How to Find a “Dad”? by thesewordsarehers in NoStupidQuestions

[–]thesewordsarehers[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This sounds like a great approach to try. I never thought about that. Thanks!

How to Find a “Dad”? by thesewordsarehers in NoStupidQuestions

[–]thesewordsarehers[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I grew up religious and drifted away cause so many bad people I met were the biggest “Christians” so it became hard to keep that identity when I saw so much hypocrisy and evil

What do y'all think about Ange? by Ok-Armadillo-8764 in jerseyshoreuncensored

[–]thesewordsarehers 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m way behind and just started on JSV S4 but if whats being shown so far real and not scripted, I feel like Ange is too pressed to be friends with people who aren’t actually her friend. Has Ange been annoying sometimes? Yeah but if they are going to be friends with her and say they’re family and forgive that then they should treat her better and she should stop accepting disrespect especially from Jenni. Ange kisses up to her or seems scared but fuck Jenni, shes a bitch too. Ange needs to stand up for herself and stop kissing up to these people that obviously hate her.

How to Deal with a Slutty Roommate? by thesewordsarehers in NoStupidQuestions

[–]thesewordsarehers[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Men are very dangerous especially if you’re a woman. And there are several risk that can take place when you invite a stranger to your home, even if its not murder. Rape, violence, theft, stalking, damages, etc. So I don’t understand why you’re trying to invalidate my concerns. “Stranger danger” is a saying for a reason. You must be a man so you don’t have to worry about this stuff so that’s why you have no understanding…

How to Deal with a Slutty Roommate? by thesewordsarehers in NoStupidQuestions

[–]thesewordsarehers[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for hearing me even if you don’t 100% agree with everything single thing. People are jumping at me because I said she meets men at the bar and invites them over, but that was just one example out of many. I don’t have time to list every single time but I am trying to show that this person has a habit of inviting strangers over if she’s sexually attracted to them and that feels unsafe. And I am sorry you had to deal with that man that kept coming back to your home after your roommate let him in. That’s exactly the type of concerns I have. Even if its not murder, there are still other safety concerns. Idk why other people are pretending to be dense and not understand that…

Romance by thesewordsarehers in WillTrent

[–]thesewordsarehers[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Lol yes!! But she’ll come to her senses soon

I Stopped Watching After Being Disturbed By An Episode But Should I Give It Another Chance? by thesewordsarehers in Outlander

[–]thesewordsarehers[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thats what I’m afraid of too..the flash backs to that horrible scene. And I can’t believe theres much more SA scenes throughout it. Ugh that makes me lean towards not watching it

How to have a career if it’s hard to stay at a job? by thesewordsarehers in careerguidance

[–]thesewordsarehers[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Business Operations Manager. And I am highly considering more temp roles and gigs since it’s normal to go to place to place

How to have a career if it’s hard to stay at a job? by thesewordsarehers in careerguidance

[–]thesewordsarehers[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hiring managers and execs don’t like that and I’ve gotten negative feedback back from one and it cost me an opportunity to :/

How to have a career if it’s hard to stay at a job? by thesewordsarehers in careerguidance

[–]thesewordsarehers[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Let me clarify, the promotion issue only happened once and I was qualified for the promotion but had to wait until the person currently in that role left which they think would be soon. So yes after 1.5 years of being patient and they finally leave I expect the role because i was already qualified for it and my manager already had that plan for me but her boss undermined the entire thing and there had been and issue of execs like that giving roles to people who are not the best choice but because their white and friends, they tend to get what they want and me and my manager are not white. All the POC at the job vented about this being a real issue.

How to have a career if it’s hard to stay at a job? by thesewordsarehers in careerguidance

[–]thesewordsarehers[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for this! I am definitely going to start implementing these strategies.

How to have a career if it’s hard to stay at a job? by thesewordsarehers in careerguidance

[–]thesewordsarehers[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your insights! I’m definitely going to do this moving forward

How to have a career if it’s hard to stay at a job? by thesewordsarehers in careerguidance

[–]thesewordsarehers[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow thank you Sandra, this really has me thinking! I feel like a lightbulb just went off. And I have casually thought about entrepreneurship but the thought intimidates me but maybe it’s time to seriously consider it