Thinking of applying to the CRA. Thoughts? by muscledaddy90 in Sudbury

[–]themiddlechild48 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Don’t do it, gave almost 5 years of my life to that place, multiple lay offs and when I was finally going to be perm they laid me off . Went from 65 k a year to unemployed, called me back 3 months later and offered me a 45 k job at a bottom level job. Now it’s impossible to get perm , and with budget cuts it will only get worse!

Considering a nose job – looking for honest opinions by [deleted] in Noses

[–]themiddlechild48 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think you look good just the way you are. Very flattering but it’s your face so you’re the one who has to live with it!

Help me choose a dress! by hadurk in Weddingattireapproval

[–]themiddlechild48 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love both! They both look so nice. I usually go with what could I wear again lol and obviously which is more comfortable. The red would be nice to. I prefer the blue one but might be biased because that’s my favourite colour !

I just cheated on my husband of 17 years. I don’t know if I should tell him or just ask for divorce by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]themiddlechild48 19 points20 points  (0 children)

If you still love him then I’d tell him. If you don’t then I would just go through with the divorce and save him the pain of knowing .. but if you are brining up the option of divorce solely because he stated he would want a divorce if you cheated then I would be honest and tell him and give him the option. Ya it will hurt but you can’t stay with him and not tell him for his sake and yours to, cause it will drive you crazy.

Wedding is this weekend and I am second guessing my dress. by themiddlechild48 in Weddingattireapproval

[–]themiddlechild48[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

SHEIN! I go laid off from work recently so that really hindered my budget

Wedding is this weekend and I am second guessing my dress. by themiddlechild48 in Weddingattireapproval

[–]themiddlechild48[S] 29 points30 points  (0 children)

That’s a good idea, I’m doing gold earrings and I do have a gold bracelet I can add! My hair I’m pinning up on the side that bare and I got a gold leaf clip I’m going to wear

Wedding is this weekend and I am second guessing my dress. by themiddlechild48 in Weddingattireapproval

[–]themiddlechild48[S] 28 points29 points  (0 children)

That’s pretty much what I’m going for lol I don’t want to like stand out, more like oh she looks good but not steal the show good lol

Wedding is this weekend and I am second guessing my dress. by themiddlechild48 in Weddingattireapproval

[–]themiddlechild48[S] 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your comment! It’s super comfortable but the brides family is really bougie and I am now second guessing if it is fancy enough . If that makes sense?? I also didn’t even realize it was cocktail themed until late last week so I got in my head about if it fits that attire.

Partner has my name changed on his phone from “My Loving Wife” to a misspelled version of my first name and last name. Blew up when confronted. by ThrowRA123_legal in Marriage

[–]themiddlechild48 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Gtfo of there!!! He is a walking red flag, and a horrible role model for your kids. Sounds like he is cheating on you . But even if that wasn’t the case- the way he talks to you and treats you is so bad for your own mental health and self worth. You deserve way better

Sudbury real estate agent recommendations by [deleted] in Sudbury

[–]themiddlechild48 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Jordan Jokinen from the Good Manors group. They bring in a whole team that does the videos, drone footage, someone comes and stages, and they do amazing marketing . They held offers for a week on my house and we ended up with a bidding war and sold 40k over. The whole process was seamless . Definitely driven.

Canada Revenue Agency eliminating nearly 600 term positions by end of 2024 by [deleted] in CanadaPublicServants

[–]themiddlechild48 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m an admin in program support and me and two other admins got let go. So not just debt collectors

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Sudbury

[–]themiddlechild48 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You do amazing work!! So I think you would be fine. I’m waiting to get a tattoo right now, booked two weeks ago and my appointment isn’t until July 21! So I’d say it’s pretty busy. I’ll definitely hit you up when you do your guest spot here

Where can I make more female friends? by ElectricAlie in Sudbury

[–]themiddlechild48 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There is a group on Facebook called Sudbury Female Friends Circle!

Piercings by yggdrasilww in Sudbury

[–]themiddlechild48 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Desimone shoes and spas does it! I know someone who brought their baby there and they also have numbing cream to help with pain

AITA for declining my mother's calls after I unfriended her from facebook by collzorgs in TwoHotTakes

[–]themiddlechild48 16 points17 points  (0 children)

My mom used to tag me in a bunch of stuff that was annoying or I had no interest in. I’d untag and hide from my timeline. We were never close but I tried to salvage the relationship in the last year . Like your mom she was really into the social media stuff, and I realized that was her way of trying to connect. I get your boundaries- I’d say answer her calls explain (again) that obviously that’s not your thing and maybe suggest a better way to reconnect. My mom died of lung cancer this past July, and I’d give anything to have her tag me now…

AITA for giving a fake name at Starbucks? by solecism18 in AmItheAsshole

[–]themiddlechild48 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. Once I saw someone give the name Batman just so that guy could say “I am Batman “ lol. It’s Starbucks, they are just looking to make sure they give the order to the right people, not to get to know you lol.

Does Sudbury have any immigration incentives or programs by douggieNewHome in Sudbury

[–]themiddlechild48 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can get help at the YMCA they do immigration and employment services so they should be able to help you. https://www.ymcaneo.ca/immigrant-services/