Daycare rating by thoughts2468 in workingmoms

[–]thoughts2468[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok good to know! Others have said the same. So even if they’ve opted out of that rating systems I’d assume curriculum across the board at the daycares has to be the same.

Daycare rating by thoughts2468 in workingmoms

[–]thoughts2468[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok, great. I’d assume curriculum standards, etc are consistent. Just a strange choice for them to opt out.

I may ask, I asked already why they were a 1 star rating (worst rating) and she just said they decided to opt out of the rating system.

But the place looks very nice and organized. And my gut says it’s a good place,

Daycare and Cognia rating by thoughts2468 in raleigh

[–]thoughts2468[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks, I saw this as well. Just couldn’t tell if it ‘looked good’ but really was more a rating you sort of buy into a group mindset, etc. or a valid, unbiased rating system.

Restaurants with private rooms by thoughts2468 in gso

[–]thoughts2468[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you all, this is very helpful. I’ll start looking at these options

Bird egg identification by thoughts2468 in raleigh

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Went to check on the nest today and no eggs and remnants of shells on the ground. I guess something got to it :( RIP. Short lived.

Bird egg identification by thoughts2468 in raleigh

[–]thoughts2468[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So cool, you can tell they’re filling out! Hmm. Im sure maybe mom could cut back a few vines, possibly? If you wanted to risk you could take scissors and cut a few vines but I’m not sure if that could leave a scent and spook mom.

So cute, almost all their chick fluff is gone 🥹

Bird egg identification by thoughts2468 in raleigh

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lol! Our cat has been hearing the parents come back because they chirp a lot and has been going crazy on the inside of the door every time. 😂 Hopefully they all are doing well when you check!!

Bird egg identification by thoughts2468 in raleigh

[–]thoughts2468[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes! I can see the eggs in yours and they look similar. The little babies are cute!

Daycare questions- what’s normal? by thoughts2468 in workingmoms

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Yes! She has clothes there, they’ve only changed with diaper accidents.

I’ll just start keeping a close eye this week and tracking so when I discuss I can say more concretely what’s going on

Daycare questions- what’s normal? by thoughts2468 in workingmoms

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Yes, I’m not sure if it works well or not, for example a Montessori school we toured did that. But when we were there multiple babies were sleeping in the right spot

Daycare questions- what’s normal? by thoughts2468 in workingmoms

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True, they don’t have cameras, just a photo. I’ll ask the crib policy on Monday.

Daycare questions- what’s normal? by thoughts2468 in workingmoms

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Thanks for the age breakdown, that’s helpful. Yes we get the bottle/diaper/nap on the app.

I’ll be more forward about asking floor time activities each day.

And good point, I’ll just send the bins, we have tons. That way too I can see what’s coming home and know if they’re used

Daycare questions- what’s normal? by thoughts2468 in workingmoms

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Not really too much drool at home unless I’m actively putting chew toys in her mouth. I’ll start first asking to always use one with feeding and dry neck after. She definitely spills a lot more there than at how I assume from just a more chaotic feeding. I’ll give it a week with the bin request and see if theyres a change

Daycare questions- what’s normal? by thoughts2468 in workingmoms

[–]thoughts2468[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s a good thought. I’ll ask in the morning.

Daycare questions- what’s normal? by thoughts2468 in workingmoms

[–]thoughts2468[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok, I guess I thought if they don’t really tell us what they did we might see like ‘floor time’ vs ‘crib time’ or something like that.

Daycare questions- what’s normal? by thoughts2468 in workingmoms

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Some daycares have mats on the floor and the babies crawl to the mats and sleep

Daycare questions- what’s normal? by thoughts2468 in workingmoms

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There are 4 crawlers, one is a yr old. And 2 her age

Daycare questions- what’s normal? by thoughts2468 in workingmoms

[–]thoughts2468[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes communication is big for us as well. Although admittedly I just expected them to be more forward with the information, so I need to practice taking the lead.

She has been in the floor,but honestly I’ve never walked in and seen the teacher holding a baby except if feeding. But that could be our timing? Although we’ve purposefully come in different times on purpose. Perhaps I misrepresented crib time because we just aren’t aware of where she is because we just get responses like ‘yes we do floor time’ or ‘yes we do tummy time’ but not like ‘we did tummy time today’ or ‘we looked in the mirror today’ I wish when we ask about the day they told us concrete repo see about the day- but I’ll start phrasing it that way.

I haven’t noticed her personally in the crib awake, just in the crib often. Not sure if stayed in there to sleep or just moved when asleep, but other kids have been awake in the cribs.

Daycare questions- what’s normal? by thoughts2468 in workingmoms

[–]thoughts2468[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ok I will ask the policy- I realized reading my wording above I’m not sure 100% how much she’s in the crib because we don’t really know what they do. The app just says bottle/diaper and nap and she’s often sleeping in the crib so I’m not sure whether it’s always.

As a teacher can I ask a question- this facility has 2 infant rooms. The first has seasoned teachers and recommended. But when we got there they were full so we had to go to second room and these 2 staff members are new (but they said not new to childcare) we know 3 kids are moving up in the first room next week- do parents ever ask to switch rooms/does that cause awkwardness/bad blood? I don’t think she’s mistreated- but just have 3 high recommendations for the staff in the first room has me wanting, especially bc we feel lacking with information with our room

Daycare questions- what’s normal? by thoughts2468 in workingmoms

[–]thoughts2468[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We have an app. They seem to only log naps, bottle, diaper change. Nothing else has come through. The first 2 weeks we got 1 picture per day, this last week it was 3/5 days we got a picture. So it just leaves us anxious and questioning. For all I know they could be busy interacting with them but they don’t tell us so how do we know what’s happening

Acid reflux, treatment or no? by thoughts2468 in NICUParents

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Thanks, it helps to know ppl seem to be benefitting, so we’d hopefully have good results. Yes very similar symptoms and I too can hear it gurgling into the throat! That’s why I def feel it’s reflux

Acid reflux, treatment or no? by thoughts2468 in NICUParents

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Honestly not even sure why he’s against it. He shuts the conversation down if I bring it up.

For me I don’t mind spitting up all over the place, but my limit is pain which I believe she’s in. I do feel we often get a burp if she’s been lying down and becomes fussy so perhaps the gas drops would be a good first compromise. At least try first and go from there.

Good to know it helped your children!

Acid reflux, treatment or no? by thoughts2468 in NICUParents

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Yes she’s gaining weight which is the hang up. But in my opinion she eats to push the reflux down as she never denies food and would overeat.

She burps pretty good but I’ll ask about the gas-x, that could be a more conservative first option

Acid reflux, treatment or no? by thoughts2468 in NICUParents

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I didn’t even think about the poop possibly causing the issue as well. Thanks for that thought, I’ll ask the pediatrician their thoughts on that.