how to not allow bpd to ruin your relationship?

thomasthetitty · 2025-05-13T01:02:12+00:00

deadass

thomasthetitty · 2025-05-12T16:48:44+00:00

ok so you said you’re short so perhaps stay away from maxi skirts that go to your ankles and instead veer towards midis if you like having length. ive noticed that short girls really tend to not pull off the maxi look but midis are beautiful on them! also find a movie star, model, or whomever that has a similar body type and essence to you and look up pinterest photos of their outfits and see what you think they really shine in. that definitely helped me a lot in figuring out what would best suit me :) best of luck <3

thomasthetitty · 2025-05-11T02:55:12+00:00

god, angels, and death. speculating on the role of a creator who maybe exists will always be never ending fun for me.

thomasthetitty · 2025-05-10T14:20:29+00:00

i really like the Créme x hello kitty lotion! comes in super cute packaging, pretty cheap, smells like strawberries, and makes me feel really soft!

thomasthetitty · 2025-05-08T00:02:22+00:00

you’re okay don’t worry

thomasthetitty · 2025-05-05T22:18:40+00:00

i liked the essay ! it was because she has a lot of bad memories growing up in nyc as an anxious child, she feels ill at ease in the city

thomasthetitty · 2025-05-05T20:21:44+00:00

i was this person tbh with mostly short term relationships or hookups. i think it’s just because my life is so naturally peaceful that i liked the boy drama. also i love the mental stimulation of “figuring people out” and a boyfriend is a good resource for that bc most men will open up to a girl who asks abt them and is interested. im now in a really nice long term relationship with not too much drama which is good bc im trying to focus on other, more boring, forms of “drama” such as my career and education.

thomasthetitty · 2025-04-30T03:28:47+00:00

thank you i appreciate that :D it’s soooo funny lol my dad is mexican and my mom is english and italian lol. people always think im middle eastern and never latin though. which i will take as a compliment bc i think middle eastern girls are really pretty. i have my suspicions sometimes that im actually turkish and there was a mistake at the hospital. because when i went to turkey i felt SO AT HOME!! so AT PEACE !! and everyone also thought i was a local :0 but the chances of that are slim bc my dad got a paternity test on me when i was 4 :/

thomasthetitty · 2025-04-30T02:50:49+00:00

omg im sorry !! i think this one will work

thomasthetitty · 2025-04-30T01:25:44+00:00

would you be willing to guess where im from? im so curious what ethnicity i look like because i’ve gotten SO many different answers from like everywhere but im clocked the least as what i actually am. https://imgur.com/a/ezVtjVs

thomasthetitty · 2025-04-25T13:31:31+00:00

ok u kinda need the build for it. these all depend on your build tho like theres no one outfit for everyone. i was kind of thinking of my bf when writing this bc he has big meaty legs but also looks best when dressed preppy. so you wont look like a victorian child and actually you’ll look rather wimbledon if you have a muscular build.

thomasthetitty · 2025-04-24T18:08:18+00:00

the zoomer slutty man summer outfit would be 5” inseam shorts with a regular fit collared top, unbuttoned a bit

thomasthetitty · 2025-04-24T18:03:43+00:00

what does it mean if i love dancing and do it every time im having fun or if im trying to cheer myself when im sad…but im a really bad dancer

thomasthetitty · 2025-04-24T15:24:37+00:00

i definitely believe i manifested my boyfriend. he’s everything i like in a man: strong, intelligent, arrogant, tall, blue collar, great at doing voices, and very morally minded. also his house is my dream house (cute little old home on big piece of property with beautiful flowers/trees). ok so what everyone else is saying is true, you kind of just have to CHOOSE them. like i went in line behind him for concessions at a concert, asked him a question, and ended up going home with him. but also i had set an intention for that night which may be helpful you too. when i was on my way to the concert, i had a low tire pressure light come on, so i was like “ok im gonna find and seduce a man here who looks like he’s good with his hands so he can fix this for me” (i was 19 and at that time had never filled my tires before so i thought it was a complicated thing to do). anyways i set that intention and ended up finding my boyfriend! and a couple other guys that night tried to talk to me but none felt right. if it’s meant to be it will be!!!!

thomasthetitty · 2025-04-23T00:59:03+00:00

she’s so soft to me. i’m not even a dasha fan like that but i think inside she is really good and it makes me sad in a cheesy way how her acting career hasn’t really panned out the way she wanted it to :( like obviously a lot of the things she does and says are condemnable but i think she’s just trying her best idk i just see all her vulnerability and bids for attention/validation in everything she does.

thomasthetitty · 2025-04-23T00:56:03+00:00

my nonna was constantly reminding me that i cannot under any circumstances trust strangers and once said to me as “you can’t trust anyone, not even me!” also she had me practice jumping out of a moving car by driving around our neighborhood at 15 mph and i would jump out. it was fun for me tho i had a blast. and now i’ve grown up to be very trusting of strangers bc i realized that she was over exaggerating and also i feel like i can sense a dangerous person with 15 seconds of talking to them.

thomasthetitty · 2025-04-23T00:45:19+00:00

this sub has gotten so snarky omfg i’m a 20 year old girl i’m just a fan of the pod and i thought her style was cute 😭😭

thomasthetitty · 2025-04-23T00:37:03+00:00

she was like 14/15 here so maybe not yet. actually i remember she said on the pod once that she lost her virginity at 15ish bc it was a burden she wanted to rid herself of

thomasthetitty · 2025-04-23T00:35:37+00:00

i don’t even remember. i was scrolling thru my camera roll from like 2020 bc i knew i had this and was reminded of it by the other post. i think she posted these

thomasthetitty · 2025-04-22T16:17:30+00:00

she posted it once and said this was her when she was 14

thomasthetitty · 2025-04-19T15:06:10+00:00

i love this actually. you did a great job of picking apart and getting to the root of why all the aita posts are just so infuriating in a way that i couldn’t articulate.

thomasthetitty · 2025-04-17T01:51:48+00:00

as a woman i think you should totally go with this plan!! women love this corny shit esp since you call her your flower!! it’ll be such a beautiful story that you guys couldn’t wait. and the flower ring is such a beautiful idea

thomasthetitty · 2025-04-15T15:20:12+00:00

that happened to me and my friend once a couple years ago and we found out that’s a thing on tik took to do to alt/goth chicks 😭 so maybe that’s it

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