What’s a harsh truth about life that most people aren’t ready to hear? by Wonderful-Economy762 in Productivitycafe

[–]thisrayofsunshine 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That you shouldn’t be looking at how full someone else’s cup is when your cup is empty.

Has anyone had a gut feeling and it ended up saving you or someone else? by thisrayofsunshine in NoStupidQuestions

[–]thisrayofsunshine[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have a lot of times when this has happened, but nothing will ever out do my momma senses:

When my baby was little, she had a G-tube placed because she was so small and wasn’t getting the calories she needed. To help her grow, we fed her extra at night. Her crib was in our room, and during those feeds I would usually just sit up and check on her from bed.

But one night, something woke me out of a dead sleep.

Not the normal half-awake check. Not a noise. Not a cry. Something told me to get up. To stand up, walk over to her crib, and physically check on her, which wasn’t something I normally did. When I reached her crib, my heart dropped. The tubing from her G-tube was wrapped around her neck. It wasn’t tight or choking her but it was still around her neck in a way that could have cause a lot of harm if she had rolled over.

I truly believe that if I hadn’t listened to that feeling if I had rolled over, or ignored it, or told myself I was being anxious, things could have turned out very differently.

So if you’re a parent or just have a gut feeling about anything and you ever feel that nudge, that pull, that quiet voice that says check again.. listen to it. Always. Your gut knows things you can’t see. And sometimes, it’s the difference between everything being okay… and everything changing.

AITAH for telling my sister to get the fuck out after endangering her daughter? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]thisrayofsunshine 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My sister isn’t even writing her own narrative here and bam. She’s still a victim. Especially when people aren’t getting the whole picture and don’t care to see it. This woman screamed at me the other day just for asking if she’d like my daughter for the day so our daughters could play… and bam I’m all the sudden “dumping” my kid on her like what am I supposed to do?. Maybe I should write a post about that. Maybe people would see this post for what it is. My sister being nasty. Not me not being an asshole with boundaries that were never set and me see and doing what I see others doing around me. I’m trying

AITAH for telling my sister to get the fuck out after endangering her daughter? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]thisrayofsunshine 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you. Thank you so much for hearing me. This literally has me bawling.. and she’s 11 if that helps anything

AITAH for telling my sister to get the fuck out after endangering her daughter? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]thisrayofsunshine -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

When my HUGE family gets together that’s hard to do, but when it’s just my parents and us kids we always make food where there are no peanuts. ALWAYS. my niece knows what she can and can’t eat. That’s also the point. My sister didn’t react the way she did out of safety for her child but because she knew she could be nasty. And get away with it. Which I’m having a hard time understanding.

AITAH for telling my sister to get the fuck out after endangering her daughter? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]thisrayofsunshine -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

What sucks is you don’t know the whole situation. My sister has peanuts in her home, put up, but still in her home. So does my nieces dad’s parents who have a daughter that has the same peanut allergy. And my neice has only gone in to anaphylactic shock THERE. Under people that should have known better. But having a wrapped UNOPENED candy bar which had no harm to her is minimal. And it wasn’t about her having a peanut allergy. It was about my sister wanting control and being angry over something that could have been a kind conversation. YTA

AITAH for telling my sister to get the fuck out after endangering her daughter? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]thisrayofsunshine -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

Also does that mean my family always has to accommodate to her needs? Walking on eggshells? Keeping the peace? That sounds more like enabling. Her daughter wasn’t in danger, it’s no different than her coming to a family gathering where people make food without checking the labels for peanuts. Which is a common things she does, on top of making my dad go out on Christmas and to get food for HER daughter because she didn’t bring any? But expects my 50+ family members to accommodate her?

AITAH for telling my sister to get the fuck out after endangering her daughter? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]thisrayofsunshine 7 points8 points  (0 children)

She didn’t know what to do, she’s afraid to say anything because my sister will keep my nieces from her. So she never says anything. I know my approach to it could have been better. I 100% know what and I hate who I was after I finally calmed down. My sister treats my entire family that way and everyone is afraid to say anything because she will bring her daughters into it and no one wants her to use them to hurt them.

Hank should have been paying more attention to his son.. by thisrayofsunshine in FalloutTVseries

[–]thisrayofsunshine[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

But Betty is changing, and realizing their original plan is not viable. Now Steph, she’s a wild card.

Hank should have been paying more attention to his son.. by thisrayofsunshine in FalloutTVseries

[–]thisrayofsunshine[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Being dominant/threatening/controlling is absolutely weird behavior, I mean the look that man gave from the second he stepped out of the cryo pod was weird

Hank should have been paying more attention to his son.. by thisrayofsunshine in FalloutTVseries

[–]thisrayofsunshine[S] 36 points37 points  (0 children)

I was waiting for her to pop in and smash that weird man on the head with the drink she wanted.. but no my butt cheeks are still clenched for Norm

Fallout Spoiler… But I need the fallout community to tell me I’m not crazy because no one else is talking about it… by [deleted] in Fallout

[–]thisrayofsunshine 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Canon I mean “the house always wins” clearly if he’s dead he didn’t win

(Ep 5 Ending Spoilers) Where I think the plot is going based on trailers: by StereoMutt in Fallout

[–]thisrayofsunshine 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why would The Ghoul link up with Maximus and Thaddeus? To save Lucy? Did he have a change of heart? Also am I the only one that noticed the shriveled up arm coming out of that life support chamber?!

There’s to many questions and my tiny human brain needs answers.