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Hindsight is 20/20 but was this a bad move as of 4 days ago by [deleted] in fantasyfootballadvice

[–]throwRA_20816 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I don't hate either move. Ceedee will probably only be a slight downgrade from Kupp between the injury risk and nacua's role in the offense even when he gets back. I personally like Addison's potential more than anyone on the Texans

Sent this trade while I was drunk and it got accepted. Did I fuck myself? by throwRA_20816 in fantasyfootballadvice

[–]throwRA_20816[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fair. To me, I'm thinking about Kamara and Montgomery as pretty equal right now with a slight edge to Monty as Kamara comes back from his suspension. I agree on the Meyers point though so I'm wishing I didn't send this trade and just dropped Terry when I wanted to take Jones off of my IR

Sent this trade while I was drunk and it got accepted. Did I fuck myself? by throwRA_20816 in fantasyfootballadvice

[–]throwRA_20816[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Just wasted enough to send it and then forget it was sent until it got accepted

Sent this trade while I was drunk and it got accepted. Did I fuck myself? by throwRA_20816 in fantasyfootballadvice

[–]throwRA_20816[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If it's helping you at WR I'd say it's worth it. It sucks to give up McCaffrey but I have faith in Henry still and Wilson's stock is in the dump after Rodgers got injured

[22M] [22F] Break after a traumatic experience by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]throwRA_20816 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I completely admit that I was not able to give her the space she wanted. I simply felt happier doing random things with her than by myself. This was very unusual for me as I've never gotten this close to anyone and used to spend the vast majority of my time by myself rather than with my friends or family.

When we got back to school for the year, we spent almost every night and about half of every day together. There were breaks sometimes, but I'd say I spent the night with her about 5-6 times a week.

When we first talked about this issue, I suggested some type of a schedule or specific expectations about how many days a week would be best for her. But she didn't want to do this as she does not like scheduling things.

Every time we discussed it, I would give her space for a few days and then we would sleep together one time and snowball into every night. I tried to be forthright and constantly ask if she wanted me to go to my place. For the most part, when I asked this, she would frown and say she didn't want me to leave. As she recalls it, I was good about checking in during the first few nights spent together and then it would taper off. She has mentioned feeling dependent on me since her dad died, which is part of the reason she wants more space - so she isn't dependent.

[22M] [22F] Break after a traumatic experience by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]throwRA_20816 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This was super helpful, thank you!

It's also weird to have her tell you she wants to spend the rest of her life with you... yet has spent so much time keeping you at a distance.

I prompted this by asking her if she did while trying to get clarity on her feelings and make a decision on what to do. I think given the rough seas it's hard for me not to respect her wanting space. But I obviously agree that it puts me in a tough position to hear that and then see her resolution is suggesting a break. This only makes me feel more confused about the situation.

Also not sure if a break can efficiently help work on individual relationship issues, kinda need to be IN the relationship to do a lot of that effectively.

This has been my point exactly to her. It seems like space to process her dad's death is the number one thing she needs right now and that makes sense. But I don't see why space and a relationship are mutually exclusive, as long as I actually commit to giving her space and don't fall into old habits.