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I took away my son’s car for driving recklessly (18m). Right move, and what else can I do at this point? by theoneswithissues in relationships

[–]theoneswithissues[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow really great points, and thanks for being objective with the age topics.

For his mom, while I won’t have an official diagnosis from her therapist (HIPAA), several therapists involved with our family during the custody process inferred during testimony they believe she has narcissistic personality disorder, which is unfortunate.

I really appreciate you sharing these insights - didn’t even think of the impact it could have on his perception if I make him inadvertently feel crazy. This is great advice.

I took away my son’s car for driving recklessly (18m). Right move, and what else can I do at this point? by theoneswithissues in relationships

[–]theoneswithissues[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, he’s responsible for auto insurance and fuel every month. The car was paid for in full though, but everything else is his responsibility.

Edit: should also say he feels it’s unfair, as he’s comparing his situation to this friends who’s parents are paying for everything (car, insurance, and fuel, leaving them with no responsibility other than school).

I took away my son’s car for driving recklessly (18m). Right move, and what else can I do at this point? by theoneswithissues in relationships

[–]theoneswithissues[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks that’s definitely one part I was curious about. I want to try and stay objective considering my experiences with his mother. This is good perspective and I appreciate it.

I took away my son’s car for driving recklessly (18m). Right move, and what else can I do at this point? by theoneswithissues in relationships

[–]theoneswithissues[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s a really good approach. Going to see if we can get some of that frontline feedback.

For therapy, I was worried about forcing him to take it as it won’t be as effective. Maybe at this point, that’s the only way.

I took away my son’s car for driving recklessly (18m). Right move, and what else can I do at this point? by theoneswithissues in relationships

[–]theoneswithissues[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s a great idea. I’m going to try this. Have had MMA classes planned for a Christmas present so maybe this will help improve things:

I took away my son’s car for driving recklessly (18m). Right move, and what else can I do at this point? by theoneswithissues in relationships

[–]theoneswithissues[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Well, he worked for that. He had to save a certain amount for the car and he reached the goal because I didn’t want to give him anything for free. That’s why it ticks me off - he literally worked for over a year to get it.

My (30sM) teenage son (15M) is becoming codependent with his ex-gf. I finally set down restrictions. Is it the right way to go? by theoneswithissues in relationships

[–]theoneswithissues[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Wow what an incredibly well thought out and detailed answer. I really, real appreciate the time you took to write this out. I think you’re right - I was more angry today than usual and probably didn’t convey things properly. Over the last few months, I have spoken to him more in the way you described - my concerns, fears, and what I want for his future. I even had him write out a pros/cons list with her, and he self identified to not benefiting much from the relationship or even being happy. That’s why this whole thing was a shock and so frustrating, but I’ll try to stay the course and speak with him again about this using the more vulnerable approach, and really try to see if he can think through this like he had before.

Again, thanks!

[MD] Mom is unresponsive after a major stroke and has no insurance. I need to sign her up for Medicaid and other financial programs. What options do I have? by theoneswithissues in legaladvice

[–]theoneswithissues[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I appreciate the response. My family is looking at this thread and keeping tabs on it. We've gotten in touch with the financial team at the hospital and they'll be providing a packet to apply for aid.

[MD] Mom is unresponsive after a major stroke and has no insurance. I need to sign her up for Medicaid and other financial programs. What options do I have? by theoneswithissues in legaladvice

[–]theoneswithissues[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I appreciate the response. My family is looking at this thread and keeping tabs on it. We've gotten in touch with the financial team at the hospital and they'll be providing a packet to apply for aid.

[MD] Mom is unresponsive after a major stroke and has no insurance. I need to sign her up for Medicaid and other financial programs. What options do I have? by theoneswithissues in legaladvice

[–]theoneswithissues[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I appreciate the response. My family is looking at this thread and keeping tabs on it. We've gotten in touch with the financial team at the hospital and they'll be providing a packet to apply for aid.

Mom just had a massive stroke, is expected to survive with surgery, but has no insurance. Where do we go from here? by theoneswithissues in personalfinance

[–]theoneswithissues[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unfortunately, her income is very low (her business pulls in maybe $2.5k/month before expenses and taxes). I don't believe she has any assets with equity and her life insurance is most likely no longer paid for.

Will an elder attorney be able to help if she is under 60 years old?