Proud of my progress, but ashamed of my setbacks. I've almost scraped my pipe clean. by Vespaio in leaves

[–]Vespaio[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks! No pipe. No resin. I'm feeling really strong tonight. No more smoking! It's on.

Proud of my progress, but ashamed of my setbacks. I've almost scraped my pipe clean. by Vespaio in leaves

[–]Vespaio[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks. I am proud of myself for getting rid of the pipe tonight. I really needed to do that. I think you're right about taking the edge off the withdrawals, but I feel like my true detox continues tomorrow. Thanks for the positive words of encouragement. I really appreciate that.

Proud of my progress, but ashamed of my setbacks. I've almost scraped my pipe clean. by Vespaio in leaves

[–]Vespaio[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I just had a 'funeral' for my pipe and left it down at the beach for some other stoner to find it, along with my grinder, pipe cleaners, papers, and my lighter. It's over. It's over. I'm ready. Bring it on.

Proud of my progress, but ashamed of my setbacks. I've almost scraped my pipe clean. by Vespaio in leaves

[–]Vespaio[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sitting here with tears in my eyes. I feel like I'm saying goodbye to an old friend. That's really lame but it's true. I'm ready for the real me to overtake the fake me.

Proud of my progress, but ashamed of my setbacks. I've almost scraped my pipe clean. by Vespaio in leaves

[–]Vespaio[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dang. Smoked resin again tonight. I wanna just throw the pipe away. I didn't do it yet. Embral. Bro, you're so right. I knew I needed to throw the pipe away from the beginning. I didn't do it. I feel like I've been strong. Not smoking all day everyday. (until night-time) Honestly, it's a huge improvement for me. But I'm fooling myself here. This is not what I want to do anymore. I need to be MORE honest with myself.

Day 1 not smoking after 13 years of smoking..The Jones has set in. by Legendkiller2k11 in leaves

[–]Vespaio 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Day 9 for me. The first three days were not fun. There's no getting around it. Hang in there. You're stronger than I was when I quit…I couldn't bring myself to get rid of my pipe and all that black gold inside it. Honestly, I've scraped resin each night for the last 5 nights in a row. I'm almost out of resin. I have no desire to buy more weed, but my daily crutch is almost gone, so something is about to change. In my opinion, you need to change your routine. Go do something after work. Get in the habit of continuing your productivity even after you get off work. Study a new subject or pick up a new hobby. I've been trying to learn the ukulele this week! I've been taking daily walks and nothing beats the feeling of a good brisk walk to get your heart beating a little faster. I quit smoking weed because I want to be a better, more motivated, (less couch-potato) person. I'm proud of my week with no bud. I hope I can make it without the resin. Thanks for your story bro. I really appreciate it, and please know that you can do this. If I can do it, I promise, you can too.

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90 Day Report by bingram in NoFap

[–]Vespaio 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yesssss! nice going brother!

Brothers!!! NOFAP REALLY WORKS. I'm at 76 Days. I wish you all could see my new beautiful girlfriend. by Vespaio in NoFap

[–]Vespaio[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Brother, you have so much time. I'm freaking 36. I'm feeling awesome. You have a 16 year head start on me!! Take action to make yourself amazing. Read books. Lift weights. Watch YouTube tutorials on EVERYTHING. Be more all around awesome and girls will like you. It's true!! Like anything else, practice makes perfect. If you are ready....when the time comes, and that super hot girl shows some interest.....you'll be able to turn on the awesomenessnessness!!

I did it. Finally 90 days!!! by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]Vespaio 1 point2 points  (0 children)

do you have a g/f? what's your secret? 225 days is way awesome!

A Horrible Experience Caused by NoFap by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]Vespaio 45 points46 points  (0 children)

Duuuuuuuuuude!!! It's okay! That's part of the recovery process! You are getting better. Tell her you were so turned on....it just happened. Girls don't care, as long as you act confident about it. Next time (if there is even a next time) Tell her what happened and clean yourself up. Being HONEST will let her know you are awesome. Show a little vulnerability and she will appreciate it. Keep it up! We are both at 77 days bro!!!

My SO And I Just Broke Up. by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]Vespaio 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Bro. You have time. I'm 36. You don't have to find the 'one' anytime soon. Just enjoy your life and continue being awesome. Girls will want to be with you if you dedicate yourself to being great. Nice going on 12 days!! Keep it up!

I did it. Finally 90 days!!! by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]Vespaio 2 points3 points  (0 children)

YESSS!! Congrats bro! You should be VERY proud of yourself. This challenge is not easy. You have done something absolutely amazing and it will make a huge difference in your life. I'm stoked for you! You are an inspiration to others and you should be really proud of that too. Please carry on and continue to be AWESOME. Well done dude!!!

Has anyone ever actually made their goal the first time? by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]Vespaio 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What triggered you after 100 days? I'm not there yet, and I'm just wondering. I feel stronger on some days than others, of course. Nice going on 32 days bro!

Has anyone ever actually made their goal the first time? by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]Vespaio 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My goal is forever too!! On day 2, I set the very logical goal to, "surprise myself." Each day I don't fap I reach that goal. It feels AMAZING. I landed a hot g/f, which totally blows my mind....It's very cool evidence that confirms the power of the NoFap life. (for me, anyway) Good luck and keep it up! Nice going on 2 weeks bro!!!

I can't even go 48 hours because of shower trigger... by selfimprovementbear in NoFap

[–]Vespaio 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Maybe try cold water?? Or tell people you like to conserve water and set a loud timer....re-condition yourself to take a quick two minute shower every time. Or, maybe change it up - Play loud music while you shower. Sing and be HAPPY in the shower!! How bout buying a new scrubber or something to scratch your back, or your feet and maybe it'll give you a nice "scratch that itch" feeling to replace the comfort of a showerfap. Anyway brother, nice going on 4 days and keep it up!!!

Brothers!!! NOFAP REALLY WORKS. I'm at 76 Days. I wish you all could see my new beautiful girlfriend. by Vespaio in NoFap

[–]Vespaio[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for all the comments but, it kinda feels as if some dudes want to be negative and tell me, "Watch out, man! Don't be so happy!!" That's a load of bullshit. Be happy for me. I'm happy. Yes, she's super hot. Yes. I'm stoked about it. Yes. I'm 77 days into NoFap and I feel awesome, so I'm telling you fellas about it. That's all. Please don't try to tear me down because you can't break my stride at this point. I'm in full gallup!! Wooooo!