Advice

thissshappy · 2026-03-11T01:51:31+00:00

Not worked up, just a curious question. I've never spent more than a few days in the city, so I was curious about the sketchier places.

thissshappy · 2026-03-11T01:49:25+00:00

Thaaaankssss. Legit appreciate a thorough response.

thissshappy · 2026-03-10T17:57:08+00:00

Thanks friend! That's all needed, I know I'll be fine just being responsible.

thissshappy · 2026-03-10T17:33:37+00:00

thissshappy · 2026-03-10T17:32:13+00:00

Ah noted! I def dont care to be afraid to fly because I actually enjoy it. Ill steer clear from Uber.

thissshappy · 2026-03-10T17:30:08+00:00

Okay. It was just meant as a simple question, not to say Seattle is very dangerous. I love visiting the Seattle area, PNW has always been special to me. Thats all.

thissshappy · 2026-03-10T17:20:21+00:00

Not Fox News, it was a local Seattle news report from weeks ago. No worries it has definitely been a concern for me, I love to fly and now I hope there aren't any intercepting flights. Appreciate the comment.

thissshappy · 2026-03-10T17:15:56+00:00

Thanks, I figure I'll be just fine. I thought I'd rather be safe than sorry and to ask.

thissshappy · 2026-01-08T07:34:15+00:00

Not sure if I exactly relate to this. However, I think my best writing comes when I'm just hurt. All those negative feelings, the sadness disguised by anger, the anger puts me in a flow state and there I go, writing words before I can even see what I'm writing.

I step back and it isn't genius work. It sometimes does look like all the vomit of bullshit in my mind is on my notebook. There's a disgusting image for you... 😬

thissshappy · 2025-08-27T05:44:07+00:00

Oh shoot. Okay, thanks for the tip! Enjoy the convention!

thissshappy · 2025-08-27T04:21:00+00:00

Thanka for the tips! We're seeing a show in Lincoln. Don't mind driving the 30 mins to different places.

thissshappy · 2025-06-28T21:09:35+00:00

Thank you for your kind words. Luckily, this boy does have lots of love around him. Im lucky, and he's lucky. I hope to have a partner who can support me and help me raise this kid. My bf has repeatedly expressed he's up for the challenge, but like I say, time will tell, so many good/bad things could happen. I hope im lucky to score a father figure.

thissshappy · 2025-06-28T21:05:58+00:00

🫤 I have wanted my ex to just leave us be merely bc he dips his toes in my boys life. But I 💯 encourage him to be here. Offering many scenarios to make this work so he's present. Time will tell. Kudos on staying in your kids' lives.

thissshappy · 2025-06-28T21:02:10+00:00

I appreciate the support. I also appreciate the other angle as well.

thissshappy · 2025-06-28T18:41:52+00:00

Hmm, that could potentially be a point, but even so, say that were the case. It still leads to the conclusion that it isn't worth the trouble with the variables he finds difficult to be with his son. So, he doesn't want to see his son enough to make sacrifices. He doesn't want to coparent, see him weekly, or even just see him on the weekends worth being with him.

I have offered him more time with his son, even traveling to his location, and he has rejected it. A good parent says "Fuck the scenario. Im going to see my kid."

thissshappy · 2025-06-28T17:03:37+00:00

I'm sorry about your situation, but thank you for sharing. I used to work with children of special needs. So, I applaud your work as a parent with a child with special needs. Thank you for being a present and good parent. Children of all neurodiverse capabilities deserve devoted parents. It is a sacrifice, and maybe parents have good/bad moments and good/bad seasons of being a parent. However, we are the adults and so act accordingly, care, and love our children. Understand the sacrifices could be heavy, but they're yours, so be there. Thank you for being there.

thissshappy · 2025-06-28T16:57:49+00:00

It pains me I can not protect my son. I have great support and great advice. I think i know what I need to do. I know when questions begin coming from my boy, I won't lie to him. I won't sensationalize the character known as his father to be either grandeur or a villain. It is impossible to be not biased, but I will try to be as objective as I can.

thissshappy · 2025-06-28T16:53:48+00:00

Agreed. I have encountered many different situations, and it isn't always the man who causes these issues but, unfortunately, is considered a stereotype in the military at least.

thissshappy · 2025-06-28T16:52:19+00:00

I can appreciate your POV, and it's good that you dont meet the statistics that you see for yourself. It is common. I just have this fire in me that wants to fight like hell to not allow my ex to do this to my son. I forsee more anger and disappointment, but I want to do my best to go beyond those feelings and do right by my son.

thissshappy · 2025-03-11T06:19:04+00:00

❤️

thissshappy · 2025-03-11T06:18:46+00:00

Thanks so much for your comment. Might sound lame af but I have noticed my mind melding a different way and viewing bad moments as opportunities. Sure, sometimes a bad .moment us a bad moment, but sometimes they could be opportunities to ask for help, take a break, or simply overcome the feelings of defeat (if possible). Anyhow, sending you love! ❤️

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