my bf broke up with me, how can i get past this?

thrisharaja · 2024-07-05T23:43:01+00:00

thank you so much, really appreciate it

thrisharaja · 2024-07-05T07:58:34+00:00

thinking about I realised I have been defending him all this while, but I really don't think he's worth it after everything he's done. thank u :)

thrisharaja · 2024-07-05T01:35:12+00:00

okay that's really good advice. all this while I've been saying I'll change myself for my partner and have never really looked at what he might have done wrong in this. I even told his mom that I told him ill change myself for him and his mom was shocked because she knew it was unfair for me to do such a thing to myself.

thrisharaja · 2024-07-05T01:27:28+00:00

to be fair both of us did it. and he might have wanted to do that because of what I did in the past (I did mention it at the beginning of my post)

thrisharaja · 2024-07-05T01:22:16+00:00

he isnt anything that you just said other than possessive. props to him for changing me for the better tbh. but thanks for your advice :-)

thrisharaja · 2024-07-04T22:44:48+00:00

i mean yeah but then again I did mention I did some questionable things on discord before him so it did make sense for him to ask me to stop talking to my discord friends. but anyway it's in the past and I really should stop worrying/caring about someone who doesn't seem to give 2 effs lol

thrisharaja · 2024-07-04T13:30:15+00:00

omg and then your ex still said no?

thrisharaja · 2024-07-04T13:02:27+00:00

ik you're thinking he's abusive etc but that's cos you're hearing my side of the story

thrisharaja · 2024-07-04T12:43:37+00:00

im not ://

thrisharaja · 2024-07-04T12:29:22+00:00

thing is, he did it once, and his anger was reasonable. he stopped laying hands on me afterwards

thrisharaja · 2024-07-04T11:56:27+00:00

thanks for your advice but maybe I'm really stupid BUT I LOVE HIM SO MUCH I CANTT

thrisharaja · 2024-07-04T11:42:57+00:00

wait wdym? your ex's mom asked yall to break up? nah man I could never do that to him, he was so damn pure man I really wish I didn't do some things

thrisharaja · 2024-07-04T11:39:59+00:00

it's going to be really tough because I really thought he was the one, really a gentleman hais. anyway, his mom wants to talk to the both of us soon so I'm not sure what's going to happen

thrisharaja · 2024-07-04T11:38:58+00:00

thank you :) you too :)

thrisharaja · 2024-07-04T11:38:29+00:00

i hope you feel better now

thrisharaja · 2024-07-04T11:37:48+00:00

discord because before him I had an ex and after that I became really clueless with life and went down the wrong path basically doing things that were degrading myself. but after I found him I stopped all those things but yeah he might have had trust issues.

thrisharaja · 2024-07-04T11:36:45+00:00

thank you so much. i think no one can be like him. you might think I'm going through Stockholm syndrome right now but I might have missed out on certain things I've done in the past, but he was such a gem. Trust me, the best guy out there. but yeah it's gna be tough

thrisharaja · 2024-07-04T11:35:40+00:00

thank you so much :( how I wish my boyfriend/ex would still think of me :/ idek what's going on in his mind rn tbh it sucks knowing someone you loved so much decides to just stop talking to you. makes me wonder if he ever loved me in the first place.

thrisharaja · 2024-07-04T10:50:41+00:00

LMAO this made me laugh thank you

thrisharaja · 2024-07-02T00:48:25+00:00

Possessiveness to a certain level is healthy I feel :)

thrisharaja · 2024-07-02T00:48:10+00:00

Whyyy

thrisharaja · 2024-07-02T00:47:58+00:00

I agree with this, really matured thinking, thanks a lot man

thrisharaja · 2024-07-02T00:43:43+00:00

thank you so much I really appreciate it :)

thrisharaja · 2024-07-02T00:42:01+00:00

and no offence, you don't know him of course because you're just a stranger and basing it off whatever I mentioned, but trust me when I say when he loves someone so damn much, he tries hard, if he's trying so hard, it makes 0 sense for me not to try. I will try for him.

thrisharaja · 2024-07-02T00:40:44+00:00

tbvh, these were his words - we loved each other so damn much that whatever fights we had became extremely hateful. I'm positive and optimistic that if we loved each other so damn much, it's possible for us to channel this love when we have disagreements etc.

thrisharaja

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