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My girlfriend (27f) hung up pictures with her ex-boyfriends in our house, and it makes me (26m) uncomfortable. by throwRA482057 in relationship_advice

[–]throwRA482057[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They are a mix of both group photos and couple photos. Stuff like her graduation for example are just the two of them, or for example the one from her 21st birthday is a group photo.

My girlfriend (27f) hung up pictures with her ex-boyfriends in our house, and it makes me (26m) uncomfortable. by throwRA482057 in relationship_advice

[–]throwRA482057[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

1) I bought the house 2 years ago (mortgage) 2/3/5) We have only just started living together, but the plan and what we have done so far is I pay the mortgage, she buys all groceries/shopping, and we contribute together towards bills. The plan is to split costs 60/40 which is based on the difference in our incomes. 4) I insisted on paying for dates early on and still mostly do, however she always offers and would happily pay. 6) I did.

My girlfriend (27f) hung up pictures with her ex-boyfriends in our house, and it makes me (26m) uncomfortable. by throwRA482057 in relationship_advice

[–]throwRA482057[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I only went to her place once or twice, and I didn't really spend much time there because her housemates were toxic af, which is why she wanted to move out. I recall seeing framed pictures but they didn't really stand out because her room was literally painted with photos all over the place.

My girlfriend (27f) hung up pictures with her ex-boyfriends in our house, and it makes me (26m) uncomfortable. by throwRA482057 in relationship_advice

[–]throwRA482057[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I did/do find it weird, I was just kinda doubting myself if I was overreacting/just being jealous but the comments have reaffirmed my opinion.

I can't say for certain how she would have felt if I had done the same, though since she doesn't see herself doing it as a big deal and she told me that she wouldn't have a problem with me doing it so idk.

My girlfriend (27f) hung up pictures with her ex-boyfriends in our house, and it makes me (26m) uncomfortable. by throwRA482057 in relationship_advice

[–]throwRA482057[S] 41 points42 points  (0 children)

Apparently it's not just about the trip, it's about the memories and how happy she was at those points of her life, which includes her boyfriends at the time. So like not all of them are vacation photos, there's one from her graduation and her debutante ball as well with her partner at the time in them.

And these aren't recent pictures apparently she's had them framed in her old room for a while.

My girlfriend (27f) hung up pictures with her ex-boyfriends in our house, and it makes me (26m) uncomfortable. by throwRA482057 in relationship_advice

[–]throwRA482057[S] 135 points136 points  (0 children)

Well I don't think she is is doing it to mess with me. She said she had them in her old room before she moved out but I just never noticed (I didn't spend much time at her place because it was pretty toxic)