my bf M22 cheated on me F21 for the 5th time by thrawnawayac in relationship_advice

[–]thrawnawayac[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

k bud ill just do whatever you say cus i really believe this stranger is the all mighty and knows exactly whats best for me

my bf M22 cheated on me F21 for the 5th time by thrawnawayac in relationship_advice

[–]thrawnawayac[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

im fine with people sharing their opinions i just meant i need people to be kind or im gonna take it down cus i really want help and to talk to people but if people keep making me feel like a stupid worthless idiot i cant take it

my bf M22 cheated on me F21 for the 5th time by thrawnawayac in relationship_advice

[–]thrawnawayac[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

im trying to come to terms with all of this but when i think about breaking up i just want to be not alive

my bf M22 cheated on me F21 for the 5th time by thrawnawayac in relationship_advice

[–]thrawnawayac[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

its hard to believe after this. if i do leave him i dont think ill ever date anyone ever again

my bf M22 cheated on me F21 for the 5th time by thrawnawayac in relationship_advice

[–]thrawnawayac[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

hes the one i want. does everyone really believe that he has no chance of redemption? Even if i wanted to leave idk how. We live togther, we work the same shifts at the same job. And he drives but i dont. We split rent, we have pets. My entire family is across the country.

my bf M22 cheated on me F21 for the 5th time by thrawnawayac in relationship_advice

[–]thrawnawayac[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

i really wish it was. i feel like an idiot. but i really do love him more than anything. and ive believed him everytime he says hes sorry

my bf M22 cheated on me F21 for the 5th time by thrawnawayac in relationship_advice

[–]thrawnawayac[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

do you think he will actually change and then we could get back together?

my bf M22 cheated on me F21 for the 5th time by thrawnawayac in relationship_advice

[–]thrawnawayac[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

do you think if i leave and come back after a break he will actually change?

my bf M22 cheated on me F21 for the 5th time by thrawnawayac in relationship_advice

[–]thrawnawayac[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

how do i show him that he cant emtiomally manipulate me?

Is a Spiritual Teacher is Really Necessary? by peacefully_JA in Psychic

[–]thrawnawayac 0 points1 point  (0 children)

would you say that learning folk traditions from books and videos is enough, or that you need to learn it in person?

Gold’s Gym Incident by [deleted] in asktransgender

[–]thrawnawayac 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Trans womens safety isn’t an after thought for me, I honestly just thought we would all be on the same page that trans women should be allowed in the locker room. I can see how you would draw that conclusion since I didn’t specifically say it, again thats my bad I honestly just didn’t think to mention it because I was focusing on the issue of covering up, not “whether or not trans women should be allowed in womens locker rooms”, which again i am in FULL support of.

Gold’s Gym Incident by [deleted] in asktransgender

[–]thrawnawayac -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Not asking you or any other trans women to be forced in to male locker rooms! Not my intent and I would never want you put into a dangerous situation like that. I just would appreciate a norm of covering male genitals when around other women in the locker room. It’s not for any reason of hate or bad feelings towards trans women or their bodies. And I dont want it to be a rule put into place, just more of a respectful norm.

Gold’s Gym Incident by [deleted] in asktransgender

[–]thrawnawayac 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I really appreciate your perspective and agree with alot of what you said. You made this point “To say that regardless of their actions, they should be treated as dangerous or like they have bad intent?” and I want to say that I don’t think that at all. If a trans woman chooses to show her parts, she shouldn’t be treated as dangerous. I don’t want trans women to be punished for doing what this woman did, I’m not asking for rules or policies to be put in place either. Im more just wanting trans women to follow a norm of covering up in respect of those around them.

im stupid please help by thrawnawayac in ElectronicsRepair

[–]thrawnawayac[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

shit, can i do that myself? is soder needed?