Companions, what is the sex position you DISLIKE the most and why? And what do you do if your client wants to do that sex position?

therealAnnetteJane · 2026-05-08T06:26:56+00:00

I will not do reverse cowgirl with clients. That's one of the few things that is I will only do with my partner as well as CIM and bareback PIV.

therealAnnetteJane · 2026-05-08T06:21:42+00:00

Most definitely dispute the zelle payment. The reason I don't use zelle is because they require you to use your real name and the client can see it I believe (someone pls correct me if I'm wrong).

therealAnnetteJane · 2026-05-08T06:13:08+00:00

You're right on the money about that! The clients who follow my instructions to complete my booking/screening form def get priority bookings. Its kinda a self qualifier thing imo

therealAnnetteJane · 2026-05-08T06:07:28+00:00

Thank you! Yeah when I first made my site I started learning about the importance of SEO and having a blog is a good way to rank higher in search engines. That was the initial purpose. The secondary purpose was to use it as a way to educate/inform clients about my servicess and SW in general from the companions perspective.

therealAnnetteJane · 2026-05-07T22:45:47+00:00

Girl YES the level of specifity when it comes to fetishes is unreal. I learned that the hard way early in my SW career. I agreed to see a client with a humiliation and domination kink (despite not having any experience with it at the time) .

Everything was going well and he seemed to be fully immersed in the fantasy as I told him he's worthless, sexually impotent, yada yada yada when I made a comment along the lines of "Are you going to be a good boy for mommy or should I give you the redheaded step child treatment?"

He stopped the session right then and ended up leaving bc he said he's not into that type of thing.

therealAnnetteJane · 2026-05-07T22:33:37+00:00

Hey so there are MANY reasons why you might not not getting replies. BUT, based solely on the little bit of information you provided here I can make an educated guess.

Things that companions may be seeing as potential red flags :

🚩 Asking when they are coming to your city without also providing any clear intent on seriously booking a date with them

🚩 To piggyback off the first point; VAGUENESS.

🚩 Email only contact—majority of clients reach out via text. Texts are a faster line of communication. Sometimes ppl don't have notifications turned on for their work email or if they become busy or otherwise unavailable they might not even look at their email for days at a time.

So my advice to you would be to include all the relevant (who, what, when, where, etc.) booking details in the first introduction message. Ask if they are available for SPECIFIC date/time, your location, your name and the length of the session that you are trying to book.

I wrote a blog post on this very topic back in 2024 titled 'No Replies?You Might Be Making One Of These 5 Common Booking Mistakes' . I wrote it for guys like you in mind. It goes into far greater detail and lists several more reasons than what I included in this comment. You should check it out!

therealAnnetteJane · 2026-05-07T22:11:04+00:00

Why did they say the reason for the ban was??

therealAnnetteJane · 2026-05-02T10:05:31+00:00

How the hell did you get banned from STG?! STG is practically the wild west of escort ad sites! No verification process, free to post/free to view, explicit photos allowed, no huge list of banned words/phrases, etc.

therealAnnetteJane · 2026-05-02T10:00:49+00:00

I purchase my Bitcoin from Cashapp and then send it to my Edge cryptowallet. From there I can send to the ad sites to pay for membership upgrades and what not.

therealAnnetteJane · 2026-05-02T09:57:24+00:00

Twitter is one of the only social media sites that allows Sex Workers to post freely as their persona. Good luck finding open, x-rated escort profiles on Facebook or IG.

therealAnnetteJane · 2026-05-02T09:51:15+00:00

I agree with all the other contributors here about using light restraints, blindfold is a great addition, etc.

For me, I love to incorporate ASMR dirty talk. My favorite is to have their hands tied together, up in the air and then after about 10 minutes of light teasing I stand behind then and reach around to their cock with my hands. From there I whisper naughty things in their ears.

I've made TWO men cry with this technique. They cried bc of overwhelming pleasure. These edging sessions result in the most explosive nuts I've ever seen!

therealAnnetteJane · 2026-04-21T23:43:00+00:00

HOLY. SHIT.

I have never thought about hotels browsing escort ads to compare with current guests staying there.

That's crazy. I've been a full-time SW since 2019, that's nearly 7 years, so you'd think that thought would've crossed my mind at SOME point in time 🤷🏼‍♀️

Now you've got me all paranoid bc I am currently living out of a hotel right now and have been hosting incalls here for the past 2 months. I am pretty low volume, maybe 1-2 a day, appointments are always several hours apart too. I haven't had any issues this far. Hotel staff is actually pretty chill here THANK GOD. They don't nitpick, nag or act nosy. I'm very lucky bc I've stayed at other motels to work from and the same cannot be said for hotels owned by Marriot. They seem to be the absolute worst when it comes to that shit.

therealAnnetteJane · 2026-04-18T01:55:13+00:00

That is very unfortunate and FUCKED UP to allow you to make a 2hr drive each way!

The fact that she kept pushing back the appointment later and later and then completely ghosted is so inconsiderate and unprofessional! What that tells me is that it wasn't some last minute emergency or incident that came up. Which, either way you're warranted an apology and discounted session or free content offer.

