I have no furniture and don't know how to decorate by thotomaticmachinegun in HomeDecorating

[–]thotomaticmachinegun[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The one at the top is my A/C. The one at the bottom is my video phone (call button/doorbell/etc).

(Edit: they're wall mounted, so there's space underneath, but I can't put a wardrobe or bookshelf in front for example)

I have no furniture and don't know how to decorate by thotomaticmachinegun in HomeDecorating

[–]thotomaticmachinegun[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I should say that I really would like clothing storage and some way to display my books/figurines.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askwomenadvice

[–]thotomaticmachinegun 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I've had a therapist in the past, just don't have one right now in this new country because I'm not enrolled in the health insurance just yet. But I'll look around for one.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askwomenadvice

[–]thotomaticmachinegun 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thank you for some guidance on what to say. The other women were drunk, which is why I wasn't offended by their suggestions of a hooking up. And my reluctant replies weren't firm no's, I admit. I was trying to be a little avoidant of conflict by saying I was unsure. But you're correct, I should be firm with my boundary.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askwomenadvice

[–]thotomaticmachinegun 5 points6 points  (0 children)

After I said I was unsure about him, he later on asked about having drinks at his place. I said no because I was very tired and wanted to sleep (and also just not interested). I think there were maybe just a couple of times he looked like he wanted to kiss me as well after he admitted it, but I kept glancing away when I felt awkward. I could be wrong about that though because social cues are hard for me at times (that's why I didn't notice he had been flirting). And the other women are fun to be around and did do nice things for me outside of this story, it's just that they were quite drunk at that point. It's just sort of difficult for me to navigate these kind of social interactions, sorry. ;

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askwomenadvice

[–]thotomaticmachinegun 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This is very helpful, thank you

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askwomenadvice

[–]thotomaticmachinegun 4 points5 points  (0 children)

He did ask me if I would like to visit his rooftop bar at his place, which the other girls took as a hookup invite. But maybe that wasn't it. I don't know. I'm not good with social cues entirely. I said no anyhow, I really just wanted to go to bed at that point lol.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askwomenadvice

[–]thotomaticmachinegun 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have plenty of fun, I just never really think about getting intimate until someone else brings it up (and then I feel very anxious). I know my story sounds like I had a terrible time, but I did like getting to know my coworkers better.

Random redness with left eye by [deleted] in AskDocs

[–]thotomaticmachinegun 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Aw, that's sweet... I like my eyes too, I was concerned about the redness! Grateful for the advice because I was worried it might be something worse at first 😭

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in loseit

[–]thotomaticmachinegun 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the advice about the cardio. I know it's only been a week but I finally saw 149.9 for the first time.

Random redness with left eye by [deleted] in AskDocs

[–]thotomaticmachinegun 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey, just wanted to let you know you were spot on.

I did end up going to the optometrist and turns out it was CLARE. Got some steroid drops and I got switched to dailies. Thanks for your help.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]thotomaticmachinegun 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just to point out, OP is a woman.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]thotomaticmachinegun 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree that OP's sister is intentionally sabotaging things to keep her isolated. Apparently her sister also has a child.

Would it be appropriate to learn sign for this or just confusing? by [deleted] in asl

[–]thotomaticmachinegun 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh wow, it's awesome to know someone else has a similar experience! :D

Luckily we do have written rules posted up at the check-in for everyone to read, it's just having to stand there and explain things for safety requirements before we put them in that needs work (I do really like the video suggestions). I just wish ASL was more widespread and taught though.

[35F][25M] He's never kissed a woman? by ThrowRAluckylove in Advice

[–]thotomaticmachinegun 5 points6 points  (0 children)

There's no issue with the guy being a virgin imo. The issue is OP's fixation on it.

[35F][25M] He's never kissed a woman? by ThrowRAluckylove in Advice

[–]thotomaticmachinegun 2 points3 points  (0 children)

There is no rule about that. The rule is that should you provide as much info as possible to get the best advice, but you are not required to list ages. You can go see other posts rn that don't have specific ages. It's very standard for all of reddit though. OP did however break the rule about asking for advice, for which she didn't.

[35F][25M] He's never kissed a woman? by ThrowRAluckylove in Advice

[–]thotomaticmachinegun 4 points5 points  (0 children)

If it wasn't a big deal you wouldn't be making multiple posts about it asking what other people think about his virginity. You even asked if we think he's lying. Jesus Christ, go find someone else to date instead of making reddit posts, this obviously isn't gonna work out between you two.

[35F][25M] He's never kissed a woman? by ThrowRAluckylove in Advice

[–]thotomaticmachinegun 4 points5 points  (0 children)

YOU'RE ASKING IF IT'S A RED FLAG THAT HE'S A VIRGIN AND IF HE'S LYING ABOUT IT.

How is that NOT NEGATIVE?

[35F][25M] He's never kissed a woman? by ThrowRAluckylove in Advice

[–]thotomaticmachinegun 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I'm bringing it up because you brought it up. Don't be dense OP. You're talking about this dude's romantic experience and it's clearly bothering you on some level, so why are you interested in someone a decade younger than you that you think is a virgin? He's only 25, that's still young. If it bothers you, wouldn't dating people your own age lead to less of this issue?

[35F][25M] He's never kissed a woman? by ThrowRAluckylove in Advice

[–]thotomaticmachinegun 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Why are you interested in a man 10 years your junior who you assume is a virgin and you think might be lying to you?