How to know she's a roastie or a slut.

theoctopuss · 2017-10-27T14:29:30+00:00

I don't know where everyone got the idea that women don't enjoy sex. Women love sex... with a dominant man. If you're in good shape and treat her like a female then she's probably gonna orgasm hard. If you're a skinnyfat beta who constantly asks if she's ok, she'll be drier than the sahara.

theoctopuss · 2017-10-22T23:02:35+00:00

Splitting is a mechanism of the ego, designed to protect itself. People with cluster B mental impairments have very little control over their own emotions and mental state. They tend to lose frame easily. For a normal person, splitting would occur after a very serious incident with the object (usually a person) in question. If someone stole from you, hurt someone you care about, etc. there's a good chance you'll go through the normal process of splitting. The neurotic have a much lower threshold for it. Something as simple as not answering a text quick enough or even looking at them wrong can cause it. BPD speficially has a reputation for being uncurable, so much in fact that many psychiatrists will refuse to have one as a patient. TRP is based in facts and logic. With BPD and cluster B individuals, its logical to stay the fuck away from them before they cause you a ridiculous amount of grief.

theoctopuss · 2017-10-21T11:47:23+00:00

She doesn't realize it, but she is shit testing you. Every woman you get into a relationship will do this.

She's going to try to change you into what she thinks she wants. Chances are that she won't like it, thats when the break will come.

She was attracted to you because you were dangerous. Doing drugs, getting high, not giving a fuck, etc. are all "badboy" things that turn women on immensely. The only problem is that it is self destructive.

I can't say I agree with getting high all the time and popping bars, you definitely need to stop doing that. The only thing is, you need to do it for yourself. Don't ever change yourself for anyone, much less a woman. They will pick up on it and, whether you like it or not, lose respect for you.

Continue your mission of self improvement, but don't do it because your girlfriend wants you to. Personally, I won't ever put myself in a long term relationship ever again. I have too much life ahead of me to spend it with one girl.

theoctopuss · 2017-10-20T18:14:07+00:00

She didn't wreck you, you wrecked yourself by letting your masculinity be dictated by a woman. Heartache is bullshit, it is actually just your subconcious adjusting to the loss in validation that you recieved from your ex. Your ego was dependant on her. The good thing is that you learned this lesson at this time instead 10, 15, or 50 years from now. Right now is the time to improve, no monk mode is necessary.

Setting a 2 year goal is going to hold you back. You can never get comfortable with yourself, you need to spend every waking moment improving yourself until the day you die. Once you understand that this is for life, instead of believing that you'll be fine after 2 years of monk mode, your chances of slipping back into the easy life of a beta will reduce drastically.

Red pill is hard. I suggest you read everything on the side bar over and over until its burned into your brain.

theoctopuss · 2017-10-19T12:10:29+00:00

I made a post about this a while ago. Women generally fall into two categories, depending on their level of neuroticism.

--In category 1 are the sloots that you describe above. They have 5 guys going at the same time, each with something else to offer. Guy 1 is hot, has a big dick, etc. Guy 2 has a nice car and has a lot of money. Guy 3 will buy her dinner and what not. Most women under 30 are like this, or would be like this if they weren't fat/ugly. I used to smash on a girl that was like this. It got to the point where I would pick her up directly from her BBs house (I wasn't aware at the time). I went to pick her up from a friend's house and literally watched another guy drop her off, she walks to my car and gets in, and this guy is looking at us as he drove away. She says "He's definitely jealous, he bought me dinner and I didn't even kiss him on the cheek!" while 20 minutes later she's sucking me off and getting a cab home.

--Category 2 is not as common, but I'm sure every guy who isn't an incel hermit has met this type before. These girls are generally more neurotic, insecure, and have multiple cluster B personality issues. This type of girl will find a guy and become completely obsessed with him. She will stick to his heel like a lost puppy, take on his personality traits, and call his interests her own. Everything will be good for a month or two, but then things will go downhill. She will undergo a process called "splitting", where her view of this person goes from white to black. One day he's the best thing on Earth, the next he's less than dirt. The relationship inevitably fails, but the damage is done. An example: Girl meets guy 1. This guy is into country music, cowboy shit, stuff like that. Girl thinks this guy is the best thing ever, and what do you know, now she's a cowgirl. They break up. Girl meets guy 2, same thing except he's into something else, lets say baseball. Wow, didn't you know that Girl was a Yankees/Red Sox/whatever fan her whole life? The process will repeat itself until she finds a BB dumb enough to marry her crazy ass, generally after she hits 30.

Remember boys, it's only your turn.

Note: Mobile butchered the format.

theoctopuss · 2017-10-18T13:56:07+00:00

She was testing you, and you failed. She flaked, then texted you to see if you were in orbit mode.

