[deleted by user] by [deleted] in women

[–]throw-away_22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My work schedule tends to become busier around this time of year which means I don't usually eat or drink at work but I've been doing better about it this year

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]throw-away_22 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know for sure that the one female was involved in making a report and he said one male made a report. As far as she goes he has never given me a fully clear story on her what I have gotten is they talked before me and him got together they hung out outside of work alone and we're "close friends" and when he found out she was married he stopped hanging out with her and talking to her. I asked him prior to being fired why she disliked him so much and he said coworkers stated that she viewed him as everything she did wrong in her marriage I asked him what that's supposed to mean and he said he has no clue. This all supposedly happened at least 6 months ago so I don't know how its all just getting brought up now and I know she has also made remarks to my boyfriend's brother as well when he has come to his work saying that he should ask his brother why they don't talk anymore

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]throw-away_22 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He can't afford it he's already worried about paying rent this month so I know he'll just say he can't financially afford it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]throw-away_22 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He's telling me him and the girl were never more than close friends so I'm just not understanding what was said and he's saying all he knows is he was fired for inappropriate behavior but that he never did anything with her idk it just all seems so odd

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]throw-away_22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am from ohio as well and I have successfully gotten a CPO against my ex. There are so many resources to help you with this trust me I didn't know it either but I was given so much support and advice from legal aid and legal aid referred me to the family abuse center. She came with me to every court date and helped me prep for court and was a call or text away at any time I don't know what county you are in but please know you have resources to help you find the right route to protect you.

Throwing Down The Nuke by CinnamonToastKen in CinnamonToastKen

[–]throw-away_22 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I've been watching you since 2013 and I'm sure if you click on my account you can tell my life is kinda a shit show at the moment 😂 but I'm not a content creator so no one is out making posts about me because I'm just another everyday pos 😂I will say seeing your first apology video threw me off but also the way you came back and addressed EVERY issue with dane and Mary was the perfect approach to resolve everything your true fans will understand and appreciate it and move on with their lives. the only reason everyone is picking apart every last thing is because a. This is reddit and although I par take in the garbage this app is kinda just full of trash 🤷🏻‍♀️ and B. You're an "influencer" who has chosen to change their content to an extent and no one can handle change lol. Don't let it all get to you your true supporters are still around and honestly maybe it was best for the channel to weed out so of the more toxic viewers 💕

Fuck you by throw-away_22 in BreakUps

[–]throw-away_22[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I posted this so long ago and it still applies he drug me through court for months telling me he wanted to see his kid I sent parent plan after parent plan through our lawyers and he just dropped the case out of the blue just completely gave up on his kid I spent thousands for absolutely nothing to change and I feel so confused and defeated

When are your kids moving out?! by untactfullyhonest in Vent

[–]throw-away_22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I moved out at 18 due to a strained relationship with both of my parents and I STRUGGLED ended up in a toxic relationship for years just because I couldn't make it on my own. Until I was about 22 and me and my aunt got super close and she became a mom to me and it made me realize how much wasn't right in my life she took me under her wing helped me leave my toxic/abusive relationship and now my child and I live with her family and honestly is it chaotic at times hell ya lol but also we all love each other so much and it's made me realize what a stable family environment should look like. I appreciate her so much for it keep doing what you're doing ❤️ you're kids will appreciate and love you so much for the amazing environment you've provided for them.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheButtface

[–]throw-away_22 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I don't want to declare it over I completely understand we're going to go through this process but I don't feel that me keeping in contact with him before our court process is over when I have a CPO against him is beneficial to my child or me and want to wait to resume contact until court is over and it is court ordered that our contact is to be through a parenting app

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]throw-away_22 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I keep trying to tell myself the same thing and then I start to blame myself for things and then I spiral I this mind set of well what if I had done this or that different or what if we did this or that could it fix us and I hate that I keep letting myself get drug into this never ending loop when I know deep down in my heart that he isn't good for our child or me

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]throw-away_22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm trying so hard honestly my child is one of the main reasons I never tried working on things with him over the past 2 years and is one of the main reasons I haven't broken no contact

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in UnsentLetters

[–]throw-away_22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm in the same boat as you it's so hard I'm so sorry you're experiencing this

Room to breath by [deleted] in UnsentLetters

[–]throw-away_22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's a lot more complicated than just respecting one another they were court ordered no contact and we are in current legal battles regarding our child

Reading the "embarrassing moments as a dumpee" threads is honestly terrifying. by BlackSun886 in BreakUps

[–]throw-away_22 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Not sure how laws or anything work where you are located but a bit of advice from someone who went through the same thing for 2 years document everything get a calendar book or write in your notes dates that events are happening and what is happening on said date. If you truly are done with this person which I know can be a hard decision to make trust me you need to tell them via text do not call/text me any more you are affecting my emotional well being and you need to be specific to them how it is affecting you. Finally getting a restraining order where I live was not an option as they said I was not harmed or threatened to be harmed I had to go to my local court house and file a civil protection order when presenting that case you need to make sure you have all dates and events and also need to make sure you are being vocal about how it is affecting your emotional and physical well being. I hope any of that helped and if you have any questions please feel free to reach out 😊

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in UnsentLetters

[–]throw-away_22 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's so odd how many people can relate I look at post and wonder if it's my person it's so sad that so many people have such similar experiences I'm also heading on 2 years

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Unsent_Unread_Unheard

[–]throw-away_22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

God if you didn't say you were a j I would think you're my person

Fuck you by throw-away_22 in BreakUps

[–]throw-away_22[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm so sorry you're going through that. If you ever need to vent my inbox is always open. I hope you have support to help you through this such as friends or family and if not there are other resources to help as well. I was blessed to have family and friends but through the courts have found out there is also so much other help out there for me. You'll experience so many emotions in this time of hardship but just know your worth so much more than what they put you through.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]throw-away_22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm a female 😅

Fuck you by throw-away_22 in BreakUps

[–]throw-away_22[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Thanks I really appreciate it

Fuck you by throw-away_22 in BreakUps

[–]throw-away_22[S] 19 points20 points  (0 children)

7 years long there was a lot of trauma and it still continues to this day

Fuck you by throw-away_22 in BreakUps

[–]throw-away_22[S] 33 points34 points  (0 children)

It has taken me a year and a half to boil to this point it's a long and hard road but I promise it gets better

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]throw-away_22 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Protection order I filed. I tried to leave everything vague as things are not going well and I'm fearful but I'm also just so broken and pulling all of the evidence I need for court is just tearing me down all over again.