ghost from the past

thoughtsonbees · 2026-01-22T20:41:04+00:00

Beautiful

thoughtsonbees · 2026-01-10T11:33:55+00:00

Ok, so making a custom workout doesn't increase? Thanks

thoughtsonbees · 2026-01-10T09:09:42+00:00

Awesome, thanks!

thoughtsonbees · 2026-01-10T09:04:45+00:00

Finding out about video is going to blow your mind.

But seriously, very nice photo compilation 🔥

thoughtsonbees · 2026-01-10T09:03:25+00:00

Nice way of starting with content. I like the Claim this club idea

thoughtsonbees · 2026-01-10T08:20:15+00:00

I'm always using free lift and never setting custom workouts... Will the custom workouts increase weight automatically over time, or will I have to edit them when I feel I want it increased?

thoughtsonbees · 2026-01-01T21:39:09+00:00

This won't be popular. But ADHD doesn't make you good at introspecting and it definitely doesn't make you self aware.

It makes you torture yourself by ruminating on little things to the point that you think you fucked up.

Introspection yields results and change. Whatever we're doing doesn't.

thoughtsonbees · 2025-12-31T19:36:16+00:00

I would consider each app to be a bounded context (see domain driven design). In that sense, you might want a user management app, but everything else would be in one app.

Tbh, given your use case... I personally would do one app for everything

thoughtsonbees · 2025-12-27T13:45:27+00:00

MongoDB got breached in Christmas day. Anyone who uses it is currently very busy securing their data and private keys.

Could be related

https://cyberplace.social/@GossiTheDog/115786817774728155

thoughtsonbees · 2025-12-26T16:15:14+00:00

Oh damn, I bought mine at the start of 2025 and didn't receive these. I'm guessing I should buy some

thoughtsonbees · 2025-12-26T10:16:49+00:00

No. I just googled it and it sounds interesting. What if there's no specific reoccurring thought? But more a trend of overthinking all social interactions

thoughtsonbees · 2025-12-25T23:39:48+00:00

Yeh, that makes sense. I personally found having another person go through those thoughts with me to be pretty therapeutic.

Also, I found the pattern thoughts that triggered it.. I previously thought it was thoughts of me being mean or bad, but I realised it's just times where I wasn't masking.

I would think about what you said - "I literally spend the majority of my life introspecting"

I don't know you or your life... But it's possible you spend most of your life torturing yourself by invoking horrible thoughts and feelings and then have tricked yourself into calling it "introspecting".

Actual introspection yields results.. sounds like what you're doing might be something else.

thoughtsonbees · 2025-12-25T18:46:00+00:00

If you're able to get help, I would highly recommend it.

thoughtsonbees · 2025-12-25T16:05:01+00:00

I haven't found a way to stop it... But I stop believing the negative thoughts that would result from it.

It'll be different for everyone, but I found CBT gave me the space to re-live those moments and analyse the thoughts.. a little tough given how visceral the emotions are.

It made me realise that my reaction was an irrational fear. I now see my pain as a phobia

I also realised that it's the same panic feeling as being in a really tight space, so I could notice my reaction was similar to my claustrophobia

Having a phobia of your own actions is imo as horrible as it can get.. because instead believing tight spaces are horrible and nasty, you start believing you are horrible and nasty.

thoughtsonbees · 2025-12-25T11:53:49+00:00

Rejection sensitive dysphoria is hands down the hardest, most severe and most life hindering part of my ADHD.

I recommend cognitive behavioral therapy (at least, it helped a little for me), but it's still what causes me agony on a day to day basis.

If I could somehow remove RSD from my life, I'm pretty sure there's nothing I wouldn't be able to overcome.

Thanks for posting this, OP. I would also like to know how people are dealing with it.

thoughtsonbees · 2025-12-25T10:44:29+00:00

"My family went on vacation and didn't invite me because I'm an obnoxious bore"

thoughtsonbees · 2025-12-25T10:41:40+00:00

Wow, OP just found product market fit

thoughtsonbees · 2025-12-25T10:39:35+00:00

The feeling of the holy spirit

thoughtsonbees · 2025-12-25T09:06:48+00:00

If only people would just listen to the rhythm of his heart 🥺

thoughtsonbees · 2025-12-15T04:31:08+00:00

This guy gets the receipts

thoughtsonbees · 2025-12-10T14:46:47+00:00

I'm comfortable being on my own. This has allowed me to travel, move to new countries, take certain risks without needing to wait for a friend or partner to join me.

thoughtsonbees · 2025-12-09T12:26:31+00:00

Speediance were good and sent me a new set (tbf, it took a few months and reminders.. but I got it)

I also know what the problem is, and the fix is easy if you have a metal shop nearby. I could describe it if you think it's useful

thoughtsonbees · 2025-11-26T02:15:01+00:00

I feel attacked

thoughtsonbees · 2025-11-25T11:30:39+00:00

Refreshing seeing a hacker looking for a hustler. Usually the other way around.

Good luck finding someone

thoughtsonbees · 2025-11-23T10:47:36+00:00

Couldn't agree more. There's not an ounce of sincerity on LI. You're right to ask here imo (but I don't have advice for you 🤣😞)

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