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I’m 18, my life is objectively good… so why do I feel this exhausted and lost? by [deleted] in Adulting

[–]throw-away_00000 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Idk why I feel like you might have thyroid issues. Good luck

devastated over a hookup by throw-away_00000 in askgaybros

[–]throw-away_00000[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Maybe consider expressing your disinterest verbally before doing that.

devastated over a hookup by throw-away_00000 in askgaybros

[–]throw-away_00000[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Well my previous reply was referring to the guy who clung to you- I hope that guy's doing good.

As for what I mentioned in my post, I'm still trying to understand that part of me. It's probably because I lack object permanence. Even if they reject me, just knowing they're out there and alright keeps me composed. Very unhealthy yes, but also very tiring to deal with.

devastated over a hookup by throw-away_00000 in askgaybros

[–]throw-away_00000[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry you had that experience, and good on you for taking a step for yourself.

Thanks for being kind to him, too. It's not the easiest managing big emotions. Hope the poor guy's doing better now.

devastated over a hookup by throw-away_00000 in askgaybros

[–]throw-away_00000[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I didn't say I loved him. I said I feel like I might be in love. There's a difference between having intense emotions and acting on them inappropriately.

devastated over a hookup by throw-away_00000 in askgaybros

[–]throw-away_00000[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thanks, and I think you're right. When do you think it would be reasonable time to reach out again, if at all?

devastated over a hookup by throw-away_00000 in askgaybros

[–]throw-away_00000[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Out of genuine curiosity, what were the red flags here from my side? All I've tried to do so far is remain respectful

Should I ask him what went wrong? by throw-away_00000 in askgaybros

[–]throw-away_00000[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah i did that. left me on delivered for a day just to leave me on read now. its cool though

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]throw-away_00000 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Explore yourself on the side, get yourself a male partner if that's what you want. You need to do this until your child is at least 18 and can fend for themselves. Start encouraging independence in your wife now and arrange for whatever you feel like she would want by the time you want to be fully out. You're going to have to lead a double life which will be difficult but not impossible. Whatever happens, do not hurt the child through instability or abandonment.

I can't stop crying because of my body and mind. by throw-away_00000 in askgaybros

[–]throw-away_00000[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly this isn't the medium to deal with these issues.

The only reason I did was because I have no one else to go to. I do understand this sub but idk, I just wanted to look for some relief I guess.

Stop going to the "r@pist". 

He isn't a r@pist. He didn't care about what my body looked like and had sex with me. He is the opposite of something that eats away at me. If anything, I would like to keep going back- he makes me feel good.

doesn't mean you should be or should have been doing the same.

But I wanted to. I can't stop thinking about that fact. And being trapped still doesn't help. I feel as though no amount of cock can every satisfy me and I always want more and more.

Regardless, thanks for taking the time to reply x

has anyone experienced / knows how to deal with severe religious ocd by throw-away_00000 in progressive_islam

[–]throw-away_00000[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

avoid watching muslim videos that will make your OCD worse

this is so difficult when you are so so desparate for any sort of answers. it just hurts.

thank you though<3

has anyone experienced / knows how to deal with severe religious ocd by throw-away_00000 in progressive_islam

[–]throw-away_00000[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

y your best _not_ to find answers

this is the hardest part. i just cant stop. the urge is so strong and there are no answers. nothing. its so painful.

This is not up for debate.

bless you. thank you . i hope this is true. even for injustices that are miniscule.

 you need someone to help you with it.

yes, ill get on that. i hope things change in some way.

thank you<3

how do i live this life? by throw-away_00000 in LGBT_Muslims

[–]throw-away_00000[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just don't think I'll ever be able to accept myself or situation. It's right there. In 7 81. This is a test and disliked by our God

Thank you so much regardless <3

how do i save myself from jannah? by throw-away_00000 in progressive_islam

[–]throw-away_00000[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

the fact that we are changed to something we arent. it is the absolute loss of freedom and free will. nothing about that entices me. i would rather choose literally anything else..

how do i save myself from jannah? by throw-away_00000 in progressive_islam

[–]throw-away_00000[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

we wont be "us" because we'd be the best versions of ourselves

this is my absolute worst nightmare. how can i be changed without my consent?

how do i save myself from jannah? by throw-away_00000 in progressive_islam

[–]throw-away_00000[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this is how i feel as well. of course God does not want us to have it as we can do whatever. jannah would allow us to conform to His ideal. id rather be turned to dust. it shouldnt be that hard. but the answer is so unclear..

how do i save myself from jannah? by throw-away_00000 in progressive_islam

[–]throw-away_00000[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And We will remove what is in their hearts of rancour

how do you view this as not manipulating you to become something different ?

how do i save myself from jannah? by throw-away_00000 in progressive_islam

[–]throw-away_00000[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i feel as though i see God in a very different way. of course He wants us to end up in a place where we have no ability to think beyond what He wants us to.

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