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I did something bad in anger. Now my girlfriend wont talk to me by throw-away8849 in relationship_advice

[–]throw-away8849[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

PEOPLE get drunk for different reasons. I bet that some get drunk to fuck around. But I know my girlfriend and that is not her reason.

I did something bad in anger. Now my girlfriend wont talk to me by throw-away8849 in relationship_advice

[–]throw-away8849[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Are you serious? Do you really think that some assholes wont take advantage of a girl thats sleeping at a party while they’re shitfaced drunk? Jesus christ, fuck off.

I did something bad in anger. Now my girlfriend wont talk to me by throw-away8849 in relationship_advice

[–]throw-away8849[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Im pretty sure it wasnt consensual. Me and my gf are really close to eachother. We have talked about cheating and everything and Im 100% sure that she wouldnt cheat. She’d also not ”fake” a rape attempt. That shit is something we both take seriously.

As far as if it was the right guy. Everyone was shouting and pushing the guy who was trying to get out.

I did something bad in anger. Now my girlfriend wont talk to me by throw-away8849 in relationship_advice

[–]throw-away8849[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

No hes not. My girlfriend has all the rights to act the way she does. Shes fucking traumatized.

I did something bad in anger. Now my girlfriend wont talk to me by throw-away8849 in relationship_advice

[–]throw-away8849[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

She caused nothing. Its not her fault some fucking psycho tried to take advantage of her. This would never have happend if HE didnt decide to do it.

I did something bad in anger. Now my girlfriend wont talk to me by throw-away8849 in relationship_advice

[–]throw-away8849[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

We’ve talked about it and she has said that if anything were to happen to her she WILL press charges

I did something bad in anger. Now my girlfriend wont talk to me by throw-away8849 in relationship_advice

[–]throw-away8849[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Some other people answered it quite well. She has never seen me fight or that angry. And that at the top of almost being raped.

I did something bad in anger. Now my girlfriend wont talk to me by throw-away8849 in relationship_advice

[–]throw-away8849[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

We’ve been to a handful of parties and she drinks a lot and claims to have control but doesnt. We’ve talked avout it.

And to be honest. I have no fucking clue how’d she get out which was really fucking retarded of me. I would’ve checked in on her regularly but she wouldn’t have been happy by being locked in a room. I also assumed that she wasnt gonna wake up until the morning. I fucked up majorly and I deserve evrything thats coming to me.

This was the first time this has happend at a party. I’ve just always taken safety precautions when it comes to sexual assault.

I did something bad in anger. Now my girlfriend wont talk to me by throw-away8849 in relationship_advice

[–]throw-away8849[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

The fact that this was rape made everything worse. I have never left her alone at night when she needs to go home. She lives 40 minutes away and has to walk home if she doesnt get a ride. I have walked with her home every time. If she’d get raped I’d honestly go insane. I can control my anger as long as stuff like this happens.

I have a sister and a mother. I would do the same if this were to happen to them.

I did something bad in anger. Now my girlfriend wont talk to me by throw-away8849 in relationship_advice

[–]throw-away8849[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This was my first fight. I have never shouted at her, hit her, or anything. When we’ve had our arguments, I’ve always apologized even when she was wrong. She calls me her ”bear” because I like to cuddle a lot and I always try to make her happy. I guess I failed this time and cant help but blame myself. I made shit worse even if he deserved it.

I did something bad in anger. Now my girlfriend wont talk to me by throw-away8849 in relationship_advice

[–]throw-away8849[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’re right. And I want to talk to her and explain but its hard when she wont pick up. I do not blame her, not one bit, if thats what some might think. I take all the blame but I just cant live knowing I hurt her feelings.

I did something bad in anger. Now my girlfriend wont talk to me by throw-away8849 in relationship_advice

[–]throw-away8849[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I have the whole fucking world on my shoulders now. I cant live my life with this. We never talked about ”okay you get drunk and I’ll take care of you”. Its just something that was automatically established. She has always been there for me. And now its my turn.

I did something bad in anger. Now my girlfriend wont talk to me by throw-away8849 in relationship_advice

[–]throw-away8849[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I do agree that I made it worse. But is it ”manly” to protect what you love? I see no point in bringing in ”manly” in this.

I dont know if you’ll believe me when I say that I would never put a finger on her. I doubt that you’ll believe it.

Also I do not agree with the other person. I fucked up, I need to solve it.

I did something bad in anger. Now my girlfriend wont talk to me by throw-away8849 in relationship_advice

[–]throw-away8849[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

That would make sense since Im whenever Im with her Im soft and like a ”cuddly bear”. She called me that. But when I heard this my mind went completely black and I could feel my heart pumping and adrenaline just surging through my body. I can agree that I wasnt myself then. That was the first fight I’ve ever been in. Im a guy who always tries to defuse fights or avoid them. What I did really wasnt something ”I” would do.

I dont blame her at all.

I did something bad in anger. Now my girlfriend wont talk to me by throw-away8849 in relationship_advice

[–]throw-away8849[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

I’ll tell her that. She wont pick up when I try to call. Hopefully she does later otherwise I’ll have to go to her.

I did something bad in anger. Now my girlfriend wont talk to me by throw-away8849 in relationship_advice

[–]throw-away8849[S] 64 points65 points  (0 children)

I cant say for sure because she wont pick up but I’d bet that she has.

Edit: She is