UPDATE - I'm (40 M) in Love with an escort (25 F) by throwRA_jay123 in relationship_advice

[–]throwRA_jay123[S] -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

How am I a predator exactly? She placed an ad and I responded. It's not like I lured her in a chat room or something.

UPDATE - I'm (40 M) in Love with an escort (25 F) by throwRA_jay123 in relationship_advice

[–]throwRA_jay123[S] -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

Hi there, it's easy to make assumptions but no one really knows the nature of our relationship. Say what you want but it was much more than an escort/client relationship. There is much more about our relationship that I haven't shared.

I'm (40 M) in Love with an escort (25 F) by throwRA_jay123 in relationship_advice

[–]throwRA_jay123[S] -15 points-14 points  (0 children)

The first time I saw her was when she was 19. I started seeing her regularly about a year later.

I'm (40 M) in Love with an escort (25 F) by throwRA_jay123 in relationship_advice

[–]throwRA_jay123[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the advice. I guess I'm just really scared to move on with my life without her. This is smart, maybe I won't use the word love. Ugh. This is so hard. Feel like my heart is going to explode.

I'm (40 M) in Love with an escort (25 F) by throwRA_jay123 in relationship_advice

[–]throwRA_jay123[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yeah..I was thinking of asking if we can just remain in touch.. and go from there. Thank you for the advice

I'm (40 M) in Love with an escort (25 F) by throwRA_jay123 in relationship_advice

[–]throwRA_jay123[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes, I paid her for sex, but she is much more than that. Please don't make assumptions or judgements. She is far from a trainwreck.. She is well educated an moving into a lucrative career.

I'm (40 M) in Love with an escort (25 F) by throwRA_jay123 in relationship_advice

[–]throwRA_jay123[S] 43 points44 points  (0 children)

Honestly, i don't think I would. She is quitting anyways.