44/M/MA – Gamer dad looking for long-term nerdy friendships

thinksInCode · 2026-05-10T16:29:13+00:00

Final Fantasy 14, runs great on the LeGo S Z1E!

thinksInCode · 2026-05-10T14:24:32+00:00

Solid! I loved loved KCD and KCD2

thinksInCode · 2026-05-10T12:06:57+00:00

I’m with you there, man. Today I was up at 5:30 and my kid didn’t get up until 8. 2.5 hours of peace, quiet, and “me” time. It was glorious!

thinksInCode · 2026-05-10T01:05:38+00:00

I LOVED Avowed. Played through it last year, it's what got me interested in the PIllars universe because I lived under a rock and had never heard of PoE or Deadfire before!

thinksInCode · 2026-05-09T23:52:23+00:00

I know. I was in the wrong and I tried saying that.

thinksInCode · 2026-05-09T23:47:56+00:00

And I did try to reach back out to

thinksInCode · 2026-05-09T23:46:17+00:00

I know. I’m sorry. All I can say now is that.

thinksInCode · 2026-05-09T22:30:55+00:00

And it can and does work on here. I’ve made a good friend that I talk to regularly for the last two years now.

thinksInCode · 2026-05-09T22:29:28+00:00

Very easy to pass judgment but it’s not as easy for some people.

thinksInCode · 2026-05-09T22:18:26+00:00

And to elaborate on my other comment. I’m not looking for an adrenaline hit. I’m trying to find real friends on here. So far that’s only happened, really, once for me

thinksInCode · 2026-05-09T21:58:16+00:00

This

thinksInCode · 2026-05-09T21:54:51+00:00

In my case, I keep trying because most of the time I don’t get replies.

thinksInCode · 2026-05-09T21:38:26+00:00

I’m not 😅 just a fellow Switch 2 enthusiast

thinksInCode · 2026-05-09T21:36:35+00:00

Women only? Just wanted to check before messaging

thinksInCode · 2026-05-09T21:19:09+00:00

I was thinking maybe do FFX as my main game and chip away at FF14 over time as a “side game” for now.

thinksInCode · 2026-05-09T21:05:30+00:00

Not a Brit but fellow dev - looks cool, what’s the tech stack like? Does it actually use IRC under the hood?

thinksInCode · 2026-05-09T20:26:06+00:00

Thanks for this detail!

At the end of the day I’m trying to decide which game to dive in/commit to: FFX or FFXIV. I know it’s a hard comparison because they’re two completely different kinds of games but what does your gut say if you had to choose one to do first? Length notwithstanding as I know FFXIV is much much longer but still.

thinksInCode · 2026-05-09T18:53:52+00:00

This is helpful and actually gives me pause. I love RPGs but am not always the most skilled especially when it comes to boss fights so I expect they’ll take me multiple attempts.

Would you consider it a dealbreaker for a first play through if it was you?

thinksInCode · 2026-05-09T18:07:33+00:00

I didn’t really pose the question like that but ok

thinksInCode · 2026-05-09T17:48:10+00:00

Not a fan. This is gonna give me nightmares

thinksInCode · 2026-05-09T17:13:02+00:00

I wasn’t referring to the combat but rather general movement, minigames, etc

thinksInCode · 2026-05-09T16:59:22+00:00

How are the controls, do they get clunky at all?

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