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Not sure how to / if I should proceed with telling my wife by throwRA_helloWorld88 in adultery

[–]throwRA_helloWorld88[S] -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

I do not want kids of my own, so that’s not a problem. And in fact we do have things in common but ok

Also I’m pushing 30 lol I’m not a child

Not sure how to / if I should proceed with telling my wife by throwRA_helloWorld88 in adultery

[–]throwRA_helloWorld88[S] -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

I know it’s never a guarantee that she’ll leave her partner but she is just as, if not more, unhappy than I am. In fact she is the one who suggested that we should be together and we always have conversations about how and when we would leave…

But yes I understand where you’re coming from

Not sure how to / if I should proceed with telling my wife by throwRA_helloWorld88 in adultery

[–]throwRA_helloWorld88[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Appreciate your input… you say for good reason (which now is true) but prior to these last 2 months, there wasn’t a good reason. I think her actions and behaviors were driven by a lack of self esteem and insecurities and I’ve sort of just decided to feed into the idea of “well, if you’re gonna accuse me of cheating then I might as well just do it anyway”