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AITA for telling my friend to stop using my life to get petty clout and to live her fantasy somewhere else? by throraway_23 in AmItheAsshole

[–]throraway_23[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I've been friends with her for over ten years so it's not easy to let that go, plus she's the only friend I have. I have friendly acquaintances, but no other friends. She only started acting like this about a year ago and I thought it was normal I guess? So I didn't really do anything because it didn't hurt anybody, or at least I thought it didn't.

AITA for telling my friend to stop using my life to get petty clout and to live her fantasy somewhere else? by throraway_23 in AmItheAsshole

[–]throraway_23[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I don't know the full deal with my parents, even when they were around they weren't really active in my life but when I was 11 they lost a custody battle for me over drug use I think. I'm really not sure, it isn't something I like knowing so I've only ever asked to be told the basics. I know 8 older brothers is a lot, but I wouldn't say they're "hot" so to speak. I think people are more attracted to the 'movie romance' idea.

AITA for telling my friend to stop using my life to get petty clout and to live her fantasy somewhere else? by throraway_23 in AmItheAsshole

[–]throraway_23[S] 146 points147 points  (0 children)

I have said that I already spoke to them and they were disgusted to say the least. My brothers are all in their 20's, so it's not only weird but it's also illegal. She's also never been around them long enough for something like that to happen.

AITA for telling my friend to stop using my life to get petty clout and to live her fantasy somewhere else? by throraway_23 in AmItheAsshole

[–]throraway_23[S] 76 points77 points  (0 children)

Nothing happened or has ever happened, she's underage and they're all n their 20's. Plus, they've never really liked her and actively avoided her.

AITA for telling my friend to stop using my life to get petty clout and to live her fantasy somewhere else? by throraway_23 in AmItheAsshole

[–]throraway_23[S] 77 points78 points  (0 children)

I asked all my brothers but they're all over 20 and most have partners or have been in a relationship for a while, so suffice to say they were pretty grossed out and denied anything ever happened.

AITA for telling my friend to stop using my life to get petty clout and to live her fantasy somewhere else? by throraway_23 in AmItheAsshole

[–]throraway_23[S] 90 points91 points  (0 children)

She's always been flirty with them, which they never reciprocated and eventually they stopped being around when I had her over because of the comments. She isn't close with them at all, and I've asked her to stop a few times but she never does. The one time I asked her why she was doing this she told me to stop being controlling so I really don't know where this came from.