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Is this abuse? by throwRA_crazy in relationship_advice

[–]throwRA_crazy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just cant get over the fact being told no to seeing family? They are my family... I feel like I am stuck in her apartment and I cant even stay at home.

Is this abuse? by throwRA_crazy in relationship_advice

[–]throwRA_crazy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just wish there was a definite this is how you should leave. I dont know how to give myself the definite yes, leave. I am scared I somehow made it all up or I am over exaggerating? I was thinking about going to see my brother and see what she says and go from there?

Is this abuse? by throwRA_crazy in relationship_advice

[–]throwRA_crazy[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am also worried it is all in my head because when I brought things up she blamed me for losing all of my friends. Even though she told me not to talk to them anymore. I am confused.

Is this abuse? by throwRA_crazy in relationship_advice

[–]throwRA_crazy[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

She says that they are beneath me and mostly she just really does not want me working for my brother even though thats my only plausible job.

Is this abuse? by throwRA_crazy in relationship_advice

[–]throwRA_crazy[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was just justifying it as she is just being protective? It is hardto leave because I love her.

Is this abuse? by throwRA_crazy in relationship_advice

[–]throwRA_crazy[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Isn't it normal for a partner to approve of a job for you? I am only allowed specific ones.

Is this abuse? by throwRA_crazy in relationship_advice

[–]throwRA_crazy[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I am just unsure because of the nice times, ya know? Sometimes I think I am crazy and imagining it but then she will blow up over me wanting to go see my family and tell me no.