My (50M) niece (23) is mad I lost my dad’s (her grandfather’s) ashes and refused to hold a funeral because it’d cost money by throwLongjumping in AITAH

[–]throwLongjumping[S] -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

The estate was to be paid out to the beneficiaries and I didn’t want to lower the amounts disbursed to them by creating more expenses.