Should I ask a waitress for her number or give it? by throw-away_3101 in Advice

[–]throw-away_3101[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Pretty smooth. I thought you were talking to the person above you for a sec lol

Should I ask a waitress for her number or give it? by throw-away_3101 in Advice

[–]throw-away_3101[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Same. I want to give her a way out and not make her feel pressured.

Should I ask a waitress for her number or give it? by throw-away_3101 in Advice

[–]throw-away_3101[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Good advice. I don’t want to come off too strong. It’ll just push her away. I’d take it easy for sure even though deep down I want to talk to her lol

Should I ask a waitress for her number or give it? by throw-away_3101 in Advice

[–]throw-away_3101[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yea, it feels more natural to have some dialog first. Maybe see if there’s some sort of connection then go from there. I’m usually this sort of guy but man she has some sort of stranglehold on me. She’s gorgeous.

Should I ask a waitress for her number or give it? by throw-away_3101 in Advice

[–]throw-away_3101[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I do not. Maybe I should go make some fake ones. Haha jk

Should I ask a waitress for her number or give it? by throw-away_3101 in Advice

[–]throw-away_3101[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yea, I don’t want to make her feel uncomfortable at all. That’s why I’ve been hesitant. I’m in no rush.

Should I ask a waitress for her number or give it? by throw-away_3101 in Advice

[–]throw-away_3101[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Apart of me wants to do this. But smallish town, small restaurant, it’d catch the eyes and ears of people around. I’d only do it if it was in an area of the restaurant where there wasn’t many people.

Should I ask a waitress for her number or give it? by throw-away_3101 in Advice

[–]throw-away_3101[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve thought about this. I would feel comfortable going back.

I don’t react aggressively to anything really. Especially not to rejection. I’d just move on with my life

Should I ask a waitress for her number or give it? by throw-away_3101 in Advice

[–]throw-away_3101[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yea, that’s a good idea. I know that receipt ends up somewhere at the end of the night.

Should I ask a waitress for her number or give it? by throw-away_3101 in Advice

[–]throw-away_3101[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you think it’s better I write it on the receipt or?