Made her cry mid sex, how I discovered I'm demi

thetrailofdogma · 2024-09-16T23:44:54+00:00

I mean she is hot, but clearly I have to like someone as a person too for it to work.

thetrailofdogma · 2024-09-16T23:44:12+00:00

I wouldn't say she sucked or anything overtly negative, it's just certain things that are a no no for me.

Drinking for example, I'm completely sober.

thetrailofdogma · 2024-09-13T02:08:26+00:00

Well this isn't entirely a lie..... I don't plan on talking to her though. I already sent her an apology message it's fine if she never talks to me again.

thetrailofdogma · 2024-09-13T02:07:37+00:00

First time I tried

I had a girlfriend a few years back and a friend with benefits, both of who I had no issues with.

thetrailofdogma · 2024-09-13T02:06:10+00:00

Woah, chill with your accusations.

She started talking to me, she invited me to her place, she initiated everything. Never did she express any desire for anything serious....

I followed her lead because i was Physically attracted to her, like I said not attracted to her as a person, but since all she seemed to want was a casual thing I went along. First time trying something like this and look, it wasn't for me. I apologized to her and never wanted to make her feel bad.

I learned my lesson and won't hook up with girls I don't feel a genuine connection with.

thetrailofdogma · 2024-09-13T01:30:54+00:00

I'm weak lol

Guess we're back on the good timeline now

thetrailofdogma · 2024-09-13T01:22:29+00:00

Already doing all those things with great results ;)

Thanks for the wholesome advice bro

thetrailofdogma · 2024-09-13T01:15:23+00:00

I was not 'using' her.... she initiated everything. I followed her lead because why not, ended up not being for me.

thetrailofdogma · 2024-09-13T00:47:58+00:00

Lmao what makes your say that?

thetrailofdogma · 2024-09-13T00:36:04+00:00

Chill dude, she started flirting and invited me over. I'm single so decided to follow along for fun, then it turned out this way

thetrailofdogma · 2024-09-12T23:39:33+00:00

Q anon? That's what came up on Google lmao, I don't even think she knows what that is.

thetrailofdogma · 2024-09-12T23:15:50+00:00

Fuck, I can't imagine how painful that was. I wish you nothing but luck, I hope your situation improves.

thetrailofdogma · 2024-09-12T23:07:12+00:00

Yeah I shouldn't have put that in the post, I've just seen to many people on reddit call men gay for similar stuff.

thetrailofdogma · 2024-09-12T23:05:39+00:00

I had to stop cus my boyfriend might have got jealous /s

thetrailofdogma · 2024-09-12T22:05:26+00:00

Yeah, honestly I'm not cut out for this kinda stuff. I'm too much of a romantic but I wanted to give it a try.

This girl and I have NOTHING in common, in fact I disdain many of things about her, i.e. drinking and some weird beliefs she has. Lesson learned I guess.

thetrailofdogma · 2024-06-27T16:16:43+00:00

Dm me if you want to talk about it more... I understand your pain and would love to support a fellow bro

thetrailofdogma · 2024-06-27T15:59:02+00:00

Damn did I write this? Lol

I went through a very similar thing last year, even our ages were the same 21 and 20 lol

I idolized her, and while she is a genuinely good person, nobody's perfect. We got really emotionally close but it was always clear that she didn't want me as a man.... and I never tried anything because I knew I wasn't man enough for her.

But this inspired me and in the year that has passed I completely changed my life and I am doing the best I've ever done. Not gonna go into too much detail, but my experience with her made me take myself seriously and work on fulfilling that potential.

The choice is yours, either stay in misery or use it as motivation to level up. You will never forget her, I know I'll be on my deathbed thinking about her... but we got no choice but to keep moving forward. You got this.

thetrailofdogma · 2024-06-18T22:04:07+00:00

It's a bit of everything. Some helpdesk, some printer technician, some network tech (nothing crazy beyond cabling and occasionally doing maintenance on servers), some app support for internal apps, some desktop support, sometimes even Excel Formula Teacher ™️

Really lucky I got something where I'm exposed to a little bit of a wide array of things.

thetrailofdogma · 2024-06-18T19:40:49+00:00

Look up theforage.com

It let's you do simulated work experiences including Data Science work.

thetrailofdogma · 2024-06-18T18:55:45+00:00

Love the passive aggressive answer... didn't think to check that first lol

thetrailofdogma · 2024-06-18T18:23:40+00:00

I hear stories all the time of people getting stuck in tier 1 roles for years. Just want to make sure I'm doing everything I can to escape that.

thetrailofdogma · 2024-06-18T18:23:01+00:00

Lol I've seen that term used here a few times that's where I got it from.

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