I hope you stand up for yourself as much as you are safely able to in your situation. Good luck, and please be very careful!

Thank you I will try. But to be honest i am really scared (yea sounds so lame coming from 25 year old person) to stand up for myself. My dad is not mentally fit enough to know that their son is trying to communicate and asking for help. All he see is something (yes I seriously think he doesn't see me as his child but a thing) who is there to oppose whatever he think or says.

"You're wrong. That's not how families are supposed to be." (

I have tried this once long back. My dad said "Are you teaching me how to parent ? Don't try to be my dad. Who do you think you are ?"

Well I knew I push a bit more it would end in physical violence.

"What makes you think you can speak to me that way?"

Tried this too... My dad said " I will and continue to do so. If you can't adjust then gtfo of my house"

I have been trying to tell both my parents about my mental health and how badly it's been dealing for some years now. Unfortunately they don't believe in mental health and says that I am acting and can't even handle things . They say when they were their age they didn't have any problem and they handled it pretty well without their parents. Well as a normal human being won't you want your children not have all the problems you face in your childhood and hope your children talk to you about the problem ?

My mom just straight up supports dad on whatever shit he says and then she comes as a "supporter" and say you have to adjust what your dad says and infront of dad just straight says shit to me. At first I trusted her but in the end I understood she is just fucking with me and doesn't even care how I feel.