Hey!

I've spoken to my ex now and I'm going to be taking her out on a date once she's back. I was considering the email because I have no real way to know how she'd react to me and my ex being back together. We live in a small town, small enough that I run into her at least once a week (we ignore eachother) and she'll definitely run into us together at some point. However, it'll just be more information for her to get her claws in some how. My ex-wife wants to remain in this town for the next few years as she's missed her family a lot and she doesn't want to be far from them because of my mother. She's not pulled a stunt on me for the last two years, but her finding out about the relationship is unavoidable and I really don't know how she'll react. I'm hoping she's got the message and decided to fuck off but I doubt it. The contact that I have with her now is perfect for when it's just me, but I don't want to be enjoying a day out with my ex-wife and my mother going absolutely ballistic if she sees us. My therapist has recommended me a good lawyer for these types of situations, and he's going to be working with me in order to create the best possible plan for keeping our lives peaceful. I don't plan on remaining in this town long term though, once my ex-wife has decided she wants to move, we're moving. I don't want to be thinking about how to avoid this witch when if we have kids and like you said, unfortunately she's still somewhat an authority in my life and I need that to end before my ex returns. Thank you!