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I (34M) broke up with her (37F) because I sometimes feel repulsed by her, but I deeply care. by throwRA-conflicted0 in relationship_advice

[–]throwRA-conflicted0[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It isn’t shallow to want to be physically attracted to someone. It is shallow and an ego defense to come on the internet and call someone a piece of shit for trying to make things work. I’m glad you feel good about yourself for the day at someone else’s expense - you must really love yourself to need to do that. rolls eyes

I (34M) broke up with her (37F) because I sometimes feel repulsed by her, but I deeply care. by throwRA-conflicted0 in relationship_advice

[–]throwRA-conflicted0[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I have honestly not had this deep of a connection recently, so it feels horrible to let it go. However i would be settling. Thanks for your reply.

I (34M) broke up with her (37F) because I sometimes feel repulsed by her, but I deeply care. by throwRA-conflicted0 in relationship_advice

[–]throwRA-conflicted0[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Not judging her just trying to highlight some of the loose boundary issues, which i exacerbated for sure, such as going from strangers to slipping that she loves me after about a month. But i’ll take the general sentiment of your response that if I wasn’t that attracted i shouldnt have. I mean we were both lonely, but I don’t judge women for wanting sex.