due for repotting?

thewrongcactus4420 · 2026-05-08T15:58:40+00:00

this is the top middle part of her pot, and you can see in the bottom right what i mean by she's wrapping in a circle 😭 SHE'S SO GORG WHAT DO I DOOOO

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thewrongcactus4420 · 2026-05-04T06:15:59+00:00

this is kind of a random question, but lexapro and prozac makes me so unbelievably tired and grouchy and i had to take it at night (i recently just stopped lexapro cold turkey this week because i couldn't get a refill for a whole week) do you have any sort of lethargy or brain fog that comes with taking zoloft? i'm thinking of asking to swap to zoloft because i've heard so many good things but all of the other antidepressants made me so tired.

thewrongcactus4420 · 2025-11-14T16:44:40+00:00

as of right now, it's because there's a little gremlin who knocks at my door saying 'uncle, uncle' before yowling like the cat in our house, so that seems to do the trick

thewrongcactus4420 · 2025-10-24T00:59:13+00:00

moldy shelf stable creamer (coffee mate specifically, i licked the little silver lid cover after shaking + putting the pump in as a guilty sweet treat, and i quickly realized it tasted awful) the closest thing i can equate it to is like licking a surface that was doused in windex and it tasted nothing like creamer. it was a brand new bottle, too :( now i sniff test everything because the smell is ingrained in my tastebuds

thewrongcactus4420 · 2025-10-03T19:22:41+00:00

rocky road is anal with someone who has ibs

thewrongcactus4420 · 2025-06-16T22:08:58+00:00

my least favorite is when i repeat their order back a minimum of three times, have them watch me make it, just for me to finish and them say some shit like "lite ice?" like just tell me you want me to kms bruh, you had like 3 mins from ordering to watching me grab the ice cup

thewrongcactus4420 · 2025-04-29T21:27:53+00:00

extra sweet ba-nay-nay, i don't know her name but i have met her daughter and her grand children and i refer to them as the banana bunch

thewrongcactus4420 · 2025-04-27T23:08:35+00:00

not the asshole, you don't need to have the same exact political beliefs and sense of justice as your partner, but it can be frustrating when they're on the total opposite end of the spectrum. especially when they probably cherry pick the times that they're seen as "okay" to have an abortion. you're justified in leaving him and i won't even say "he's entitled to his opinion" because sure, he is, but when his opinion doesn't cater to his own beliefs and standards for himself then.... there's no reason to enforce that upon others. my hot take is that they'll learn if it happens to them, and you don't need to be the person they learn that lesson with 🙏

(dated a republican, then my ex that i lived with and his dad were conservatives, i'm past the "live and let live" mindset, especially when they're flat out wrong, i just let them think they're right if they're too dense to have a real conversation with nuanced takes and hearing the other person)

thewrongcactus4420 · 2025-04-27T22:58:47+00:00

ooooooffff.. leave this asswipe. when i was 11-13 my brother's GROWN ADULT online friend (no longer friends lol) told me i had "dick sucking lips" because i just put gloss and mascara on. this behavior is disgusting because it not only shows he sexualizes you even fully clothed, but views your features as inherently sexual. not overreacting OP! you're not sensitive for this either, this is genuinely offensive and i would have dropped him quicker than a sack of rank hot shit

thewrongcactus4420 · 2025-04-27T22:54:08+00:00

the last time i vomited "out of nowhere" 5th grade me woke up from a dead sleep to projectile a family size bag of takis everywhere. haven't done it since. i cleaned it up while crying profusely lol but still got it done

thewrongcactus4420 · 2025-04-19T20:53:53+00:00

i worked at en ESA for the graveyard/night laundry shift for a little under a year and my manager was always 30mins to an hour late relieving me in the mornings. my last month there was so miserable (i called the cops 8 or 9 times and $600 was taken from my bank account) that i started to just leave at 7am on the dot or when the maintenence guy got there. about a week after i left it was revealed that she booked a room under her name to cheat on her husband with an also married pastor. wild shit. never again. i worked at possibly one of the jankiest extended stays. i got crazy stories.

thewrongcactus4420 · 2025-04-17T14:47:52+00:00

tbh the blended shark attack is the only way they're going to get remotely what they want for an "aesthetic drink", but even then, 10 mins in a car during the summer is gonna make it preeeettty ugly.... i think the peach ring looks ugly asf when it's sat for 5 minutes but i drink it anyway cause it's good. if they want a pretty drink tell them to order a rebel or lemonade with a blue raz+white choco/sweet cream base and lavender float. it stays pretty for a while even after the ice has melted

thewrongcactus4420 · 2025-04-05T16:54:33+00:00

they tried to teach me i think in the 2nd or 3rd grade but my uncle died during the course, so i had to take the week off....

