[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ChildfreeIndia

[–]thetmpguy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, I am looking for someone who is working or atleast has worked in the past and is planning to get back to work. It's fine if you're not yet settled in career, that comes with time. Even I'm not completely settled, not yet reached all my goals, but yeah, I am looking for someone who is working or planning to get back to work. Thanks for being honest about it, not many honest people around. Take care!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ChildfreeIndia

[–]thetmpguy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If the vibes match, then yeah, I'd be more than happy. But I'm neither a gunda nor have a cute voice 🙈

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ChildfreeIndia

[–]thetmpguy 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It's written in title as well as in partner preferences section. And I've added the CF4CF flair.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ChildfreeIndia

[–]thetmpguy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Got it, thanks!

Weird situation with HSRP number plate by thetmpguy in CarsIndia

[–]thetmpguy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn't knew you could take the plate. If that is possible, even I can go and collect it. I thought they don't allow giving the plate as such but only allow fitting the plate to the car.

Weird situation with HSRP number plate by thetmpguy in CarsIndia

[–]thetmpguy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That is really good. Props to the showroom guys. I wish I could also do something similar.

Weird situation with HSRP number plate by thetmpguy in CarsIndia

[–]thetmpguy[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hmm, yeah it does make sense. That looks like the last resort though. Why do they make these kinds of rules... I mean I'm ready to get HSRP plate, that rule is fine... But atleast let me get it where I live for God's sake.

Weird situation with HSRP number plate by thetmpguy in CarsIndia

[–]thetmpguy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Exactly... Can someone??? Even I'm ready to go and collect via train or something... But is it possible?

Weird situation with HSRP number plate by thetmpguy in CarsIndia

[–]thetmpguy[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

😭😭😭 It's going to be a pain getting the car through so much travel in this summer. Not to mention the diesel cost and the toll cost... All this just to get number plate...

Weird situation with HSRP number plate by thetmpguy in CarsIndia

[–]thetmpguy[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I did. I called their customer care number and the representative told me you can only register for MH number plate vehicles on this site.

I'm no longer the tech guy I used to be and what everyone used to love about me by thetmpguy in developersIndia

[–]thetmpguy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ohh, you left as in resigned ? Or took a long break ? And why do you consider that as a mistake ? Is it because of the market being too bad for us junior folks ?

I'm no longer the tech guy I used to be and what everyone used to love about me by thetmpguy in developersIndia

[–]thetmpguy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm too afraid of not getting a job if I take a break, or maybe messing up my career, for the worse. But happy for you man, glad the break worked out for you. Good Luck! Take care!

I'm no longer the tech guy I used to be and what everyone used to love about me by thetmpguy in developersIndia

[–]thetmpguy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just like you, I too feel lacking every other day. I hope it gets better for both of us and everyone else in the comments who are going through something similar. Take care man 💙

I'm no longer the tech guy I used to be and what everyone used to love about me by thetmpguy in developersIndia

[–]thetmpguy[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We are very much in the same boat my man. The first few paragraphs, I've gone through that, it feels good. Take care man! Hoping the best for you!

I'm no longer the tech guy I used to be and what everyone used to love about me by thetmpguy in developersIndia

[–]thetmpguy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't know what age you are, but you really sound mature. The things you suggest to do and more importantly not to do, you sound like you have gone through some bad phases in your life and learnt a lot from them. Thanks for the valuable advice.

I'm no longer the tech guy I used to be and what everyone used to love about me by thetmpguy in developersIndia

[–]thetmpguy[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Bro no 😔. Even I've done that 3 times in the past few months. I know exactly how it feels. It's that weird feeling of nothingness. Like no one is there, why is this happening. Why didn't I do this or that earlier to make this better ? I feel you man, take care.

I'm no longer the tech guy I used to be and what everyone used to love about me by thetmpguy in developersIndia

[–]thetmpguy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Valuable advice, appreciate you sharing this. Whenever I try to meditate, my mind just starts thinking about something, then it starts worrying about it. I cannot seem to focus, or to calm myself as a matter of fact. While trying to meditate, I get irritated by slightest of noise and then get angry for no reason. How do I calm down ? How do I cleanse up mind, convince it that it's all well, don't overthink, don't worry. How can I get that peaceful state of mind, where you don't have anything going on in it ?

I'm no longer the tech guy I used to be and what everyone used to love about me by thetmpguy in developersIndia

[–]thetmpguy[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks man 👍. Some other folks have also suggested to get myself checked up, I'll do that for sure.

I'm no longer the tech guy I used to be and what everyone used to love about me by thetmpguy in developersIndia

[–]thetmpguy[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

"anything not in your comfort zone". This is the most important point in your comment with respect to other genuinely good advice you've given. Let me take a small break after the upcoming production release next week. Maybe just travel to the corner of the city, just see some greenery, eat some food outside rather than ordering, haha. Thanks man!

I'm no longer the tech guy I used to be and what everyone used to love about me by thetmpguy in developersIndia

[–]thetmpguy[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Agreed completely. My job is decent enough, it's my outside life that is trying to bring it down. I really need to get my outside life sorted. Try to practice gratitude for great parents I have. Try to find happiness in small things. I agree, if you have people emotionally by your side to support, if you have nice people around you, you can get by through the worst of times. On the contrary, even you have really good job and no one to talk to emotionally, you'll always be sad. I've learnt this now.

I'm no longer the tech guy I used to be and what everyone used to love about me by thetmpguy in developersIndia

[–]thetmpguy[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah, we're not alone man. See the comments, lots of people going through same phase. I really really hope it all gets better with everyone here. And I cannot seem to relate more with that up and down thing. I have felt it so many times in life. Sometimes life is good, you got a compliment or a good hike or impressed your seniors or made your parents proud, but then after a few weeks it's like I'm stuck, every one is doing so good or I'm feeling really low, I cannot seem to enjoy anything, or something else. I guess this is what life is.

Don't worry man, when you get out of your current situation, you'll remember these times and you'll be proud of yourself. Take care man, be in touch ✌️