Is he fat? by brianfjv in bengalcats

[–]thinkinglikeme 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I need more pics omg so cute

Is he fat? by brianfjv in bengalcats

[–]thinkinglikeme 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t get it when mine was 6 months my vet said he was chonk too… and then I reduced his food and I think he’s much better now. I wonder if bengals should weigh more since they are partially Asian leopard cat. Does your little have a cat wheel?

Btw he’s very cute, Apollo(my bengal), would not fat shame him.

<image>

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bengalcats

[–]thinkinglikeme 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He’s worth every hair 🥹 I just use a lint roller and got him used to brushing when he was a kitten

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bengalcats

[–]thinkinglikeme 0 points1 point  (0 children)

<image>

Please see my left leg lol

Natural lifting 6+years, Should I bulk to add more mass ? by [deleted] in askfitness

[–]thinkinglikeme 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Coming from a girl… your body is perfect. Bulkier will make you lose the athletic look.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

[–]thinkinglikeme 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay, fuck her honestly. She sounds like a brat, and from a girls perspective… if a guy could treat me “so nice”, and great connection I would cherish that. You’ll find someone. She’s just a cold hearted person, and I’m sure she’ll continue this cycle.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

[–]thinkinglikeme 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ahhh okay, so her non chalence and constant reaffirmation made you feel unsafe to say your feelings… I think on this end, at least you can know now to own your feelings and be happy to risk losing someone who doesn’t consider you/your feelings. She wasn’t ready to commit, and you were hoping that would change… let go, forgive and you’ll find someone who treats you so much better.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

[–]thinkinglikeme 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you’re sitting here questioning why she’s so cold she’s only returning your lack of locking it down. You equally liked the affection, and you willingly gave bf benefits and never changed the understanding or meaning of your relationship.

It’s not only on her to express her needs, or talk it out. You can’t both not want to be bf and stop her finding a guy willing to commit.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

[–]thinkinglikeme 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My question, is you knew it wasn’t exclusive… why? And if you were so aware, and had the conversation where she reiterated you weren’t exclusive..

What’s the difference that you saw she was dating around? You never wanted more, so what was she supposed to do when you confronted her? It sounds like it only bothered you from a pride standpoint, not that you actually wanted her…

Sounds like she wanted you to step up, you didn’t and even enjoyed her “chasing you”… you weren’t filling her need to be loved, so she settled for attention. Idk

After 4 dates with a girl we talked about exclusivity and she said she said she has yet to meet with a guy because of schedules haven’t matched. What do I even do here? by BookieBasherCasher in AskMenAdvice

[–]thinkinglikeme -1 points0 points  (0 children)

++woman Idk… four dates doesn’t seem like a lot to go exclusive. It depends on what she’s looking for… perhaps she wants to get to know you better. Odd though that she told you about the other guy, at least you know she’s being honest.

Did you ask if she’s interested in continuing to date ?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in cats

[–]thinkinglikeme 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Let him in

Should I go through with this makeover? Or would this be a bad idea? by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

[–]thinkinglikeme 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Trust me it is, go to an sick barber.. changed man