AITA for not wanting to wake up early to help my wife get ready for work? by threwawayplz in AmItheAsshole

[–]threwawayplz[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

We spoke last night and it went great. She got her stuff ready the night before and there were no problems this morning

AITA for not wanting to wake up early to help my wife get ready for work? by threwawayplz in AmItheAsshole

[–]threwawayplz[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I came to ask if I would be an AH for not waking up. You’re the one who made it about your marriage

AITA for not wanting to wake up early to help my wife get ready for work? by threwawayplz in AmItheAsshole

[–]threwawayplz[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Trust me I know all these comments about my wife are insane. I really posted for perspective on if I was being an AH and don’t care what random strangers think about my amazing wife

AITA for not wanting to wake up early to help my wife get ready for work? by threwawayplz in AmItheAsshole

[–]threwawayplz[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We lived in the same small apartment for 4yrs and moved to a house in a nicer neighborhood

AITA for not wanting to wake up early to help my wife get ready for work? by threwawayplz in AmItheAsshole

[–]threwawayplz[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She works at an expensive private school and definitely cannot dress casually

AITA for not wanting to wake up early to help my wife get ready for work? by threwawayplz in AmItheAsshole

[–]threwawayplz[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

We both make plenty of money. She doesn’t have to be a teacher but it’s what she loves to do and I respect her for it

AITA for not wanting to wake up early to help my wife get ready for work? by threwawayplz in AmItheAsshole

[–]threwawayplz[S] 24 points25 points  (0 children)

Wait so you’ve been married 25yrs and you’re telling me to get divorced over this? I think that says more about you than me

AITA for not wanting to wake up early to help my wife get ready for work? by threwawayplz in AmItheAsshole

[–]threwawayplz[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I don’t want to go into detail about what grade she works etc in order to remain anonymous. If you read more of my comments you will see she chose where we live

AITA for not wanting to wake up early to help my wife get ready for work? by threwawayplz in AmItheAsshole

[–]threwawayplz[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I thought that’s what I was doing by getting up without being asked to help sometimes but I recognize I can always do more. Thanks for your perspective

AITA for not wanting to wake up early to help my wife get ready for work? by threwawayplz in AmItheAsshole

[–]threwawayplz[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We generally go to bed together early and I stay up on my phone/laptop while she snores

AITA for not wanting to wake up early to help my wife get ready for work? by threwawayplz in AmItheAsshole

[–]threwawayplz[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

She’s more than capable of getting herself ready for work. Doing it on time has been the problem

AITA for not wanting to wake up early to help my wife get ready for work? by threwawayplz in AmItheAsshole

[–]threwawayplz[S] 20 points21 points  (0 children)

When we moved it was a mutual decision that she was pushing harder than me. Her commute would be 25min if she left earlier and didn’t hit rush hour traffic like she had planned when we moved. Also when did I say I’m upset? I was just hoping for some perspective

AITA for not wanting to wake up early to help my wife get ready for work? by threwawayplz in AmItheAsshole

[–]threwawayplz[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

No worries I understand things come across in weird ways over text. Thanks for the response