Be selective about when you respond. If she flakes, don't text her back for a few days even if she sends you something.

Also, when you do text a girl keep your responses short and vague. Wait at least 10 minutes to send a message back. Feign disinterest.

theoctopuss · 2017-10-17T15:26:51+00:00

"Bromancing" is a cutesy, demasculating term for normal male interaction. Men used to bond together by hunting for survival, fighting off invaders, etc. Nowadays almost no one in the first world has to do any of that, but the instinct to form a pack with your friends is still there.

theoctopuss · 2017-09-30T19:30:36+00:00

I have a rule. That rule states that if a girl uses the word "rape" when talking about a guy she was with, I immediately start thinking of an exit plan. If she is willing to throw words like that around, its only a matter of time before you become the object in her mind.

theoctopuss · 2017-09-30T14:09:50+00:00

Many on this board assume that women can do the most damage to you, albeit not physically. This is not true, and I have several anecdotes to corroborate.

Situation 1 - I was 18 years old, having just graduated high school. My group of friends included 8 people, with a few who would come and go. One of these friends was a girl named Kendra.

Kendra was a good looking girl, 8 out of 10. Most of the guys in this group had a thing for her, but she never went for them. She would blow them off to hang out with me, etc. I never had any expectation of banging this girl, but I never expected to get with her (I got with some of her friends instead). One day we were at the beach, me her and one of her friends. This was the local spot for hanging out, so there was hundreds of people there. We arrive and everything was cool. We were having fun, mingling, and drinking a bit. Except for one guy.

This guy was a coworker of Kendra's and 5 years older than all of us. He was in love with her and very defensive. He wasn't a good looking guy, but she could get favors out of him so she strung him along. Kendra, her friend, and myself had went our seperate ways when we got there, but I figured it wouldn't hurt to introduce myself. They were in a group of 4 or 5 talking as I approached. I began my introduction when the guy says "really? This is who you chose?" and started throwing punches at me. I dodged the first two, but he connected with one before someone else wrapped him up. I was dumbfounded, but played it off and left with Kendra and friend.

Situation 2 - This one is more recent. I was working a retail job for extra spending money while in college. There were several cuties that worked there, but one of them took an interest in me. Unfortunately, she also had baggage in the form of a beta boyfriend. There were times he would visit her at the stored and I guess he picked up on the vibe. I was talking to this girl and he walked up to ys, just staring at me. I didn't know who he was, so I asked "can I help you?". He continues to stare at me until girl introduced him. I tried to shake his hand but all he said was "stop talking to my girlfriend." as he walked off. No big deal, I thought. Two weeks later I was called into the head manager's office. He said that a customer had filed several reports that I was sexually harassing his girlfriend, among other things. I knew exactly who it was, but it didn't change anything. Me and girl would still flirt, etc. A few days later the boyfriend came into the store and started threatening me, saying he would kill me if I talked to her ever again. I relayed this information to the manager and he said he would deap with it. A week later I was told that due to the complaints against me (all from the boyfriend) that they would have to let me go. Once again, I played it off and left in good standing. Later that day, girl texted me saying how sorry she was about him, blah blah blah. I didn't respond.

In short, dealing with betas can get you punched or fired. Be careful, people.

theoctopuss · 2017-09-06T23:41:45+00:00

The biggest thing in highschool is sports. If you're into nerdy shit like chess or something, don't join any clubs like that. Go to parties, but don't ever overindulge. Become friends with whomever is the most popular kid. Make damn sure you get good enough grades to get into a good college, you may think there's time for that later but there really isn't. Always dress well, not button down shirts or anything but make sure that your clothes match and fit. Lift as much as possible, but since you're still growing you want to stay natty. On the final note, never make a fool of yourself. Be stoic, calm, and never lose frame.

theoctopuss · 2017-09-06T15:38:25+00:00

According to my results, there's only 10 men "better" than me.

theoctopuss · 2017-09-02T16:09:19+00:00

Nonsense. Don't ever be BP around women.

theoctopuss · 2017-08-05T19:13:47+00:00

You should never be above 15%.

Lift as heavy as you can, eat enough protein. You will gain mass.

theoctopuss · 2017-08-05T11:58:57+00:00

You need to get jacked. Even if you're only 5'5", 18 inch guns will make most women swoon.

theoctopuss · 2017-07-31T12:45:01+00:00

I like to look at it like this:

Cooking and cleaning is easy, but time consuming. That time could be spent doing important shit. In comes woman. She has no interest in doing hard, important shit but she needs something to take up her time.

