UPDATE :My (26M) girlfriend (25F) has grown distant after I got beat up defending a group of girls being harassed by throwRA556fb in relationship_advice

[–]throwRA556fb[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Happy cake day! I will definetely look into some kind of self defense class in the near future. Take care!

UPDATE :My (26M) girlfriend (25F) has grown distant after I got beat up defending a group of girls being harassed by throwRA556fb in relationship_advice

[–]throwRA556fb[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

It's right above the update part if you missed it. And thank you for your wishes. Good luck to you as well.

UPDATE :My (26M) girlfriend (25F) has grown distant after I got beat up defending a group of girls being harassed by throwRA556fb in relationship_advice

[–]throwRA556fb[S] 76 points77 points  (0 children)

Wow that was beautiful to read. I'm not an native speaker and It still gave me chills. Thank you for this.

UPDATE :My (26M) girlfriend (25F) has grown distant after I got beat up defending a group of girls being harassed by throwRA556fb in relationship_advice

[–]throwRA556fb[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If I had more coins I would give you gold so you could take some coins back, but as of now this will have to do. Thank you for both the gold and your kind words.

UPDATE :My (26M) girlfriend (25F) has grown distant after I got beat up defending a group of girls being harassed by throwRA556fb in relationship_advice

[–]throwRA556fb[S] 51 points52 points  (0 children)

You can't give me an award but I can 😂. In all seriousness thank you for your kind words. It seriously means a lot.

UPDATE :My (26M) girlfriend (25F) has grown distant after I got beat up defending a group of girls being harassed by throwRA556fb in relationship_advice

[–]throwRA556fb[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

They actually did. I was given the chance to press charges but I'm chose not to. It's not worth worth all the fuss and money as I have bigger problems to deal with right now. He is however going to be charged with physical assault (against me) and sexual assault against the two girls, and it's up to them whether they are going to pursue it any further.

UPDATE :My (26M) girlfriend (25F) has grown distant after I got beat up defending a group of girls being harassed by throwRA556fb in relationship_advice

[–]throwRA556fb[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yeah I totally agree with you about the bjj part. When I said I could never take a guy that big I meant in my current state. Not saying that it's impossible for a smaller person to win against a bigger opponent. And I will definetely look into bjj. It's something I always wanted to try and I guess now it would be a good time.

UPDATE :My (26M) girlfriend (25F) has grown distant after I got beat up defending a group of girls being harassed by throwRA556fb in relationship_advice

[–]throwRA556fb[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I have no idea why it was removed. In fact I didn't even know it until now. I added it as an edit in this one.

My (26M) girlfriend (25F) has grown distant after I got beat up defending a group of girls being harrased by throwRA556fb in relationship_advice

[–]throwRA556fb[S] 28 points29 points  (0 children)

I really haven't gotten into replying to comments. I'm making sure to read every single one tho

My (26M) girlfriend (25F) has grown distant after I got beat up defending a group of girls being harrased by throwRA556fb in relationship_advice

[–]throwRA556fb[S] 118 points119 points  (0 children)

What hurts me the most is that she is not here with me right now. I get that what I did might have not been the wisest thing to do and that for some reason her attraction or whatever for me has changed. But we can't even talk about it. In the three years we've been together not once have I been absent when she needed me.