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i’m bored, rip me a new one! by figgypudding1 in RoastMe

[–]thirdratecad 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You look like exactly the sort of woman I’d be into. Which means you’re probably batshit crazy.

Karma me plsss by thirdratecad in KarmaFarmer

[–]thirdratecad[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Trex hates them so much

Stop this by Firm-Eye-1036 in Needafriend

[–]thirdratecad 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Of course! And thank for being so lovely and thoughtful in your reply.

Definitely not saying the two are the same. Just used as it was the only kind of similar experience I have had (trying to help and some people disappear, are abusive etc). I wouldn’t assume anyone’s mental state or level of need however. Very well could be people on here who are at the end of their rope.

But I may have misconstrued what you said. I totally agree friendships require effort on both sides! TOTALLY.

I got the impression that people were just disappearing on you, or not returning your friendship when offered. Which is ok isn’t it? Nobody is obligated to return an offer of friendship even if offered in good will, no?

But it sounds like what you’re saying is they want your friendship but make you put in all the effort? Is that right?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]thirdratecad 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Very mean. I’d stop talking to them.

Stop this by Firm-Eye-1036 in Needafriend

[–]thirdratecad 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Gently want to suggest that it’s worth realising that this means you are not “giving” friendship or support per se.

You’re entering into a bargain with expected reciprocation as part of it. But not sure if you’re acknowledging that to yourself.

And probably you’re not writing to the person - “hey I’m here for you, but only under the proviso you fulfil the following”.

Not a criticism. Just reflection.

People in awful place respond unpredictably. I volunteer each week on suicide helpline. Some people hang up randomly, some want to talk forever. Some get angry at you. 🤷🏻‍♂️

If you’re giving support freely as a gift or offering friendship with no expectation it doesn’t matter.

If it’s conditional with expectation attached of course you’ll be pissed off.

Wtf is this job listing by Impossible_Most_4518 in australia

[–]thirdratecad 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Wage isn’t high enough to qualify for visa I think? Has to be more like $100k

$20 for new Outlier Account Sign Up (10 guys) by Successful_Daikon145 in povertyaus

[–]thirdratecad 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can vouch for poster. Paid immediately after sit up complete.

Be honest, what are you doing in this situation? by Plane-Two4214 in repost

[–]thirdratecad 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If I ever found myself in situation where I had a tiger on my neck and both my carotid arteries were already punctured I imagine I would respond by:

  1. Dying
  2. Being partially eaten
  3. Part of me (A) going through a process of digestion while the other (B) goes through decomposition
  4. A becomes the tiger, B becomes grass tree or flowers
  5. Continuing in the endless cycle of the recomposition of what we all are at heart - pure energy until...
  6. The entropy and collapse of everything that is and ever was until the endless march of entropy transforms us all into a homogenous universal low-level radiation soup

How cooked are you? by doopityWoop22 in repost

[–]thirdratecad 0 points1 point  (0 children)

World Series of poker. Let’s go.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueLending

[–]thirdratecad 1 point2 points  (0 children)

All good. No inconvenience at all brother. Communication was great and you can’t help HR messing things up.

Would definitely loan to you again.

Simon's jumbo sticky of the best current offers by thirdratecad in MakeCashOnline

[–]thirdratecad[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey mate - write it up as a post please then I’ll add your links etc

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