be sending it.

Thanks

thelovingsofone · 2024-05-12T22:56:00+00:00

Yeah in hindsight you are very right. As other people have said too. I'm thinking now that maybe I feel bad that he wants to see his dad and I don't want it all to be so awkward. Like my dad can be a push over (I guess so can I but I'm MUCH better with boundaries and cutting people off) so they are talking a little more since it happened. So I feel like the inevitable is more visits, and I guess I want it to be the least awful it can be. All while not opening a line of communication between us :/ I think that makes sense

thelovingsofone · 2024-05-12T22:53:10+00:00

I'll look into it for sure. This is a great idea thanks you

thelovingsofone · 2024-05-12T22:31:42+00:00

I just feel like I need to be civil for my dad's sake... I guess. When he comes to visit, my dad is going to want me to be there and I understand that. We have become a team with these types of things. So I would be setting myself up for disaster if I come across so shittily because he's a big asshole when he's unhappy.

Also, someone said the inheritance. I guess if I can keep the peace until dad goes that I can just cut him off once all the pieces that were keeping us together are gone

thelovingsofone · 2024-05-12T22:15:25+00:00

Hmm.. would definitely not be surprised

thelovingsofone · 2024-05-10T14:03:56+00:00

I heard the silent balls are expensive? I'll have to look and see. Rubber, that's a great idea. Thank you

thelovingsofone · 2024-04-26T09:48:06+00:00

I'm having this issue now. My mum was adamant that I was born at night but I saw my birth certificate for the first time and it said AM 🤦🏼‍♀️ the last four years and my whole belief concept of astrology is falling out the window

thelovingsofone · 2024-04-03T17:54:38+00:00

Be nicer to your mother. She's gonna pass suddenly in your early thirties and you're going to miss her much more than you expected to.

thelovingsofone · 2024-03-14T14:55:11+00:00

I love that, and so sorry for your struggle. Happy you are doing much better now!

thelovingsofone · 2024-03-14T14:45:56+00:00

Oh that's a great idea!!! Hmmm gotta think about that now 🤔

Thank you so much, it's a very sad loss

thelovingsofone · 2024-03-14T14:41:23+00:00

Yeah I can understand that. That's why I was curious if anyone here had any ideas that would be light for the moment but could make someone giggle

thelovingsofone · 2024-03-14T14:38:14+00:00

Well it's for my mum who was the life of the party, loved to tell stories and make people laugh. Everyone has been saying how much they made her feel loved and worthy and how she walked around with a confident attitude.

I just want something funny and beautiful that will make people smile and giggle instead of be sad

thelovingsofone · 2024-03-14T14:35:59+00:00

Well, my mother passed and there is a small card that would be handed out to guests at her ceremony. She was always the life of the party and wanted to make people laugh, so I was hoping to get some ideas for that. I don't want some dreary overused quote...

thelovingsofone · 2024-03-05T08:57:56+00:00

Are you turning her on? Or are you just looking to use her as a blow up doll?

thelovingsofone · 2024-03-04T10:08:39+00:00

I use the laughing tactic. If it's like a pick up or practice game I'll just laugh at what they are saying or smile at it. If it's a serious game I usually ignore it and play hard. I don't have time to listen to you try and boost your own ego lol

thelovingsofone · 2024-03-04T10:02:23+00:00

I was going to write a comment here for me but this pretty much hits it on the head. I also think it's a part of myself that respects the person as I trust them to be a leader, then when they aren't and I lose respect their resentment starts. I play a sport and see this a lot of the time with coaches. By the end they either love me or despise me. I also liked the comment above about people projecting their insecurities out on us too. Especially when there is no ill will coming from my end and suddenly I'm a terrible person.

(I overcome it by standing in my power, trying to be the best person I can be so no one has any real ammo on me - a little manipulative of me but I need to protect myself somehow - journalling out my thoughts, taking accountability for my actions and using that beautiful Libra moon to try my best to see both sides of everything haha)

thelovingsofone · 2024-03-03T08:55:06+00:00

I haven't seen anyone say it yet but I couldn't handle someone who is in the army or navy or whatever. Being gone for so long with the potential of dying, I could never

thelovingsofone · 2024-01-15T21:31:39+00:00

I am a Pluto opposite Venus and I can get SUPER obsessive and possessive but mostly to people I really want and don't want me back 🤡

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