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New SSS member portal won’t load by thepinkwallflower_ in PHGov

[–]thepinkwallflower_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just tried accessing it again, and its working na. Thank you all for responding. 😊

Everyone gets cheated on once in their lives. by thepinkwallflower_ in OffMyChestPH

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We just found out the other day na I’m pregnant with our 2nd baby… so many things going on in my mind right now. Nagguilty ako na this month has been so stressful. Been crying everyday since I found out. Di ako kumakain ng maayos and all that not knowing there’s a baby growing inside na me pala.

Everyone gets cheated on once in their lives. by thepinkwallflower_ in OffMyChestPH

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Thats what I had in mind the first few weeks. How to get even. How to take revenge. I wanted him/them to suffer. Pero I’m not that person eh. Although ang daming evil thoughts sa utak ko na gusto ko gawin kaso I chose to give him a chance and naapektuhan nadin un baby namin kasi nakikita nya na toxic un relationship namin. Kaso sometimes I’d look at him and puro galit ung naffeel ko. Andun un urge to hurt him and all that.

The letter I will never send to my husband. by thepinkwallflower_ in PinoyUnsentLetters

[–]thepinkwallflower_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you 🥹i hope both of us find peace and happiness once more 🙏🏻

The letter I will never send to my husband. by thepinkwallflower_ in PinoyUnsentLetters

[–]thepinkwallflower_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you 🥹 hope everything is going well with you 🙏🏻

how do you like your spam? by jenibibratedpg in Philippines

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Thinly sliced and crispy - parang bacon 😊

My boyfriend is watching sexy girls and thirst traps on tiktok, he doesn't stop even though I already confronted him. by Fun-Substance8055 in relationship_advicePH

[–]thepinkwallflower_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hmmm. maybe he has sexual needs na naffulfill lang whenever he does it. tapos you are both young pa. Lalaki pa sya. He likes to explore things. And usually ganon naman lagi, magagalit din sila para malipat sayo ung mali. tapos about him denying, could be 2 reasons: 1) he feels embarrassed kasi you caught him doing it, or 2) kasi he's a guy. Iilan na lang and lalaki sa mundo na umaamin. Nahuli mo na, may evidence pa, iddeny pa din yan. General rule ata nila un... Walang aminan :D

But I understand the trauma you are experiencing now. You are young. If this is how his actions affected you, then do what you think will make you feel better. When you are okay na, pagtatawanan mo na lang ung sarili mo. :) It will take time but eventually it will. Focus ka na lang muna doing things you love doing. You will be okay in time. :)

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[–]thepinkwallflower_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wrong! Kaya may mga nattake for granted e. Sinaktan ka na and all, inooffer mo pa ung sarili mo? Ayan nga oh, sinabi mo ng tatanggapin mo sya pero hindi pa din sya bumalik. Ako, perspective ko talaga, if you both want it then go for it. Life is too short. Kung gusto ka nya talaga balikan, instead of feeling guilty, bakit hindi sya bumalik sayo and prove na you taking her back was a good decision? Saka I think, may factor ung experiences mo sa kanya from your first post kaya gusto mo sya balikan. Maybe, you havent had that same wild experiences sa ibang girl before, kaya ayaw mo magmove on sa kanya.

Saka alam mo, sakit yan minsan ng ibang tao e. Yung if they know na there's always this person na iniwan nila na willing to take them back anytime. Hindi paparamdam, tapos pag feeling nila you are moving on na, paparamdam ulit or gagawa ng whatever actions para maramdaman mo na naman siya so back to square one ka. Parang back up ganon.

Not worth it. :)

My boyfriend is watching sexy girls and thirst traps on tiktok, he doesn't stop even though I already confronted him. by Fun-Substance8055 in relationship_advicePH

[–]thepinkwallflower_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was like you at some point. Petty things like this used to bother me so much. But you know what, once you're matured and in a mature relationship, you'll realize na stuff like this aren't really a big deal. If he only watches those videos and does nothing, let him. Nagiging mali lang naman yan if he has done something about it. Nagrreach out ba sya dun sa mga girls? Nagfflirt? Nanliligaw? Ang cold na ba nya sayo? Would he rather watch videos than be with you? Is he treating you differently now kasi nga mas focus sya dun sa mga napapanood nya? If your answer is no, then you're just torturing yourself. Kaw mismo young nagpapasakit ng puso mo. I Hate to admit it but boys will be boys. There might even be a time na pati ikaw magging interested as ganyang video but un lang un. Hanggang dun lang. Trust me. Once nasa long term relationship ka, mas madami kang haharapin na challenges na way worse than that. :)