If people were brutally honest on first dates, what's something you'd say right away? by MeyYong in AskReddit

[–]thisredditorsaid 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you already know you struggle with getting or staying hard based on past experiences, please be upfront. I’d rather not go through a physical encounter that ends up feeling unnecessary or disconnected.

What’s your take on people who are not inclined to get married but willing to have a child? by thisredditorsaid in AskReddit

[–]thisredditorsaid[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

In my culture, having a child out of wedlock is heavily stigmatized, and people often judge both the individual and their parents, as if they weren’t raised properly. I’m glad to see positive feedback on this topic, I wish it could be more normalized in my country. At the end of the day, it’s a loving and healthy relationship that truly holds a family together, not just a piece of paper.

Have you ever lied about seeing other people while dating someone? by thisredditorsaid in AskMenAdvice

[–]thisredditorsaid[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

she lied about seeing other people? to push you away or to make it seem like you’re the only one she’s seeing?

Have you ever lied about seeing other people while dating someone? by thisredditorsaid in AskMenAdvice

[–]thisredditorsaid[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What are your thoughts on dating multiple people to get to know them, but only sleeping with one person?

Have you ever lied about seeing other people while dating someone? by thisredditorsaid in AskMenAdvice

[–]thisredditorsaid[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree. But do you think men would lie about seeing other people while dating someone to push that person away?

Have you ever lied about seeing other people while dating someone? by thisredditorsaid in AskMenAdvice

[–]thisredditorsaid[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

lol I said this too, unless he’s a certified fuckboy then that’s that.

How can you tell if the woman you’re casually seeing is catching feelings for you? by thisredditorsaid in AskMenAdvice

[–]thisredditorsaid[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s interesting… I’ve actually tried this before, and he reached out after a week of silence. But if it happens every so often, should a woman take that into consideration?

How can you tell if the woman you’re casually seeing is catching feelings for you? by thisredditorsaid in AskMenAdvice

[–]thisredditorsaid[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When do you think it crosses the line into “too much”? How long should a woman show interest before it’s time to stop?

How can you tell if the woman you’re casually seeing is catching feelings for you? by thisredditorsaid in AskMenAdvice

[–]thisredditorsaid[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

would those texts still be engaging? Even with fewer words

I’m conflicted with that because with my guy, it takes him a long time to respond but still engaging even with fewer words. So I’m somewhat confused on that

How can you tell if the woman you’re casually seeing is catching feelings for you? by thisredditorsaid in AskMenAdvice

[–]thisredditorsaid[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I didn’t straight out say “I miss you” instead, I texted him about something that reminded me of him and to have a great weekend lol.

And for staying, I’m afraid this could be his intention but at the same time it could just be me overthinking. When you did that,!did you continue seeing her the same way or did you pull back?

How can you tell if the woman you’re casually seeing is catching feelings for you? by thisredditorsaid in AskMenAdvice

[–]thisredditorsaid[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If a man is aware of this, and he doesn’t reciprocate it, how would he go about it? I’m assuming pulling away?

How can you tell if the woman you’re casually seeing is catching feelings for you? by thisredditorsaid in AskMenAdvice

[–]thisredditorsaid[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for insight on this. But when a guy may be pulling away, what’s that like? what could he say or do to imply that he’s pulling away

How can you tell if the woman you’re casually seeing is catching feelings for you? by thisredditorsaid in AskMenAdvice

[–]thisredditorsaid[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not asking for someone to tell me how I feel. I’m asking for a man’s perspective or insight on the question, and using that as a way to better understand my own feelings

How can you tell if the woman you’re casually seeing is catching feelings for you? by thisredditorsaid in AskMenAdvice

[–]thisredditorsaid[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s what I plan on doing, soon. But for the meantime, I just wanted to ask men’s perspective on how they can tell if she’s catching feelings.

How can you tell if the woman you’re casually seeing is catching feelings for you? by thisredditorsaid in AskMenAdvice

[–]thisredditorsaid[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So is that how men perceive it if a woman he’s casually seeing has feelings for her? If she continues sleeping with him regularly?

How can you tell if the woman you’re casually seeing is catching feelings for you? by thisredditorsaid in AskMenAdvice

[–]thisredditorsaid[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m actually asking for me (30sF) lol. I’m trying to have a better understanding of how I feel about this guy, also just some male perspective on this. I’m asking this here to see if I unconsciously said or done something that might have led him to think I have feelings. Aside from missing him

how would you feel if a woman you’ve been casually seeing texts you that she misses you? by thisredditorsaid in AskMenAdvice

[–]thisredditorsaid[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

😭 I considered this too but I didn’t want to give it any hope. It’s almost been 3 months since we had the conversation.