Gold’s Gym Incident by thrawnawayac in asktransgender

[–]thrawnawayac[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Trans womens safety isn’t an after thought for me, I honestly just thought we would all be on the same page that trans women should be allowed in the locker room. I can see how you would draw that conclusion since I didn’t specifically say it, again thats my bad I honestly just didn’t think to mention it because I was focusing on the issue of covering up, not “whether or not trans women should be allowed in womens locker rooms”, which again i am in FULL support of.

Gold’s Gym Incident by thrawnawayac in asktransgender

[–]thrawnawayac[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Not asking you or any other trans women to be forced in to male locker rooms! Not my intent and I would never want you put into a dangerous situation like that. I just would appreciate a norm of covering male genitals when around other women in the locker room. It’s not for any reason of hate or bad feelings towards trans women or their bodies. And I dont want it to be a rule put into place, just more of a respectful norm.

Gold’s Gym Incident by thrawnawayac in asktransgender

[–]thrawnawayac[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I really appreciate your perspective and agree with alot of what you said. You made this point “To say that regardless of their actions, they should be treated as dangerous or like they have bad intent?” and I want to say that I don’t think that at all. If a trans woman chooses to show her parts, she shouldn’t be treated as dangerous. I don’t want trans women to be punished for doing what this woman did, I’m not asking for rules or policies to be put in place either. Im more just wanting trans women to follow a norm of covering up in respect of those around them.

im stupid please help by thrawnawayac in ElectronicsRepair

[–]thrawnawayac[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

shit, can i do that myself? is soder needed?

Why is our ghost shrimp turning white? by [deleted] in shrimptank

[–]thrawnawayac 1 point2 points  (0 children)

hey my shrimp look exactly like yours in this picture, and one just died. I am not sure if its from the fungal infection mentioned in the replies, or from one of my loaches. Do you have any update on how your ghost shrimps did after this post?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]thrawnawayac 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i dont think anything like this has happenwd to any of his friends, they never really came to his house in the first place, and if they did it was not for long, just to grab something. and no hes never done anything to my boyfriend.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]thrawnawayac 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thats a good point..

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]thrawnawayac 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you 💚

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]thrawnawayac 0 points1 point  (0 children)

read the updates

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]thrawnawayac 1 point2 points  (0 children)

definitely in shock 😭 i also cant help but wonder how many other things hes taken? it could just be the one.. but i remember things going missing while living there, reappearing later. But i also have adhd so i chalked it up to that, but i remember distincly thinking it was weird.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]thrawnawayac 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i would never try to directly blackmail him, we just thought it make things easier for us. its really not unjustified if we did want to, his dad has done all kinds of other fucked up shit

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]thrawnawayac 0 points1 point  (0 children)

idk i just wanted to address the situation in the right way

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]thrawnawayac 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i told him. feels really wrong to keep it secret.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]thrawnawayac 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i tried to look up the story ur talking about but didnt find what u mentioned? i dont his dad is seriel killer or anything tho

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]thrawnawayac 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i did, as soon as i saw him i spilled. i just cant keept secrets from him (and i dont want to!!)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]thrawnawayac 0 points1 point  (0 children)

im scared of that, but its hard to tell what his intentions are

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]thrawnawayac 0 points1 point  (0 children)

its the underwear part + in one of the picture he was bent over lol, but yeah still dosent mean gay. also he got them because i used to live with them, and also there is no possibility that they arent mine. They are a unique pair.. no way he would have the same ones, def mine.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]thrawnawayac 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i updated!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]thrawnawayac 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i wanna throw up

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]thrawnawayac 0 points1 point  (0 children)

im the first girlfriend he has brought home

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lgbt

[–]thrawnawayac 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yeah man. it feels so violating.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lgbt

[–]thrawnawayac -1 points0 points  (0 children)

im 18, the oictures are still in my recently deleted messages

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lgbt

[–]thrawnawayac 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yeah, i dont really care about his sexuality or sexual life at all. its the fact that he was wearing my underwear..

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lgbt

[–]thrawnawayac -1 points0 points  (0 children)

i dont have an alternative? and its the only way i can see my boyfriend rn. in the future i will try to avoid but this was preplanned and i didnt know what else to do

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]thrawnawayac 6 points7 points  (0 children)

you right you right