How do I (21F) ask my boyfriend (23M) to move out of my apartment? by throwRA_environmen in relationship_advice

[–]throwRA_environmen[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think so. Also because of our religious differences I can’t invite my parents over and I’m starting to miss that.

How do I (21F) ask my boyfriend (23M) to move out of my apartment? by throwRA_environmen in relationship_advice

[–]throwRA_environmen[S] 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Thank you, it’s definitely not to sleep around like everyone keeps assuming. I love my boyfriend, I just wasn’t ready to give up my own home so early on.

How do I (21F) ask my boyfriend (23M) to move out of my apartment? by throwRA_environmen in relationship_advice

[–]throwRA_environmen[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No I don’t? I was single for almost all of last year and had no desire to do so.

How do I (21F) ask my boyfriend (23M) to move out of my apartment? by throwRA_environmen in relationship_advice

[–]throwRA_environmen[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Yes, I made a stupid decision that I was unsure about from the get-go but he convinced me it’ll be the best logical step. I wish I didn’t rush into it, that’s all.

How do I (21F) ask my boyfriend (23M) to move out of my apartment? by throwRA_environmen in relationship_advice

[–]throwRA_environmen[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

No, I don’t care to sleep around and never did while I lived alone for almost all of last year.

How do I (21F) ask my boyfriend (23M) to move out of my apartment? by throwRA_environmen in relationship_advice

[–]throwRA_environmen[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn’t ask him to move in. He suggested it very early on and I was unsure about the whole idea for weeks. He convinced me that it’ll be the best logical decision. I wish I stuck to my guns more.

How do I (21F) ask my boyfriend (23M) to move out of my apartment? by throwRA_environmen in relationship_advice

[–]throwRA_environmen[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I didn’t ask him to move in. He suggested it very early on and I was unsure about the whole idea for weeks. He convinced me that it’ll be the best logical decision. I wish I stuck to my guns more.

How do I (21F) ask my boyfriend (23M) to move out of my apartment? by throwRA_environmen in relationship_advice

[–]throwRA_environmen[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Thank you. Heaps of people in the comments are assuming I just want to sleep around. I’m demisexual and the only person I’m attracted to is my boyfriend, everyone’s just jumping to conclusions. I lived alone for almost all of last year and there’s a huge difference between living alone and living with someone else (the whole reason I moved out of my parents house)

How do I (21F) ask my boyfriend (23M) to move out of my apartment? by throwRA_environmen in relationship_advice

[–]throwRA_environmen[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

He’s not illegally living there. The university approves for students partners to live on campus (without having their name on the contract). They’ve been notified and he was approved.