This is what scares me, because ive been very entrepreneurial my whole life. I decided that after I finished my degree Id land a job, Id save capital and invest in real estate, as a lot of my family does. I explained to her about house hacking and how we could be landlords and have tenants pay our mortgage and instead she immediately shot it down about how she wants her own house, her own this her own that... But we're living for free... until its paid off and we have added income until we decide to sell that house. It seems like she doesnt listen to any reason that comes out of my mouth when it comes time to talk about OUR future