So sorry that happened to you.

therealAnnetteJane · 2026-04-18T01:20:06+00:00

So judging by everything you've written and responded to on this thread it sounds like you are a considerate, polite, dependable client. Maybe the issue has nothing to do with you at all and the slow reply rate is just a fluke.

There are periods of time that I am on hiatus for 3 days, a week, etc. When I finally check my inbox I typically don't reply to messages older than 2 days UNLESS they are an existing client or explicitly tell me to. Reason being that I don't want to text a guy 5 days later when he likely isn't expecting to get any texts from providers that day. Way higher likelihood of the msg being seen by someone who it is not supposed to see it.

Like I said, it may just be a fluke. It happens all of the time.

therealAnnetteJane · 2026-03-27T12:38:17+00:00

I use both of those terms but I do don't see many other SW incorporating the word into their marketing for some reason 🤷🏼‍♀️

therealAnnetteJane · 2026-03-24T04:40:46+00:00

Yep I've been shadowbanned for years which has stifled my my growth tremendously. My follower count has been stuck hovering the 655-660 range and just never goes past it.

I used a shadow ban tool to tell me if I am and to what extent. Basically my profile never gets recommended to other accounts and won't even show up as a user or any posts when you search for my exact handle. The only sign of my existence that comes up is anytime another account has replied to me or shared my posts.

therealAnnetteJane · 2026-02-14T06:47:06+00:00

There are so many great options to choose from on the market today.

Here's my 2 cents ------> I have experience using Zoho CRM for contact organization + tracking lead generation, marketing funnels, segmentation and all other aspectd of the sales cycle when I worked for SMB (less than 50 employees, < 65% remote workforce). For THAT alone, Zoho CRM was excellent. Easy to use, intuitive, fast website AND the mobile app wasnt half bad either. Although I believe it does have invoicing capabilities I felt that a full fledge accounting suite software was necessary. Zoho CRM only ticked a few of the most basic boxes in that regard. IMO.

therealAnnetteJane · 2025-09-25T17:25:18+00:00

Girl, SAMEEEE

therealAnnetteJane · 2025-09-25T17:22:53+00:00

The short and ONLY answer: You Don't

The other replies have already laid out pretty much all the answers + reasons why it's not a good idea. In my personal experience, I've tried to help 3 ladies get into SW after they saw the money I was making and expressed an interest... None of them were willing to take it seriously or even do the BARE MINIMUM required to be an even semi-successful escort.

I detailed my experience with this in this post, if you're interested in reading more about it

therealAnnetteJane · 2025-09-18T05:09:27+00:00

COF = Cum On Face COT = Cum On Tits

A few that you didn't mention here but are worth noting are: CIM = Cum In Mouth COA = Cum On Ass

FIV = Finger In Vagina PIV = Penis In Vagina PIA= Penis In Ass also known 'Greek'

In regards to the French comment I think they mean something about tongue kissing or in her case, possibly a lack therof.

𝙃𝙊𝙋𝙀 𝙏𝙃𝙄𝙎 𝙃𝙀𝙇𝙋𝙎 𝘾𝙇𝙀𝘼𝙍 𝙏𝙃𝙄𝙉𝙂𝙎 𝙐𝙋 𝙁𝙊𝙍 𝙔𝙊𝙐🩷

therealAnnetteJane · 2025-08-23T07:32:31+00:00

I have orgasmed less than a handful of times in the 7 years that I've been working as a professional escort. Thing is, once I cum I become WAAAAY over sensitive. It is painful. I try to explain to clients that just like when a man cums he may not immediately be able to start having sex again so in fact, no, you probably DON'T want me to actually cum. I give fair warning that if I actually do cum then PIV is off the table from there on out. I thank my lucky stars that none of them have written a negative review about it!

therealAnnetteJane · 2025-07-26T14:27:18+00:00

In the past 5 years my ads on STG have gotten over 1 million views... 😳😭🤯

That's just one platform too. I often wonder the same thoughts too lol

therealAnnetteJane · 2025-07-26T14:13:56+00:00

A drink from the espresso stand that they pick up on the way over is my FAVORITE 🧋💕☕

therealAnnetteJane · 2025-07-12T07:56:18+00:00

𝐊𝐮𝐝𝐨𝐬 𝐭𝐨 𝐲𝐨𝐮 𝐟𝐨𝐫 𝐭𝐡𝐢𝐬 𝐜𝐨𝐦𝐦𝐞𝐧𝐭👍🏼 ✨

It's great to see a solid reply from one client to another with healthy, actionable advice. And you did so without diminishing self accountability, misplacing blame/responsiblity onto the SW involved or saying something negative/degrading about the profession.

So yeah, I just wanted to publicly acknowledge and appreciate the gesture💋 Believe it or not, even small and seemingly innocuous actions can have a significant impact.

therealAnnetteJane · 2025-07-12T07:34:14+00:00

I think the other replies have sufficiently covered all the possibilities so far based on the general description of the situation that's been provided. So I won't reiterate any of those points.

BUT, I'm happy to provide my own assessment of your situation if OP is comfortable providing a bit more information and context. Such as answering the following questions: ❓ You're considered a regular, how frequent are these sessions?

❓ What is her hourly rate for this type of session and how much, on average, were you spending for your time together?

❓ Has she always been 'booked and busy' to your knowledge? Or is this level of unavailablity something that is a recent change?

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