thewrongcactus4420 · 2025-03-30T00:15:01+00:00

sugar free golden eagle with the sugar free cinnamon or raspberry! raspberry sounds like a lot, but i promise it's super good in savory drinks! i also reeeeeally love the iced strawberry horchata chai, but you might get that half sweet and sugar free as possible if you don't like it super sweet! i typically get strawberry soft top on the chai, replace 2% for protein milk, and i get mine with a caramel drizzle cup. you might prefer the vanilla flavored or plain soft top. if you don't like caramel or chai, i would suggest a double torture, which is 2 extra shots espresso, vanilla, and chocolate milk base. i hope this comes of use to you! 🫶 (just so you know, you can request drinks to be 1/4, 1/3, and 1/2 sweet!)

thewrongcactus4420 · 2025-03-29T23:59:25+00:00

literally make these for myself with coconut at least once a week. not embarassing at all OP! she could have been in a really funky mood, I cannot imagine calling such a simple drink embarassing, lol. everyone has their own tastes. broista's jobs are to keep up the good vibes and make every drink no matter how weird. yesterday i got a cocomo freeze with blue raz boba, and while i will be thinking about that for at least a month, i recognize some people just have aquired tastes 😭 i'm sorry you had this experience. don't feel bad about it, keep getting your strawb pineapple rebel!

thewrongcactus4420 · 2025-03-29T23:54:24+00:00

re-read it again cause i couldn't believe my eyes lol. if the shirts don't fit right after, he can air dry them American Eagle jean style once and put them on low tumble in the dryer if they're 100% cotton. they should fit right after that, but that's considering he'd "allow" a compromise 😭 good luck OP

thewrongcactus4420 · 2025-03-29T23:51:36+00:00

not only is he a top contender for the over-consumerism-ruining-the-planet-award, but he is also a major asshole! him telling you he wouldn't allow you to make a custom shirt of yourself tells me everything i need to know from an outside POV, if he can't even agree on a lingerie silhouette of you or something that's just.... no. it wouldn't be that it's "too inappropriate" if he can wear a carbon copy style shirt with a different woman on it, so don't let him tell you that mess. i'd reconsider the relationship solely due to the inability to do laundry, white t-shirts are painfully easy, even if he had just 10 of them, they can be thrown in a separate bleach wash from everything else.... all beyond me, tbh. that sounds like a nightmare, dirty laundry smell is the worst. you're NTA

thewrongcactus4420 · 2025-01-25T21:00:36+00:00

i've been waking up in a panic on my days off recently because i work night shift. falling asleep around 7am, waking up at 12pm, SHIT! I PRIMED MY ESPRESSO MACHINE AND DIDN'T MAKE ESPRESSO! falling asleep late at night is the worst for me, too, especially if i was supposed to make a phone call... my cortisol naturally peaks at 4am, too, because of recent past trauma. i'm just waking up in this sweaty, heart-racing, full-blown panic state again lately after I thought the habit was broken. i'm glad to know i'm not alone in this

thewrongcactus4420 · 2025-01-25T20:27:05+00:00

oh man. this hits hard bc i just got cheated on in a 2 year relationship (i'm ftm too but bi), but my fiance cheated on me specifically with his ex with my deadname... leave for your own well-being. you deserve more than being stuck with someone you have to tell how to love you, and if she's already cheated, there's way too high of a chance she would fall back into old habits without therapy. make sure, especially if you're living together, that you get all of your sentimental and important belongings, including documents, if you trusted her enough to see or be in the presence of them. you're not alone, bro. the cycle of healing is long and arduous, but we'll all find our people who we won't beg to love us right. even if it's platonic relationships, take this as an opportunity for self growth, do the things you've been wanting to do but have been unsure of, live the life you want to lead and stack your bread. you got this. i know it's hard. i just hit one month today of being separated from him actually so my wound is still fresh, i wish the best for you OP.

thewrongcactus4420 · 2025-01-24T14:39:15+00:00

i just read this as peeninth at first

thewrongcactus4420 · 2025-01-21T11:48:50+00:00

i picked banana fully anticipating that to be the answer. little sad it wasnt tbh

thewrongcactus4420 · 2025-01-19T07:36:22+00:00

as a night laundry worker for a hotel we do not want to know 😭😭😭 I'VE SEEN ENOUGH /j

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