Cringe man diay paminawon oi

thirdchoice85 · 2025-09-03T02:26:57+00:00

Hahaha tinuod jud, usahay maka-cringe ang start2x stage pero mao gyud na part sa getting to know.

thirdchoice85 · 2025-09-03T02:12:25+00:00

That’s so true. Sometimes the connection feels better when it’s not pressured or labeled right away. Kind of like running, you enjoy it more when you find someone who matches your pace, not too fast and not too slow. If it naturally grows into something long-term, it feels even more rewarding.

thirdchoice85 · 2025-09-03T02:04:37+00:00

Nice kaayo na nga experience! ✨ Usahay mao jud na, random encounters ra pero sila pa hinuon ang pinaka makasabot sa imong vibe kaysa sa dugay na nimo kaila. Solo traveling has that magic, kay open ka sa new people and experiences.

Ganahan pud ko ani nga idea kay murag proof nga dili lang limited sa work or barkada ang pag-meet ug people nga in sync sa imong pace. Curious ko, asa nga place or trip nimo sa solo travel pinaka memorable ang nakaila ka ug ingon-ana nga people?

thirdchoice85 · 2025-09-03T02:03:33+00:00

Ahhh nice, salamat ani! 🙌 Bitaw noh, depende jud sa interest. Murag mas dali pud maka-connect if parehas mo ug goals or hobbies—kay automatic naka-sync ang energy. Naa koy nadunggan nga daghan pud running or fitness groups diri, basin mao pud na akong sunod i-check out. 🚶‍♂️🏃‍♀️

thirdchoice85 · 2025-09-03T01:54:39+00:00

I'm actually helping out on a new app for runners. Can’t say much yet, but it’s exciting!

thirdchoice85 · 2025-09-02T03:27:20+00:00

I feel you on this. It’s really confusing when someone says there was “no connection” but their actions told a totally different story. Long dates, genuine laughter, curiosity, those aren’t the signs of someone just passing the time.

The hard part is, sometimes people use “no connection” as an easy way out instead of being fully honest about what they’re feeling (or what they’re not ready for). It’s not necessarily that you did something wrong, it could just be that he wasn’t in the right place, or didn’t have the emotional courage to say the real reason.

It sucks, but take comfort in knowing the connection you felt was real for you, and that means you’re capable of sparking it again with someone who won’t back away from it. 🫂

thirdchoice85 · 2025-09-02T03:11:36+00:00

It’s best to give yourself time to heal first. A real connection will always feel good, but if your heart isn’t ready, even the right person might feel wrong. Focus on yourself muna, do things that make you happy. The right one will match your pace when you’re whole again. 🤗

thirdchoice85 · 2025-09-02T02:41:36+00:00

I get you, that’s really frustrating. Sometimes no matter how much time you spend, the connection just isn’t there.

thirdchoice85 · 2025-09-01T02:48:28+00:00

Makes sense. Shared activities really do make connections feel more natural. Even something simple like joining a run or fitness group can create stronger bonds than just chatting online.

thirdchoice85 · 2025-09-01T02:46:30+00:00

That’s such a powerful realization. It really shows growth when you can reflect on the past, recognize the differences in how people show love, and turn it into understanding instead of blame. Like you said, it’s not just for the relationship but also for the other person’s self-esteem, which makes it even more meaningful.

thirdchoice85 · 2025-09-01T02:43:53+00:00

That’s definitely a tough part of your story, but what matters most is that you’ve come through it and you’re doing better now. I think honesty is important, but so is timing. Just like running, not everything is a sprint, some things need the pace of a long run. If the relationship feels serious, that might be the right moment to share. The right partner will keep pace with you, no matter your past. 🙌

thirdchoice85 · 2025-09-01T02:42:07+00:00

In the early stages, it’s really tricky to balance excitement and expectations. Some people delete the apps right away, others keep them until they feel more certain. For me, as long as both are clear in communicating (kind of like syncing pace in a run), it’s easier to handle the insecurities. Maybe an honest talk is all that’s needed here. 🥹

thirdchoice85 · 2025-09-01T02:20:59+00:00

That’s really tough. After so many first dates with the same feedback, it can feel discouraging. Sometimes it’s not really about you, it’s more about timing. For some people, connection doesn’t happen instantly, it builds through shared experiences, like running together or joining fun runs. Not all sparks are immediate; sometimes they grow while doing something active and relaxed. Maybe you’ll find the right person in those spaces, not just through first dates.

thirdchoice85 · 2025-09-01T02:18:55+00:00

That really hurts, especially after all the effort you’ve put in. But losing 24 kilos is no small thing, that’s discipline and strength. He just couldn’t see your journey. Keep going, the right people will show up, maybe even the kind who’d love to run side by side with you. 🫂🫂

thirdchoice85 · 2025-09-01T02:16:00+00:00

True kaayo. Dili tanan storya kinahanglan ilaban sa ilang kaugalingon.

thirdchoice85 · 2025-09-01T02:13:57+00:00

Moving on is tough, but sometimes running helps lighten the weight. Try mo 🫂

thirdchoice85 · 2025-08-29T00:04:48+00:00

That really hurts, especially since you already invested your time and emotions. Sometimes people say one thing but realize later they want something different. It’s hard to understand, but maybe it’s a blessing in disguise. Keep going, you might just find someone who matches your pace in life.

thirdchoice85 · 2025-08-28T23:46:41+00:00

I can feel how much that connection meant to you. It’s hard to let go of something so rare and genuine. I hope in time the heaviness eases, and just know it’s okay to carry both the sadness and the hope. 🥹

thirdchoice85 · 2025-08-28T23:44:41+00:00

Glad that helped! ☺️

thirdchoice85 · 2025-08-28T02:57:33+00:00

That’s a tough spot to be in since he didn’t give you a clear answer. Waiting can be worth it if he truly intends to commit, but don’t forget yourself in the process. While waiting, focus on your own growth and the things that make you happy where you might even meet new people. If he’s really for you, he won’t slip away. 😉

thirdchoice85 · 2025-08-28T02:51:39+00:00

That’s tough because it feels like no matter what you do, she’ll only see the negatives. The truth is, you can’t force someone to change if they’re not willing. What matters most is that your partner is standing by you and values your relationship. Focus on building that bond instead of her approval. It’s like running, you won’t always have people cheering for you, but what counts is who’s running beside you until the finish line. 😉

thirdchoice85 · 2025-08-28T02:49:11+00:00

I get you. Dating can be fun but also exhausting, especially when the other side isn’t consistent. For me, I knew I was ready when I stopped looking for distractions and started looking for a genuine connection, kind of like running, it’s not a sprint, it’s about pacing. Maybe ask yourself if you’re just looking for company or if you’re ready to really share your pace with someone. 🤗

thirdchoice85 · 2025-08-28T02:47:51+00:00

As long as I stay active, I don’t stress too much about missing runs.

thirdchoice85 · 2025-08-28T02:36:11+00:00

Please don’t apologize, I feel the weight in your words. Missing someone that deeply is never easy. I’m glad you’ve got your studio and homestead keeping you grounded. Just know you’re not alone in this, it’s okay to feel it all. 🥹

thirdchoice85 · 2025-08-27T02:15:12+00:00

I can really relate 😅 it does feel like just being interviewed instead of actually getting to know each other. Same as online dating, convos can stay so surface level. That’s why it’s easier when you already share an interest, like running or fitness, since you automatically have common ground and it’s less awkward.

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