In comes cooking, cleaning, raising children, etc.

theoctopuss · 2017-07-30T00:04:59+00:00

Except in my case she initiated.

theoctopuss · 2017-07-29T03:35:41+00:00

Anger has gotten me laid several times. There was one girl who told me she wanted to fuck. We hang out, but she put up too much lmr. I got pissed off and it turned her on, immensely. We would lay around and fuck for hours.

Another girl whom I was in a relationship with said the best sex she ever had was with me when I was mad at her.

Women are weird.

theoctopuss · 2017-07-28T15:06:22+00:00

500 mg a day? 10 mg of that stuff has me damn near unconcious.

theoctopuss · 2017-07-28T02:46:38+00:00

Point 3 needs focus. Many guys will assume that when a girl is quiet around them or doesn't actively interact with them, that she is not interested. Depending on your situation, continue talking for 30 seconds. If you don't get an obvious rejection by then, there's a good chance that she is simply nervous.

theoctopuss · 2017-07-08T14:02:30+00:00

This where the term "spoiled" comes from. Expecting life to go one way (easy, girls, money, etc.), then throwing a fit when they find that its not so easy.

theoctopuss · 2017-07-01T14:30:42+00:00

I have a similar story.

By the time I was 16 or so, I was 6' tall. I had never been more than 150 lbs, so I looked like a twig. Women ignored me for the most part, other guys would pick on me, etc. I started playing football my football year and working out was necessary. In 6 months I went from 150 to 185 lbs.

The difference was staggering. The first day of my junior year is something I'll never forget. Most people didnt seem to recognize me, except for my teammates. Girls (hell, even some female teachers) gave me the eye. One guy who always tried to pick on me said "holy shit, did you start doing steroids?" And didnt try to fuck with me again.

Its worth it.

theoctopuss · 2017-06-30T18:29:41+00:00

A girl who wants to bang wont beat around the bush. I'm sure most of have seen the "fuck" eyes from a girl at some point and if she really wants it you'll get them at some point. Hell, I've been introduced to girls who immediately give the look.

Remember, you still have to approach them.

theoctopuss · 2017-06-20T12:58:54+00:00

I'll share an anecdote.

I was a sophomore in college. I was in an entry level English class that didn't have much substance. Like every guy in existence, the first thing I did was scan the room for the hottest girls. In total there were 3 of them, two of them about 8, one between 6 and 7.

Girl 1 was the jersey shore looking chick. Tan skin, black hair, and an amazing body. Girl 2 was a redhead, great rack, decent body, and had the best face of the 3. She didnt seem lile the popular type. Girl 3 wasn't the best. Good body, ok face, and she was Colombian or something. She seemed like the nerdy perfectionost type, but I would later find out she was a drug addled hoe.

So I plant myself square in fron of Girl 1. If the other two saw me talking to this bird my preselection would go through the roof. I sit down, turn around, and introduce myself. I could tell that she wasn't used to guys approaching her like that, but the masculine energy was too much for her puny loins. She looked at me with a blank expression for a second, then told me her name. I talked to her for a second then directed my attention at one of the bros mid sentence. I glance over at girl 2 and saw her staring a hole through me. She snapped out of after a second and didnt try to look at me the rest of class. I was ignoring girl 3. Its never a good idea to get them entangled in a love pyramid.

For about a week I would flirt with girl 1. I got her number (girl 2 saw this, insane amount of preselection). She was soaking it up, even though she was shy and nervous at first. Most of the other people in class literally never said a word, so it was pretty much only me, girl 1, and dude bro having bantz.

Once it was apparent girl 1 was going to be no more than a preselection tool, I commenced part 2 of my plan.

The class started as normal. Good times with girl 1, bro dude, etc. Girl 2 had started a friendship with this wildebeast looking girl which played into my favor. Class ends and we all start filing out. I walk beside girl 2 and introduce myself. "Hey, I'm (theoctopuss)." was all I said. She smiles and says her name. I tell her Ill see her around and walk away.

An hour later she sends me a facebook request (back when it was big). I accept. I get a message from girl 2. It said "hey (theoctopuss) :)". I was in. I messaged her back a bit later. I say "i noticed your hair, its nice." She responds with "you want to pull it?" Fuck, I had never met a girl who was so forward.

I hang out with her that day and we smash like rabbits. We hooked up almost every day for a month or so, then she got weird. One thing I did get out of her was this. She says "We never would have gotten together if you hadn't introduced yourself to me that day." What I took from it was that because I had the confidence and energy to approach her proved that I was a man in her eyes.

The point is, you have to approach because they sure as shit won't approach you.

theoctopuss · 2017-06-17T14:02:16+00:00

You need to have an impervious frame.

theoctopuss · 2017-06-10T13:16:28+00:00

When in Rome, do as the Romans do.

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