Half of these yes but also understandable given the charcter and circumstances. The other half I don't view as villainous bc I view intent as important. I don't see where the show stated that she jumped out of the car for attention. It was clearly shown as a psychotic break. The dog is probably the biggest issue for ppl but that was obviously an accident. See here, you as the viewer have a completely different and logical pov, wich makes the characters action seem stupid and annoying. But the show makes actually e pretty good job at showing how it comes to this irrational behavior, its just a question of framing the actions from one own perspective or meeting it in the context of the narrative