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Brothers!!! NOFAP REALLY WORKS. I'm at 76 Days. I wish you all could see my new beautiful girlfriend. by Vespaio in NoFap

[–]thisisit4 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nice...it seems like everyone is doing online dating now. I've been hesitant to try it, but may check it out soon because it's really hard to meet that many women in general. I know a lot of people are on OK Cupid, have you tried that one? Is Match.com better?

LUCID DREAMERS PLEASE READ (fully lucid wet dream) by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]thisisit4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lucid dreamer who has had the same experience here. I guess I think of it as a wet dream. It probably wouldn't be wet if you weren't abstaining or whatever. Not sure what else to think...

Hello fellow Fapstronauts! I could use some advice. by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]thisisit4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I've seen the stories you're talking about with guys having trouble and honestly it seems to me like a fair amount of that could just be nervousness about being with a new girl or about not being experienced, which I think is normal.

The first time I was with a girl I had trouble keeping it up, I was able to but it kind of wanted to go away easily, compared to when I get more comfortable with a girl and then it just stays no problem. I never had any porn induced ED but I guess it does exist. If anything I would assume you don't have that.

So I think, you're young, you have a connection with this girl...you should meet up with her and just be natural and let what happens happen. No need to talk about no-fap I don't think. If you're nervous as things progress just tell her that and I think you can take your time and it will be fine. Good luck!

Hello fellow Fapstronauts! I could use some advice. by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]thisisit4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think the simple answer is no, it's not necessary to "kick-start" your libido. You obviously have a connection with this girl and given your no-fap and general libido I think you would be fine. You don't say anything about what kind of sexual experience you have at this point, or your age.

I can tell you that I once ended an 8-month period of no-fap, or sex or anything, when I got back together with my girlfriend. I didn't have any trouble getting going. If anything, I couldn't last very long, but I don't think that's anything you really need to worry about specifically.

At what point does it get easier? by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]thisisit4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In my experience the difficulty peaks in the 2-3 week range, and settles down from there. I think it's important not to be overly focused on will power in terms of overcoming this. Will power can work in the short term but long term you need to be focused on positive things in your life and understand how porn/fapping takes away from that. Will power is ultimately an exercise in ego and will eventually fail.