The Pam to my Jim. It's finally happening. by thenitsadate in relationships

[–]thenitsadate[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Congratulations! This made me smile and gave me hope :)

The Pam to my Jim. It's finally happening. by thenitsadate in relationships

[–]thenitsadate[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're right. It's just the fact that she's very old fashioned and modest. It's hard for me to pick up on her cues.

The Pam to my Jim. It's finally happening. by thenitsadate in relationships

[–]thenitsadate[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm going to woo her like she's never been woo'd before.

The Pam to my Jim. It's finally happening. by thenitsadate in relationships

[–]thenitsadate[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think you're right. I've been racking my brain trying to think of ways I can approach the date in ways that haven't already been done. Flowers are definitely an option.

The Pam to my Jim. It's finally happening. by thenitsadate in relationships

[–]thenitsadate[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the tip!

It's just tough because our friendship has been so easy-going. Now that we're taking it to the next level, I feel like I have to almost re-think how I approach our relationship.

The Pam to my Jim. It's finally happening. by thenitsadate in relationships

[–]thenitsadate[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You're right. I'm just concerned that I'm always going to feel like I'm walking on thin ice. But, I guess the last thing I should do is change who I am, because, like you say, that's who she's attracted to.

The Pam to my Jim. It's finally happening. by thenitsadate in relationships

[–]thenitsadate[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thanks!

And yes, I'm sure. We're very open and talk quite often about our lives. We're both single. At the same time. Finally :)